u/LacyRedFox

Anyone else come to love the mornings where you wake up straining against the cage? Dazed, half asleep, grinding against the bed pretending there's a chance at relief 🫠

My relationship with myself has improved with chastity on a couple of fronts. First it has helped with ADHD symptoms like focus and task completion. 2nd it keeps me in a state that feels closer to the core me, more embracing of my femininity, less concerned of how Im recieved by others.

Now for in our relationship. Chastity was just a kink reserved to the bedroom for the first year in our relationship. I had introduced it and She was open but not particularly interested in anything beyond the aesthetics. Then I read a book to Her that reports on the benefits of chastity in the context of a relationship. This changed both of our framings of chastity from a toy to a tool.

The main benefit has been being more present and connected in our relationship. By eliminating full orgasms from my masturbatory routine, I became unable to use it as a stress reliever. While frustrating at first it made me realize that the majority of times I had masturbated to that end. That would leave me less present with my Wife because that sexual energy was wasted on nothing.

But then, there's something remarkable that happens after being locked and denied at the 2+ week mark. Something shifts in the brain's wiring that can replace pleasure sources, kind of like the trope of losing a sense and enhancing the remaining. As a service submissive, the service itself begins to offer actual physical pleasure. Giving Her a massage will send genuine shivers down my spine. Doing Her laundry will have the cage dripping in anticipation of a "good boy."

I would love to hear other perspectives on what changed in yourself or in your relationships after chastity cages were introduced.

Just an appreciation post 🥰😘

I have gone through a number of cages and I've kept the ones I enjoy for one reason or another. My custom PA integrated BAWR cage is my comfiest and my go-to. The kink3d cages are a close 2nd for comfort. The cherry keepers are there extra small and are used by my Wife as punishment in our FLR.

I would like to start a monthly chastity meet up where we can talk about being locked and offer advice and support. My Wife is sick of hearing about it all the time 😆

Hi there! Ive been a chastity enthusiast for 5+ years, wearing cages 24/7 under my amazing Wife who hold my keys in our Female-Led Relationship. I started this community to find like-minded friends to share in our chastity journey. I have a fair amount of experience in this lifestyle and am happy to offer advice on devices, hygiene/maintenance, and managing the feelings chastity and denial can boil up. I also started making chastity harness like the one pictured here, I'd love to make some customs for local chastity friends.