u/Own_Low7740

Hello looking for our first sleeve and know these questions have been probably asked already but I've been researching for the past 3 days and thinking about going with the se governor mini duel density looking on recommendations on the length and girth and also if the gummy bear head is worth it along with the ultra finish? And what shore rating is everyone going with. my girth is exactly 1.5 and im like 4.5 with out pushing in my fat to much lol. Id appreciate any insight. Thanks