r/Cock_Sleeve

How do I get or bring up to my gf I wanna use a cock sleeve on her. Love seeing her with bigger cocks.

I love spoiling her with a big 10in thick cock sleeve every now and then. She loves my cock but I just love making her feel stretched and full. She’s never been with other men and she’s such a good deserving wife. She tried being shy about it but her body told me otherwise. She loves it and orgasms so hard on it. 😏

Has anyone ever used this product King Cock Hollow Strap-on Harness Set 9.8 Inch ? I’m pretty sure I cannot use it with the inner tube but I wonder if it won’t be too large inside without.

My conservative wife surprised me after we started experimenting in the bedroom.
I’m an average East Asian guy with a 4.5-inch penis and about a 4.25-inch girth. My wife is also East Asian, and she’s always been very conservative. To give you an idea, we didn’t even kiss until we’d been dating for about a year. We were together for nine years before getting married in 2025.
Throughout our relationship, I’d occasionally bring up trying toys or experimenting a little, but she always shut the idea down. She would tell me she loved my body as it was and had no interest in anything bigger. She also worried that suggesting something larger might hurt my feelings.
The funny thing is, it never did.
I’ve never been insecure about my size. If anything, one of my biggest fantasies has always been using a penis sleeve not because I wanted to replace myself, but because I wanted to experience what it would be like to fill her up more and see how she’d react.
It took years of conversations, but about two months after our wedding she finally agreed to give it a try. She made one condition: the penis sleeve would be the only toy. No other toys, no pushing boundaries. I happily agreed because, to me, it was already a huge step.
The first attempt wasn’t great.
We had both showered, got into bed, and I put the sleeve on. After only a couple of minutes she asked me to take it off because it felt too big and too deep. I figured that was probably the end of the experiment.
A few days later, I asked if she’d be willing to try one more time. This time we took things much slower. We spent a long time on foreplay, and we had sex normally for around 15 minutes before I switched to the sleeve. I also used plenty of lubricant.
The difference was night and day.
Instead of rushing, I went slowly and let her adjust. At first she said it was intense, but after a while she relaxed. Little by little she became more comfortable until she was able to take the entire sleeve.
That was when everything changed.
She told me afterward that she’d had multiple orgasms, and I’d honestly never seen her react like that before. At one point she climbed on top and took control, switching positions on her own. For someone who had always been shy and reserved in bed, it completely caught me off guard.
Since then, I’ve noticed she’s become much more enthusiastic about sex in general. Before, I was almost always the one initiating. Now she flirts more, teases me more, and seems genuinely excited.
One day I jokingly asked her, “So… you like bigger dicks now?”
She looked at me, smiled, gave me a little wink, and simply said,
“Maybe.”
I don’t think I’ve ever been more shocked.
Not because of what she said, but because it was so unlike the woman I’d known for almost a decade.
After that, I brought up trying a vaginal plug to help her get comfortable before using the sleeve. I honestly expected another long discussion.
Instead, she immediately said yes.
Last week, after she got out of the shower, she put it in without saying anything. She wore it for over an hour while I was getting ready.
When I walked into the bedroom and realized she already had it in, I was instantly turned on.
She smiled and said,
“My pussy is ready for that big cock.”
For a split second, my brain froze.
Normally we’d start with my real penis before switching to the sleeve, but this time she skipped straight to talking about the sleeve. Part of me had the funny thought, Am I getting cucked by my own fantasy?
Then I realized…
This was exactly what I’d been hoping for all along.
We ended up having one of the best nights we’ve ever had together. When I got close to finishing, I took the sleeve off and finished with my own body, just like we usually do.
What surprised me most wasn’t the physical experience it was seeing my wife become more confident, playful, and open after years of being so reserved. Watching her gradually become comfortable enough to explore something we had talked about for years has honestly been one of the most rewarding parts of our marriage.
Now we’ve ordered a slightly larger sleeve to continue exploring together, taking things one step at a time and making sure we’re both comfortable with every new experience.

Male: 29 5ft7
Female: 28 4ft11
Penis sleeve we used is 7inches long 5.1inches circumference