r/PenisSleeve

Does anyone use condoms with sleeves? It just seems that I can't find a lube that works extremely well with sleeves. Most seem to dry out quickly and constantly having to reapply. Just wondering if a condom with lube will work better.

My conservative wife surprised me after we started experimenting in the bedroom.
I’m an average East Asian guy with a 4.5-inch penis and about a 4.25-inch girth. My wife is also East Asian, and she’s always been very conservative. To give you an idea, we didn’t even kiss until we’d been dating for about a year. We were together for nine years before getting married in 2025.
Throughout our relationship, I’d occasionally bring up trying toys or experimenting a little, but she always shut the idea down. She would tell me she loved my body as it was and had no interest in anything bigger. She also worried that suggesting something larger might hurt my feelings.
The funny thing is, it never did.
I’ve never been insecure about my size. If anything, one of my biggest fantasies has always been using a penis sleeve not because I wanted to replace myself, but because I wanted to experience what it would be like to fill her up more and see how she’d react.
It took years of conversations, but about two months after our wedding she finally agreed to give it a try. She made one condition: the penis sleeve would be the only toy. No other toys, no pushing boundaries. I happily agreed because, to me, it was already a huge step.
The first attempt wasn’t great.
We had both showered, got into bed, and I put the sleeve on. After only a couple of minutes she asked me to take it off because it felt too big and too deep. I figured that was probably the end of the experiment.
A few days later, I asked if she’d be willing to try one more time. This time we took things much slower. We spent a long time on foreplay, and we had sex normally for around 15 minutes before I switched to the sleeve. I also used plenty of lubricant.
The difference was night and day.
Instead of rushing, I went slowly and let her adjust. At first she said it was intense, but after a while she relaxed. Little by little she became more comfortable until she was able to take the entire sleeve.
That was when everything changed.
She told me afterward that she’d had multiple orgasms, and I’d honestly never seen her react like that before. At one point she climbed on top and took control, switching positions on her own. For someone who had always been shy and reserved in bed, it completely caught me off guard.
Since then, I’ve noticed she’s become much more enthusiastic about sex in general. Before, I was almost always the one initiating. Now she flirts more, teases me more, and seems genuinely excited.
One day I jokingly asked her, “So… you like bigger dicks now?”
She looked at me, smiled, gave me a little wink, and simply said,
“Maybe.”
I don’t think I’ve ever been more shocked.
Not because of what she said, but because it was so unlike the woman I’d known for almost a decade.
After that, I brought up trying a vaginal plug to help her get comfortable before using the sleeve. I honestly expected another long discussion.
Instead, she immediately said yes.
Last week, after she got out of the shower, she put it in without saying anything. She wore it for over an hour while I was getting ready.
When I walked into the bedroom and realized she already had it in, I was instantly turned on.
She smiled and said,
“My pussy is ready for that big cock.”
For a split second, my brain froze.
Normally we’d start with my real penis before switching to the sleeve, but this time she skipped straight to talking about the sleeve. Part of me had the funny thought, Am I getting cucked by my own fantasy?
Then I realized…
This was exactly what I’d been hoping for all along.
We ended up having one of the best nights we’ve ever had together. When I got close to finishing, I took the sleeve off and finished with my own body, just like we usually do.
What surprised me most wasn’t the physical experience it was seeing my wife become more confident, playful, and open after years of being so reserved. Watching her gradually become comfortable enough to explore something we had talked about for years has honestly been one of the most rewarding parts of our marriage.
Now we’ve ordered a slightly larger sleeve to continue exploring together, taking things one step at a time and making sure we’re both comfortable with every new experience.

Male: 29 5ft7
Female: 28 4ft11
Penis sleeve we used is 7inches long 5.1inches circumference

Hey everyone

My wife really loves the ultra-plush, squishy feel of our SquarePeg Steve 1X (SuperSoft silicone). I’m average length (5–6”) and want a good quality silicone penis sleeve that gives her a noticeably girthy experience while feeling soft and realistic like SquarePeg.

Budget is a factor — I’m looking at the Lovehoney Mega Mighty 1 Extra Inch Silicone as a cheap starter (~$25 USD), but wondering if it’s soft enough or if I should save for something better like the Vixen Colossus.

Key wants:
• Soft, fleshy outer feel (close to SquarePeg SuperSoft)
• Good girth increase (she likes the Steve 1X fullness)
• Safe 100% silicone (no TPE/porous junk)
• Works for average 5–6” length
• Ships to New Zealand (discreet ok)

Has anyone tried the Mega Mighty 1” vs higher-end ones like Colossus? Is the softness worth the extra money? Any other recommendations in the $~80–180usd range that feel really plush?

Thanks!

Me M(37) finally got to use a sleeve on my wife F(36). I bought the mailman 8 and the Barney 2 years ago. The first time she saw them she said no. I quit asking.

The other day i got her really turned on but she won’t let me finish inside her since we already have 3 kids and im not fixed. I convinced her to let me use the Barney so I could finish inside her since we don’t have condoms.

I went down on her first, finished her with my tongue and finger. Then I lubed it up and it went right in. Girth was a little uncomfortable but the length she didn’t seem to like at all. She didn’t complain at all but afterwards she was nauseous, said it felt like she was being punched in the stomach.

Few nights later I got her in the mood again and asked her if she wanted to use the sleeve again. Her response was it’s up to you. I asked what feels better for her and her response was it hurts less without it. So I said no sleeve then and she said IDC. I said you please choose I want you to enjoy it, her response was IDC.

I opted to try it again and convinced her to get on top so she could control the depth. No foreplay this time other than making out and massaging her to put her in the mood.

Lubed it up and she got it in okay. (The Barney again) but it was too uncomfortable, so she used the domi wand while riding on top which tends to relax her vagina then it seemed fine.

She finished from the vibrator. And didn’t complain about the nausea this time but she took the whole thing.

I can’t tell if she’s enjoying it and didn’t want to choose it to protect my feelings, or if it’s uncomfortable for me and she doesn’t want to use it because she thinks I do.

She said similar to how laying in a dentist chair with your mouth stretched open for an hour is how her vagina hurts afterwards. Just feels stretched and sore.

Was debating on ordering one shortened a little but the truth is even with no sleeve, depending on the position sometimes I make her nauseous and I’m barely average at 6 x1.6.

I think she secretly likes the girth, but the length is uncomfortable, even though she took the full length of the Barney.

After having our last kid sex has hurt her (depth wise) doctor said her uterus has dropped a little. I did read though that using bigger toys can push it back up, which is one of the main reasons I wanted to try it to begin with. Was hoping to get her enjoying sex again.

The Barney is dual density medium soft with matte finish.

Mixed results I guess, didn’t seem to absolutely love it, but didn’t say no to using it again.