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Fully erect my length is between 7.5-8 depending on arousal. I’m straight in shape. The thickness is about 5.5. I’d assumes it’s slightly thicker when fully aroused but I think these are my true averages.

Anyway, any recommendations on what his sleeve and what internal size should I consider. My wife likes stiff erections, in which I lack. But she doesn’t not like hard stiff heads. Preferably as realistic feeling as possible. I hope to find a good sleeve especially if I spend the money for it. Thanks guys!

Fully erect my length is between 7.5-8 depending on arousal. I’m straight in shape. The thickness is about 5.5. I’d assumes it’s slightly thicker when fully aroused but I think these are my true averages.

Anyway, any recommendations on what his sleeve and what internal size should I consider. My wife likes stiff erections, in which I lack. But she doesn’t not like hard stiff heads. Preferably as realistic feeling as possible. I hope to find a good sleeve especially if I spend the money for it. Thanks guys!

Put on a show for her, hang with us and vibe. Maybe the night follows!

I’m a male 35, she is a female 26. DM if you have experience. And you must look nice, in shape, clean and preferably nose piercing. That’s her thing lol

Just a follow up into our journey.

My friend came by Saturday night around 9pm, he stayed until about 2 am. Let’s just say that the entire night was fun but the alcohol stopped anything before it started.

We played games, mainly adult games. He and my wife danced to music together, they talked. I left them alone multiple times to get one on one with another. We held plenty of random group conversations that led to her stated that both my friend and I are hot. That grin she had was wild. At some point she brought up the fact that she likes to paint so this led to her inviting to him to our bed room to see other art pieces. Including the paint of her ass on our wall. As we went back to the living room, I asked him if he enjoyed the paintings and he said “yes, especially the cheeky one”.

We laughed it off and my wife was quiet but unbothered, probably shocked or turned on secretly. We continued to play adult games. She sat in between both of us and we all vibed really well. I forgot to mention that throughout the night, I would take my wife to our room and make out while my friend waited. It got so intense that at one point she got on the bed and bent over and I smacked her ass and rubbed all over her while my finger was in her mouth pulling back into me. We did this a lot and she was clearly turned on.

Unfortunately the story ends here because the alcohol caught up and I’m no fan of doing things while intoxicated. I don’t really drink anyway so I thought this occasion was ok for it.

Anyway, I’m certain next time something could happen.

I’m inviting my gym buddy over to meet my wife and hang out. Any suggestions on what activities or games to get them acquainted? Nothing sexual is necessary at the moment. Maybe later if things go that way.

If you didn’t know us already, we are a new inexperienced couple that seeked out trying our first MFM together. Unfortunately, we ran into 3 guys online that made our experiences worse. No need to get in to details regarding them. We did take a break and we’re still on a break technically. After the failed attempts, my wife stated that she did not like the phase of talking to guys because a lot of them can’t communicate and the vibes are off. She prefers more of an organic, natural way of meeting someone.

This is where my gym body from another state comes in. We live on the boarder line of two states so distance isn’t as far as you may think. But she has never met this friend, but she is aware of who he is and even offered to drive us around in case we wanted to go out for drinks etc. I told my pal about us trying to get in the lifestyle and he is interested in my wife! He’s had experiences with MFM as well.

All in all, I think he could be her type. I want us to kind of bond and have fun even if there is no sexual activity. But if it did start to get hot, I thought to myself for a while since our last attempts, to just let things evolve naturally, no rules, just address them after everything is done.

Has anyone been in a situation similar to this?

We’re located in northern Virginia near Washington DC. We want to go to a retreat, bdsm or any rental property that is designated for kinky couples or something not vanilla. I looked for things related but ended up at a dead end? Any suggestions for us to get out and finally pursue this MFM kink?

Hey Guys, this is hubs!

The last few post, I shared the upsetting and frustrating journey in finding a third. We took a break from looking for many reasons. We’re close to the time where we agreed to start looking again. Summer is busy for everyone so logistically things kind of gotten placed on back burner.

But tbh, sex has been good and I did want to give an update. A couple days ago we had deep conversation on making the sex life more “fun”. This means that we both want to explore different things, or at least talk about.

After this conversation my wife was really horny for me, she usually is. But last night she was definitely more energetic and taking whatever I could throw at her.

Hopefully, this detail on what happened last night doesn’t bother you guys.

Anyway, to somewhat make it short, we started off with typical foreplay, kissing, me talking dirty to her and fingering her to get some teasing going.

Eventually, I rubbed my penis on her clit and opening vigorously until she was begging for me to push it in. When I finally mounted her (missionary) she gasped and wanted more. Through this, she told me she wanted me to finish in missionary but I had to gently choke her and spit (not a luggie) in her mouth. I was like yeah for sure. But before that she wanted doggy and vibrator on her clit while I thrust her.

