u/LennyPost

(Please read this entire post before messaging, I will not respond otherwise)

My name's Lena but most people call me Lenny. You can call me whatever you prefer. I know I'm not exactly one in a million, but I figured if any older men wanted to talk to a 20 year old goth girl with some daddy issues, I also wouldn't mind having a conversation.

A bit about me, I'm very sexual, I like thinking about sex, talking about sex, but I'm pretty shy so I don't find myself in a lot of places where I might meet someone, and I don't have a very easy time feeling comfortable enough with someone that I might consider having sex with them. I've tried dating apps but it feels weirdly impersonal and kinda boring, I've found that people on here are a lot more open, maybe it's the anonymity.

Anyway, I still really, really crave male validation, especially from older men, and especially through sex or just something sexually charged. I'm potentially open to chatting with someone close to my age, but I am mainly looking to talk to men on the older end of the spectrum, ideally around 35-60, but there's wiggle room there. You might have to make an extra strong impression if you're younger than that though, and if you're younger than like 28 there's no point in reaching out, sorry, I'm just not interested. I don't really have a roof for age, although if you're like 90 you might want to look for someone else.

I really respond to confidence, maturity and persistence. So the best way to get my attention is by showing that you possess these qualities in your first message. If you text like a teenage boy I'm gonna assume you have the maturity of a teenage boy, and I'm not interested in that. And as I value a man who is persistant and goes after what he wants, please feel free to message me again if we've already chatted or if I never got back to you. Why would I want a man who sends me one message and then gives up?

I would also like to note that I am not the greatest conversationalist, and I have a little splash of autism. I can sometimes write, long, detailed replies, but I'm not great at knowing what to say to keep a conversation going, both in person and over text. I find it's always helpful when a guy I'm talking to includes some kind of question in their messages, big or small, that way I always have something I know I can reply to. I'm a bit shy, awkward, and sometimes people think I'm being rude when I'm really not trying to be, or even aware of it. If that's a problem for you then we might not be a good match, it's not really something I can just "fix".

I also wanna give a little tip about talking to me. I enjoy being talked down to, but not in a super mean way. I don't want to be called whore or bitch or anything like that. When I say talked down to, I mean like subtly put down, negged or whatever. Point it out when I say something kinda stupid, criticize something you don't like about me, give backhanded compliments, that kind of thing. It's absolutely not a must though, feel free to just be kind if you prefer that lol.

Long story short, if you're patient, kind, confident, mature, intelligent, and more than a decade older than me, you should reach out lol. And to prove that you've read this whole thing, please tell me what your favorite thing for a girl to wear is. Don't say "whatever makes her feel prettiest" that's boooring.

Anyway, I hope that's enough of an introduction, just feel free to message me whenever and I will try to message back. Also keep in mind that I get lots and lots of message, so try to stand out, I don't respond to "hey" or "wanna chat" or a copy-pasted list of fetishes. First impressions are everything on here, and I understand that typing up a detailed and thoughtful message that might not even be read by anyone can feel like a drag, but that's unfortunately the barrier of entry.

(Please read this entire post before messaging, I will not respond otherwise)

My name's Lena but most people call me Lenny. You can call me whatever you prefer. I know I'm not exactly one in a million, but I figured if any older men wanted to talk to a 20 year old goth girl with some daddy issues, I also wouldn't mind having a conversation.

A bit about me, I'm very sexual, I like thinking about sex, talking about sex, but I'm pretty shy so I don't find myself in a lot of places where I might meet someone, and I don't have a very easy time feeling comfortable enough with someone that I might consider having sex with them. I've tried dating apps but it feels weirdly impersonal and kinda boring, I've found that people on here are a lot more open, maybe it's the anonymity.

Anyway, I still really, really crave male validation, especially from older men, and especially through sex or just something sexually charged. I'm potentially open to chatting with someone close to my age, but I am mainly looking to talk to men on the older end of the spectrum, ideally around 35-60, but there's wiggle room there. You might have to make an extra strong impression if you're younger than that though, and if you're younger than like 28 there's no point in reaching out, sorry, I'm just not interested. I don't really have a roof for age, although if you're like 90 you might want to look for someone else.

I really respond to confidence, maturity and persistence. So the best way to get my attention is by showing that you possess these qualities in your first message. If you text like a teenage boy I'm gonna assume you have the maturity of a teenage boy, and I'm not interested in that. And as I value a man who is persistant and goes after what he wants, please feel free to message me again if we've already chatted or if I never got back to you. Why would I want a man who sends me one message and then gives up?

