r/Cock_Sleeve

I'm probably in a little bit different situation here than most. Due to spinal injuries I suffer from ed issues and Im not actually in relationship right now. If in future I happened to find a partner though I would be quite interested to experiment with sleeves. Perhaps because of my disability I don't really have any insecurity about my size.

However, one thing I find quite massive turnoff (not shaming anyone here just stating how it is) is all sorts of cuckolding/hotwifing. When I look post histories here they very often contain those kind of things.

This is a bit premature admittedly since most important is to talk with future partner personally about these things but it probably would put my mind at ease if there were couples here who are content with playing with (big) sleeves with just their partner and without being with or fantasizing of any other people in bed.

Can someone please point me in the right direction for my first sleeve purchase. I'm 7.5 inch long and 5.5 inch girth, and want to stretch out my wife a bit more. Can someone recommend a sleeve that will accommodate my size. I'm in Sydney, Australia. Needs to be available online here.

Hello all

So I've used a sleeve a handful of times and the wife has enjoyed it. However she's had a handful of complaints around the actual sleeves we've used and we're so now we're looking for a sleeve with the following characteristics

1. Feels real--ish. Biggest complaint with our first sleeve was it felt hard and plastic as opposed to say a silicone or other material. She wants something that feels more real than a plastic.

2. Right size--we've had two sleeves total, both have been slightly too big with the first one, even though it was a harder plastic, bending near the top. Needs to extend or make girth larger for a standard 5.5 inch.

3. Little to no pleasure for me--part of the goal of the sleeve for us is to lengthen our sessions. I've used the fatboy silicone sleeve but the internal is like a fleshlight and I finish even faster crazy enough. Tried with a condom on and didn't help much.

Any recommendations are appreciated!

Fully erect my length is between 7.5-8 depending on arousal. I’m straight in shape. The thickness is about 5.5. I’d assumes it’s slightly thicker when fully aroused but I think these are my true averages.

Anyway, any recommendations on what his sleeve and what internal size should I consider. My wife likes stiff erections, in which I lack. But she doesn’t not like hard stiff heads. Preferably as realistic feeling as possible. I hope to find a good sleeve especially if I spend the money for it. Thanks guys!

So, I’m (m38) thinking of surprising my wife (f37) with a cock-sleeve. I’m average, she’s stretchy, so I’m pretty confident she can take something more than just what god gave me 🍌 and when we’ve played with dildoes a bit larger than me, she’s responded positively!

Any ball park figure that you think I should start at? I get that it is entirely individual, but maybe tell me about the sizes you all have found pleasurable 😊

My wife has been going through some of this for a little while now. Though recently things have been getting a bit more intense for her. Things have slowed down in the bedroom a little when it comes to using toys in general.

For those that have any experience with the perimenopause and menopause, how have things changed when it comes to the use of sleeves?

If you have made it through menopause are you enjoying sleeves again, if it changed at all or prefer not to use them?

We have a small handful of sleeves and we would use them occasionally. Now she says she doesn't need anything extra. Thankfully for both of us she is able to orgasm with piv pretty regularly. She does have a couple sleeves she prefers and we were regularly looking at new options. Now when I show her new options she is less interested. This is ok, just a change we both noticed.

I know she is going through a lot and I'm not trying to push her in any direction. We have both been talking about this and are both curious how others may have navigated this part of life.

She has put up with my mentally unstable ass for years lol. Being a combat veteran I've had to work through some things, thankfully with her but my side for most of it. Now it's my turn to do what I can to help her through all of this. We've been together for 27 years now so we're going to work through this like everything else. She's mostly trying to realize she's not alone in what she may be going through in the bedroom area. (I wanna know too so I can keep her happy in and out of the bedroom lol.)

Asking here simply because I don't know many outside of this group that partake in similar activities.

Hello looking for our first sleeve and know these questions have been probably asked already but I've been researching for the past 3 days and thinking about going with the se governor mini duel density looking on recommendations on the length and girth and also if the gummy bear head is worth it along with the ultra finish? And what shore rating is everyone going with. my girth is exactly 1.5 and im like 4.5 with out pushing in my fat to much lol. Id appreciate any insight. Thanks