I love doggy so I wanted to try something I think she really likes now. I would usually use her favorite dildo on her in doggy while I talk dirty, rub her clit and eat that pussy up to the ass. Then I’ll drill her wet pussy with the toy. While doing this she would cum or push out the two, then I’ll talk dirty and tell her that I’m gonna reclaim her pussy after that dick is don’t filling her up. As soon as I entered her after the toy, she said “Oh fuck” and mines like crazy. I would transition back and forth like this for a while. And when I would fuck her hard and good, I would also pretend that the dildo was another dick ready to get next by slapping her on the ass while I fuck here she was cumming non stop.. I did this for a while to the point where I couldn’t hold on much longer. I ended up cumming a little from her enjoyment and I had to hurry and enter her missionary in order to finish the way she asked lol. Between transitioning from doggy to missionary, I shot a little on the bed and jumped in for maybe 10 seconds and I was filling her up, choking and exchanging fluids just like she asked. We played there for a while. It was a hot night and hopefully she enjoyed it. I know she’ll enjoy other things also, but man. The way she was fucking me and that toy was such a turn on.

Sorry for the length guys! Message if you want to see pics!

I’ll try to keep this short. I don’t want to rush or think with my dick brain.

Quick overview: We’re traditional, monogamous types and we’re married. It was my idea to explore the MFM fantasy. At first my wife was shocked because I’ve always been the territorial and jealous type. With that being said: we talked about this for a year before bringing it up and actually setting boundaries before exploring. When we first started she was actually into it. Met 3 guys but all failed in the talking phase. It wasn’t a good experience and it killed her enthusiasm to continue.

She has stated after hanging it up, that she will move at her pace and maybe will open up to the idea again late summer. I’m fine with whatever decision. Marriage first.

(Enters) the Ex: ok, so I know about this guy. I’ve worked with him on a project before. So he technically knows me. He and my wife dated in high school. She’s told me that they had really naughty sex talk back then but never actually got to do anything. That being said: This guys buys from my wife’s business along with his family etc. he says hi or whatever and occasionally will compliment her or the business.. Cool no biggy

Today, she seen him again and said he came by and bought items again with his mom. Seems normal to me but I know he wants her in some way.

After my wife tells me this, I made a joke and said that she should have gotten his number. And she laughed and said she would if that’s what I’m into. I told her nah, I’m kidding.

As hot as that could be, we both know the risk bringing in an ex. During our vetting phase we actually talked about ex’s and this guy specifically. It wasn’t just too risky but she’s also comfortable with guys she knows vs strangers.

I don’t want my penis brain to put us in a risky position. Did you guys have instances like this? I wish fantasies were easy but I know this could end really good or really bad.

Heyyyyy, what’s up!!!

Update from my last post but also a quick vent or acknowledgment of the shit show of guys I encounter online. First off, our experiences caused my wife to delete most of her media, she doesn’t want to talk to anyone else for a while. She hasn’t even brought up anything. Now I feel like we’re back in the vanilla lifestyle again. We were so close…

But also, what’s up with these terms and especially the “Bull” or “Dom” types. These guys annoy me for some reason. I see right through there egotistical, fake masculine BS.

I had a guy literally read my bio…

my bio pretty much said that I was looking for a third to add to our already great sex life. He’d just be there to add more attention to my wife and intensify her pleasure. So a typical wingman role.

Well, this guy messages me, tells me right away that he wants to fuck my wife brains out, he won’t use a condom but he regularly test and expects the same, he won’t need communication between meetups and then said he’d make sure she’d go back home happy 😆 😂😂 TF

Ok, hold on. I said “hey man I value respect and I’m not the kind of guy to approach that way.” He goes, “So you’re not Cuck?”

Let me be clear, I actually like cucks and cuck porn but I am not naturally a Cuck kind of guy. I’m calisthenics and BJJ athlete at pans. I’m competitive and very masculine in public and private. It’s just how I was raised. It’s funny because If you were to see my profile on fetlife. I’m not trying to make myself into something I’m not. I live this way. Cucks like the degrading elements. I’m not into that, especially coming from guys that call themselves Bulls or Doms. That ish is corny and childish. Grown men talking about I’m “Bull”.. bro your dick game not that great, you don’t look that great either and your personality is bland like most protein shakes.. Tf are these mfs talking about? My wife is completely fine with our sex life. I honestly think she is obsessed and idk why because I think a MFM will open her eyes up to better things.. but I digress.

With all seriousness, do you guys get this nonsense from these types of guys? When I see the titles. I look at the page and I’m like who Fook is that guy?

I’m not mad so hope none of you took offense, but some of these guys are crazy.

Edit: This type of guy is the reason my wife was scared away from the lifestyle.

Before the kinks or threesome fantasies. I (Husband) must say that I was the first to bring this up. My wife didn’t seem to have a repulsive reaction but I do believe it was a shock given how territorial I am in nature. We both have been monogamous all our lives and I just recently started to open up to the threesome idea. I’d lie if I said in the beginning I didn’t feel some sort of jealousy.

It took time but I eventually became more comfortable and she was also more comfortable searching for this special guy to join us. We used dating apps, Fetlife, and telegram to find or communicate with potential partners. I did most of the searching and I would show her the candidates. 98% didn’t make it past the attraction stage for her.

The three guys we did find had a combined nature of Flaking, bad communication, entitlement (wanting to fuck the first night meeting us) and very aggressive personalities (getting upset when she didn’t respond on time).

My wife is caring and affectionate woman, she likes connections with people and will not just sleep with a stranger on the first night. So, something has to be built beforehand.

Since the last three guys ruined the experience so far. She wants to take a break until late summer and we can revisit the idea again. We talked about it and I agree. I was burned out as well.

Are there other couples that experienced this situation? What did you do to move forward and how did you find the perfect partner for your dynamic?