u/Legitimate-Mud8271

HMU for details if interested.

My wife and have have discussed her getting together with a third, we have roleplayed and she has had other guys come on to her but when it gets right down to going through with it she has told me that she is scared of catching feelings, liking the experience too much and it causing problems in our relationship. She does not want anything to happen to our marriage (which I am obviously grateful for) but at the same time is the fantasy dead? How do you move past this and reassure her? Or are her concerns valid and this destroys relationships?