I would also like to note that I am not the greatest conversationalist, and I have a little splash of autism. I can sometimes write, long, detailed replies, but I'm not great at knowing what to say to keep a conversation going, both in person and over text. I find it's always helpful when a guy I'm talking to includes some kind of question in their messages, big or small, that way I always have something I know I can reply to. I'm a bit shy, awkward, and sometimes people think I'm being rude when I'm really not trying to be, or even aware of it. If that's a problem for you then we might not be a good match, it's not really something I can just "fix".

Long story short, if you're patient, kind, confident, mature, intelligent, and more than a decade older than me, you should reach out lol. And to prove that you've read this whole thing, please tell me what your favorite thing for a girl to wear is. Don't say "whatever makes her feel prettiest" that's boooring.

Anyway, I hope that's enough of an introduction, just feel free to message me whenever and I will try to message back. Also keep in mind that I get lots and lots of message, so try to stand out, I don't respond to "hey" or "wanna chat" or a copy-pasted list of fetishes. First impressions are everything on here, and I understand that typing up a detailed and thoughtful message that might not even be read by anyone can feel like a drag, but that's unfortunately the barrier of entry.

(Please read this entire post before messaging, I will not respond otherwise)

My name's Lena but most people call me Lenny. You can call me whatever you prefer. I know I'm not exactly one in a million, but I figured if any older men wanted to talk to a 20 year old goth girl with some daddy issues, I also wouldn't mind having a conversation.

A bit about me, I'm very sexual, I like thinking about sex, talking about sex, but I'm pretty shy so I don't find myself in a lot of places where I might meet someone, and I don't have a very easy time feeling comfortable enough with someone that I might consider having sex with them. I've tried dating apps but it feels weirdly impersonal and kinda boring, I've found that people on here are a lot more open, maybe it's the anonymity.

Anyway, I still really, really crave male validation, especially from older men, and especially through sex or just something sexually charged. I'm potentially open to chatting with someone close to my age, but I am mainly looking to talk to men on the older end of the spectrum, ideally around 35-60, but there's wiggle room there. You might have to make an extra strong impression if you're younger than that though, and if you're younger than like 28 there's no point in reaching out, sorry, I'm just not interested. I don't really have a roof for age, although if you're like 90 you might want to look for someone else.

I really respond to confidence, maturity and persistence. So the best way to get my attention is by showing that you possess these qualities in your first message. If you text like a teenage boy I'm gonna assume you have the maturity of a teenage boy, and I'm not interested in that. And as I value a man who is persistant and goes after what he wants, please feel free to message me again if we've already chatted or if I never got back to you. Why would I want a man who sends me one message and then gives up?

I would also like to note that I am not the greatest conversationalist, and I have a little splash of autism. I can sometimes write, long, detailed replies, but I'm not great at knowing what to say to keep a conversation going, both in person and over text. I find it's always helpful when a guy I'm talking to includes some kind of question in their messages, big or small, that way I always have something I know I can reply to. I'm a bit shy, awkward, and sometimes people think I'm being rude when I'm really not trying to be, or even aware of it. If that's a problem for you then we might not be a good match, it's not really something I can just "fix".

Long story short, if you're patient, kind, confident, mature, intelligent, and more than a decade older than me, you should reach out lol. And to prove that you've read this whole thing, please tell me what your favorite thing for a girl to wear is. Don't say "whatever makes her feel prettiest" that's boooring.

Anyway, I hope that's enough of an introduction, just feel free to message me whenever and I will try to message back. Also keep in mind that I get lots and lots of message, so try to stand out, I don't respond to "hey" or "wanna chat" or a copy-pasted list of fetishes. First impressions are everything on here, and I understand that typing up a detailed and thoughtful message that might not even be read by anyone can feel like a drag, but that's unfortunately the barrier of entry.

(Please read this entire post before messaging, I will not respond otherwise)

My name's Lena but most people call me Lenny. You can call me whatever you prefer. I know I'm not exactly one in a million, but I figured if anyone wanted to talk to a 20 year old goth girl with some daddy issues, I also wouldn't mind having a conversation.

A bit about me, I'm very sexual, I like thinking about sex, talking about sex, but I'm pretty shy so I don't find myself in a lot of places where I might meet someone, and I don't have a very easy time feeling comfortable enough with someone that I might consider having sex with them. I've tried dating apps but it feels weirdly impersonal and kinda boring, I've found that people on here are a lot more open, maybe it's the anonymity.

Anyway, I still really, really crave male validation, especially from older men, and especially through sex or just something sexually charged. I'm potentially open to chatting with someone close to my age, but I am mainly looking to talk to men on the older end of the spectrum, ideally around 35-60, but there's wiggle room there. You might have to make an extra strong impression if you're younger than that though, and if you're younger than like 28 there's no point in reaching out, sorry, I'm just not interested. I don't really have a roof for age, although if you're like 90 you might want to look for someone else.

