Perimenopause/Menopause
My wife has been going through some of this for a little while now. Though recently things have been getting a bit more intense for her. Things have slowed down in the bedroom a little when it comes to using toys in general.
For those that have any experience with the perimenopause and menopause, how have things changed when it comes to the use of sleeves?
If you have made it through menopause are you enjoying sleeves again, if it changed at all or prefer not to use them?
We have a small handful of sleeves and we would use them occasionally. Now she says she doesn't need anything extra. Thankfully for both of us she is able to orgasm with piv pretty regularly. She does have a couple sleeves she prefers and we were regularly looking at new options. Now when I show her new options she is less interested. This is ok, just a change we both noticed.
I know she is going through a lot and I'm not trying to push her in any direction. We have both been talking about this and are both curious how others may have navigated this part of life.
She has put up with my mentally unstable ass for years lol. Being a combat veteran I've had to work through some things, thankfully with her but my side for most of it. Now it's my turn to do what I can to help her through all of this. We've been together for 27 years now so we're going to work through this like everything else. She's mostly trying to realize she's not alone in what she may be going through in the bedroom area. (I wanna know too so I can keep her happy in and out of the bedroom lol.)
Asking here simply because I don't know many outside of this group that partake in similar activities.