What if every major city had a “Ghosted” gathering for SBs and SDs every month? It’s definitely not realistic but I was just thinking about. Imagine the connections that would be made haha. Have a good weekend!
How many hours before a planned meetup do you expect the other person to confirm before you decide not to go?
If they haven’t confirmed, do you still show up and hope they do too, or do you take the lack of response as a cancellation?
I have a M&G tonight (allegedly) and I haven’t heard from the POT since we set the date. In our last messages, I suggested that we exchange numbers so that it would be easier for us to get in touch with one another for the date. He sent me his and I sent a text to him so that he would have mine. Since then, I haven’t heard from him. I sent another message online saying that I hope to hear from him soon about whether we are still on for tonight. I’ve decided that I’ll give him until a certain time and if there is no response, not go. The time that we are meeting is a time heavy traffic and it’ll take me about 45 minutes to even get there from my house. That time plus the time it’ll take me to get ready.. it just doesn’t seem worth it for me to show up if he’s not going to.
I’m just wondering if you all would set a time for the other person to respond or if you would still show up?
Edit: the date was set yesterday and I sent a text this morning, a message online letting him know that I sent him a text, a message online hoping that we were still on for tonight, and a text letting him know that if I don’t hear back from him by a certain time I’ll assume that we are no longer meeting.
I’m interested to know what everyone uses to do extra vetting/background checks. I had a source that I would use but since I’m back on the search, I’m interested in whether there are better resources that you all are using.
HAPPY TUESDAY!
I just want your opinions on something.
I recently ended an arrangement about a month or so ago and I’m contemplating on whether or not I should look for a new one right now. Usually, I would but I’m moving out of the state at the end of the summer so I don’t know if looking now would be worth it. If I was moving to a bordering state maybe I’d be more open to looking but I’m moving across the country, from Texas to Seattle.
What do you all think?