I really respond to confidence, maturity and persistence. So the best way to get my attention is by showing that you possess these qualities in your first message. If you text like a teenage boy I'm gonna assume you have the maturity of a teenage boy, and I'm not interested in that. And as I value a man who is persistant and goes after what he wants, please feel free to message me again if we've already chatted or if I never got back to you. Why would I want a man who sends me one message and then gives up?

I would also like to note that I am not the greatest conversationalist, and I have a little splash of autism. I can sometimes write, long, detailed replies, but I'm not great at knowing what to say to keep a conversation going, both in person and over text. I find it's always helpful when a guy I'm talking to includes some kind of question in their messages, big or small, that way I always have something I know I can reply to. I'm a bit shy, awkward, and sometimes people think I'm being rude when I'm really not trying to be, or even aware of it. If that's a problem for you then we might not be a good match, it's not really something I can just "fix".

Long story short, if you're patient, kind, confident, mature, intelligent, and more than a decade older than me, you should reach out lol. And to prove that you've read this whole thing, please tell me what your favorite thing for a girl to wear is. Don't say "whatever makes her feel prettiest" that's boooring.

Anyway, I hope that's enough of an introduction, just feel free to message me whenever and I will try to message back. Also keep in mind that I get lots and lots of message, so try to stand out, I don't respond to "hey" or "wanna chat" or a copy-pasted list of fetishes. First impressions are everything on here, and I understand that typing up a detailed and thoughtful message that might not even be read by anyone can feel like a drag, but that's unfortunately the barrier of entry.

20 [F4M] #Boston - Searching for older men to chat with - Goth girl with daddy issues, basic, I know

Update:

I've posted here a few times, I hope you guys aren't tired of seeing me. I have countless message requests but I'm posting again to kinda refresh those requests, get people who are still active and looking to reach out. I'm feeling a little lonely at the moment (and a little high) so I'd love to have some people to talk to right now.

Anyway, onto the regular post. Please read the whole thing if you haven't already.

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My name's Lena but most people call me Lenny. You can call me whatever you prefer. I'm a 20 year old goth girl with a bit of a weakness for older men.

A bit about me, I'm very sexual, I like thinking about sex, talking about sex, but I'm pretty shy so I don't find myself in a lot of places where I might meet someone, and I don't have a very easy time feeling comfortable enough with someone that I might consider having sex with them. I've tried dating apps but it feels weirdly impersonal and kinda boring, I've found that people on here are a lot more open, maybe it's the anonymity.

Anyway, I still really, really crave male validation, especially from older men, and especially through sex or just something sexually charged, so I am looking to talk to men on the older end of the spectrum, ideally around 35-60, but there's wiggle room there. You might have to make an extra strong impression if you're younger than that though, and if you're younger than like 27 there's really no point in reaching out, I'm sorry, I'm just not interested. Nobody from the 21st century please lol. I don't really have a roof for age, although if you're like 90 you might want to look for someone else.

As I said I'm looking for someone to meet up with in Boston. Ideally I'm looking for someone to start a serious relationship with, someone who'll give me a reason to delete my account, ideally someone who also lives here, or nearby, but I am also open to casual hookups, in which case it doesn't matter too much, although you'd have to make an incredibly compelling case to get me to travel for you. I'll also want to chat with you for a good while before we meet up or even before we start texting on a different platform. Even if it's just for a casual hookup, I want to make sure we click first.

I really respond to confidence, maturity and persistence, confidence especially. So the best way to get my attention is by showing that you possess these qualities in your first message. Be bold. If you text like a teenage boy I'm gonna assume you have the maturity of a teenage boy, and I'm not interested in that. And as I value a man who is persistant and goes after what he wants, please feel free to message me again if we've already chatted or if I never got back to you. Why would I want a man who sends me one message and then gives up?

I would also like to note that I am not the greatest conversationalist, and I have a little splash of autism. I can write, long, detailed replies, but I'm not great at knowing what to say to keep a conversation going, both in person and over text. I find it's always helpful when a guy I'm talking to includes some kind of question in their messages, big or small, that way I always have something I know I can reply to. I'm a bit shy, awkward, and sometimes people think I'm being rude when I'm really not trying to be, or even aware. If that's a problem for you then we might not be a good match.

Also, just to prove that you've read this whole thing, I'd like you to tell me what your favorite thing for a girl to wear is!

Anyway, I hope that's enough of an introduction, just feel free to message me whenever and I will try to message back. Also keep in mind that I get lots and lots of message, so try to stand out. I'm open to talking about sexual topics right away, as long as you're not too vulgar. Treat me like a cute girl at the library who's been giving you a slightly seductive look. You'd flirt with her but your first question wouldn't be about her sexual fantasies.