u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH

Soft boy kink

40-something dominant older woman here. I posted something earlier this week about MILF-y vibes and liking soft boys and didn't expect na my DM's would explode haha.

There's something about soft boys or soft boy looking guys na I find really attractive. Is it the glasses, the smooth skin, the soft spoken-ness? I am not talking about someone performative and lalo na someone who's a gymbro chode. Especially don't like those guys who give an entire rap sheet of their "credentials" / cringe phrases like face cards, schools etc.

And how they are behind closed doors. Grabe, ang lakas pala ng stamina haha. Dahil nga most submissive, I have full control on what they do (I also have an edging kink). For context, I fucked this younger guy once (we are talking 20's here). It was marathon-level, and we were so into each other na after all of it, siya na yung hindi nakalakad pauwi instead of me 😃

Especially those soft boys with breeding kinks and when they can't hold their cum, tapos they have to "swear allegiance" to me na they won't fuck anyone else. Ang sarap promise.

P.S. Older women still have high libido unlike what most people think. 😉

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 1 day ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for soft boy

Hey there!

Mature woman here looking for a skinny soft boy who's well-mannered and can meet-up.

Me: Thicc, knows what she wants, likes someone submissive, not a DDS

You: Conversational, not a snob, and definitely not a DDS

Must be okay with calls for vibe checks.

Plus points if you're into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 1 day ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for young stud

Hey there!

Mature woman here looking for a skinny soft boy who's well-mannered and can meet-up.

Me: Thicc, knows what she wants, likes someone submissive, not a DDS

You: Conversational, not a snob, and definitely not a DDS

Must be okay with calls for vibe checks.

Plus points if you're into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 1 day ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for a soft boy

Hey there!

Mature woman here looking for a skinny soft boy who's well-mannered and can meet-up.

Me: Thicc, knows what she wants, likes someone submissive, not a DDS

You: Conversational, not a snob, and definitely not a DDS

Must be okay with calls for vibe checks.

Plus points if you're into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 1 day ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for a soft boy

Hey there!

Mature woman here looking for a skinny soft boy who's well-mannered and can meet-up.

Me: Thicc, knows what she wants, likes someone submissive, not a DDS

You: Conversational, not a snob, and definitely not a DDS

Must be okay with calls for vibe checks.

Plus points if you're into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 1 day ago
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39 [F4M] Late night conversations (calls only)

As the title says, looking for late night conversations as I am a night owl and do most of my clear thinking at night. 😃

My only asks are you a non-DDS, well-mannered and respectful, and can handle a woman who is very straightforward.

Plus points if you're into Resident Evil and know the difference between their and there.

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 2 days ago

Older dominant woman / MILF-y vibes

Kwarentahin Tita here and I realised na kaya pala hindi ako nag-eenjoy sa sex when I was younger is because I was being submissive. When I started being dominant, ang intoxicating pala niya.

I particularly like edging a guy and/or have an ownership kink (when we are doing the deed lang). Or say my name over and over then command him to give me multiple creampies.

As I also grew older, I felt more attracted to guys in their 20’s. Yung tamang soft boy looking lang, skinny, glasses, goes to cafes and wearing oversized T-shirts to make their bodies look bulkier. Cute lang 😅

I’m genuinely curious though if guys still feel intimidated by a thicc older woman who knows what she truly wants. Ang hirap kasi makahanap ng ganap na submissive, then sinasabi lang lagi na “you’re my MILF fantasy” pero all bark, no bite. Anyone experienced being a sub to an older woman?

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 5 days ago

39 [F4M] Late night conversations (calls only)

Had a change of plans this week and suddenly had more free time. So now I am looking for a well-mannered gent to keep me company. No long-winded texting please or low effort, one-liner intros like hello or hi."

My only ask is you know the difference between your and you're and that you are not a DDS.

Plus points if you are into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 5 days ago

39 [F4M] Easygoing conversations (calls only)

Hey there. Plans got cancelled this weekend unfortunately due to the sudden change in weather. Now I am suddenly stuck indoors and nothing to do.

Let's keep each other company? I am fairly easygoing, can converse well, however I do not like prolonged texting (texts are ALWAYS prone to miscommunication). Calls only please.

Plus points if you're into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 8 days ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for skinny stud

Hey there!

Looking for a well-mannered young stud who likes it when a woman is in control.

About me: 5'3, thicc (think Adele), knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a text mate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 8 days ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for a skinny young stud

Hey there!

Looking for a well-mannered young stud who likes it when a woman is in control.

About me: 5'3, thicc (think Adele), knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a text mate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 8 days ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for skinny young stud

Hey there!

Looking for a well-mannered young stud who likes it when a woman is in control.

About me: 5'3, thicc (think Adele), knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a text mate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 8 days ago

39 [F4M] For night owls

Looking for fellow night owls who can talk about anything under the sun (or heat for that matter 😅).

Don’t care about race or age, just as long as you’re well-mannered, well-versed and definitely NOT a DDS.

Not into long drawn texts and prefer calls over TG. Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 12 days ago

39 [F4M] Looking for a submissive stud

Hey there!

Looking for a well-mannered young stud who likes it when a woman is in control.

About me: thicc, knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a textmate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 12 days ago

39 [F4M] Looking for submissive young stud

Hey there!

Looking for a well-mannered young stud who likes it when a woman is in control.

About me: thicc, knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a textmate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 12 days ago

39 [F4M] LF for submissive young stud

Hey there!

Looking for a well-mannered young stud who likes it when a woman is in control.

About me: thicc, knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a textmate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 12 days ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for a soft boy

Hey there!

Idk what it is about soft boys. Is it the glasses? The way they talk? Their awkwardness???? Idk I just find them so hot. I've always been attracted to the quiet and mysterious people but nerds/geeks whatever, they know so much and I love hearing him rant on and on about their interests. 

About me: thicc, knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a textmate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 14 days ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for soft boy

Hey there!

Idk what it is about soft boys. Is it the glasses? The way they talk? Their awkwardness???? Idk I just find them so hot. I've always been attracted to the quiet and mysterious people but nerds/geeks whatever, they know so much and I love hearing him rant on and on about their interests. 

About me: thicc, knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a textmate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 14 days ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for a soft boy

Hey there!

Idk what it is about soft boys. Is it the glasses? The way they talk? Their awkwardness???? Idk I just find them so hot. I've always been attracted to the quiet and mysterious people but nerds/geeks whatever, they know so much and I love hearing him rant on and on about their interests. 

About me: thicc, knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a textmate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 14 days ago

39 [F4M] MILF looking for a soft boy

Hey there!

Idk what it is about soft boys. Is it the glasses? The way they talk? Their awkwardness???? Idk I just find them so hot. I've always been attracted to the quiet and mysterious people but nerds/geeks whatever, they know so much and I love hearing him rant on and on about their interests. 

About me: thicc, knows what she wants, likes properly-grammar-ed conversations, not a DDS, and do not use cringe phrases like face card ratings.

You: must be skinny (lean muscular at most, sorry no dadbods or equivalent), an absolute sub (not exploring or pretending to be one) — the more soft boy looking, the better. And at bare minimum have a job and know the difference between your and you’re.

I am NOT looking for a textmate or online relationship. MUST be open to calls / vibe checks.

Plus points if you’re into Resident Evil or LOTR!

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u/Lady-Dimitrescu-PH — 14 days ago