u/Locked-and-loving-it

Literally just happened. Wife gets out of the shower and asks if I want to go? Yes! We start kissing then I go down first but don't make her cum because I want to finish inside her then go down to finish her creampie. So she pulls me up to straddle her head so she can give me a BJ (she lives that position). I can barely let her go longer than 10 sec before I have to stop her. So I slide down so I'm sitting/straddling her like she's fucking me. I start grinding on her and she starts jumping a bit. She might have had her hand on my cock but she wasn't moving it just letting me grind. 5 secs later I stop and say I'm about to cum. I try to hold it but can't. She's laughing and I'm twitching and prematurely cumming pumping my cock at the thought of my wife fucking me before she's really even started.

After I clean up she laughs again and says "that was hot". I said good. That's what chastity does for me. I give her a nice long and slow and thorough blow job. Hoping I'll be able to last long enough to get inside her again. But you'll hear no complaints from me.

I'm sure this type of game has been thought of before. The rules are simple, a random number generated between an agreed upon range. That random number becomes the number of orgasms she gets before my unlock.

Here's the real challenge for me. My wife is kind of asexual. She enjoys sex. We have great, toe curling, sex together. There are just other things that she/we'd rather do. Been together a total of almost 30 years and it works for us. We jokingly call her a sex camel because she can go for long periods of time without even an orgasm. She rarely even masturbates.

So I will propose to her that the random number rolled is the number of orgasms she gets from the sex vending machine. Only times when she specifically requests. That means if she initiated sex and unlocked me the orgasm she would inevitably get wouldn't count. Maybe I start back at zero. Maybe I tell her I shouldn't be unlocked until she's had her number reached? All hypotheticals at this point. But it's a fun game that I could see her agreeing to. A way for her to KH without actually doing it.

Also, she's peri-menopausal and her libido has decreased.

I recently brought up my chastity with my wife. She didn't know I was in chastity (for about a month). I told her I was doing it for several reasons for me, like getting better control of my masturbation, delayed gratification, more sensitivity when we're having sex. That started a conversation that has been on going over the last few days where I'm trying to encourage her to take more of a lead role. (I want a FLR but it takes time to ease her into that). She said she worries about feeling guilty if she didn't reciprocate. I told her to think about me like a sex vending machine. It's unidirectional. You make your request the vending machine delivers. Easy peasy.

Yesterday as we were driving to the beach for a vacation I said the best way for you to not feel guilty is to let me show you how it works. You'll see how happy I am for it to be about you. I also said that it's not necessary for our hetero relationship to be centered on the male orgasm. That point stuck for sure.

So now I'm out on the porch enjoying my morning coffee and I get a text "is the vending machine open". One blow job please. Done. Holy shit this is hot as fuck!!!!!!! The only thing that is killing me right now is that I unlocked for this trip because we have daughters and in-laws and salt water and I'm still getting used to 24/7 locking. At any rate I made a decision not to bring my cage and I'm regretting it. Never again. Also because when I am the vending machine I want to be only in my cage serving her. Fuck this is hot!