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22nd wedding anniversary! 9+ happily pussyfree! Zero chance of pussy! Knowing that I will be masturbating with her panties on my face!

Ma femme est devenue de plus en plus belle au fil des ans ;

c'est une femme très attirante qui prend soin d'elle et sait se mettre en valeur.

Quant à moi, j'ai une apparence plutôt masculine : je suis grand, assez musclé, barbu et j'ai un fort caractère (en dehors de la maison).

Je trouve amusant de penser que la plupart des gens doivent croire que j'ai une chance incroyable d'avoir une femme aussi séduisante et que je dois passer mon temps à faire l'amour passionnément avec elle tous les jours, alors qu'en réalité, je suis extrêmement soumis à ma femme et je n'ai accès à son intimité uniquement avec ma langue que lorsqu'elle le décide.

So, my boy and I have been playing around with chastity for a while. He hasn’t been inside me for a few weeks now and I’ve only allowed him to cum from anal since the start of this year.

We woke up together this morning and he realized that he had cum in his sleep! He said he hasn’t had a wet dream since he was a teenager. It was like he was a little boy again and his cheeks were bright red.

It was such a turn on. It makes me want to keep this going for even longer.

I made him stand in front of me so I could take a look at his dick and the dried cum all over his thighs. God, I love this perfect boy.

After years of huge sleeve sex, severe PE then chastity and denial my wife cucked me last october having the fuck of her life. 1.5hours piv focused rough pounding to 5 times squirting.

It was all too intense so we stopped cuckolding.

Since a month under therapy guidance we are using sensate focus to rediscover intimacy and how we can have good sex with my severe PE.

The rules are 1hr session, no talking, orgasm isnt the target. 1st phase not touching pussy or dick, 2nd its allowed but no piv, 3rd is piv allowed. Loads more details are available.

I'm finally feeling relaxed and no pressure. We have already started 2nd stage and we both loved it. In therapy and to my wife i said id like to stay in this phase as long as posdible i.e no piv.

It felt incredible. Rock hard, not allowed to enter her and no pressure to. She loved it.

For those suffering deadbedrooms, and not pussy free as a kink i highly advise to strengthen your relationship using sensate focus.

In our pussy free FLR, taking penetrative sex off the table for my husband isn’t about pushing him away, it’s really about completely reframing how we connect. But for a dynamic like this to thrive long term, clear communication and intentional validation are everything.

While I get to enjoy the ultimate freedom of being fulfilled by other dominant men, keeping my husband securely in chastity requires a solid foundation and plenty of patience. It’s easy to look at denial, cages, and verbal humiliation from the outside and assume it’s cold, but the reality is the exact opposite. Navigating this dynamic successfully means making sure he feels 100% confident in his role and completely secure in our marriage.

Taking PIV off the menu for him removes all the transactional noise, but it doesn't mean removing intimacy. Instead, our connection shifts to intentional validation. I make a point to focus on him through non-penetrative intimacy, clear direction, and direct praise for how well he maintains our home and supports my lifestyle. Being totally explicit and upfront about my desires for other men only works because the trust between us is rock solid.

Keyholding gives me total authority over his pleasure, but it also means taking responsibility for his emotional well being. Humiliation and discipline are thrilling parts of our dynamic, but they hit right because they exist inside a marriage built on emotional safety. He knows exactly where he stands: he is my dedicated, caged partner, and supporting my sexual freedom only makes our bond stronger.

My (m45) has Wife (F46) kept me Pussy free and orgasm denied for 205 days. I am still Pussy free but I just got to nut for the first time since January and I am in absolute fucking heaven. I can’t even sleep I am so amped up.

I went from being in an open (though often cuckold) relationship with unlimited orgasms to caged and denied overnight and it’s definitely been a roller coaster experience both physically and mentally.

She didn’t look at my cock for four months of the denial and any teasing or touching involved a condom so she didn’t have to actually touch my penis.

Having her hand touch my bare cock tonight felt absolutely amazing and when she started stroking it took everything I had to wait for her permission to release. She took pity on me and knew I was about safe word when she gave me the go ahead. It felt so good I almost passed out.

If you asked me at New Year’s if I would be this ecstatic over a hand job from my Wife I would have laughed in your face. But I feel exactly like I did at 16 in the back of a car getting my first handy.

The short periods of denial I have been through before this were fun and I enjoyed getting my reward but this long term denial really made my orgasm new and exciting again. I think I really get the power of denial now.

I am sure the PNC will kick in and for the next few weeks I will be jonesing for my next release but for tonight I am just going to enjoy the high. Thanks for all of the support this group has offered me during this wild ride there were days reading your experiences has gotten me through the day.

Yesterday we went to the fair, she wore her white keds without socks and then when we got home she called me in the room. She had her pants off and was just standing there in her panties and keds. I was super excited thinking we were gonna have sex. She laid down on the bed and said “take my shoes off” which I knew meant she wanted me to lay under her feet and kiss and smell them. 🫠🥵🥰. I laid there for a few minutes, she teased my dick occasionally because I was hard in my shorts, then she took her panties off… I asked permission to kiss her pussy. It was so wet I was so turned on. Then she pushed my head up and pushed me back with her feet, grabbed her vibrator, and started using it. So I just laid there while she got off. Then I thought for sure she was gonna want to have sex after she got off. She got off and then I asked permission to kiss her pussy again, it was soaking wet and I could see she had an orgasm. I licked it and started to take my pants off. She asked what I was doing and told me we were done. I put her shoes back on the rack, thanked her for letting me kiss her feet and pussy, and then we went back out in the living room and watched tv and cuddled on the couch. It’s been MONTHS since we’ve had sex. We have a lot of those moments though, I confess I love every minute of it.

Sorry, but I’d like to know exactly what is meant by ‘pussyfree.’ I assume it refers to someone who isn’t allowed any kind of penetration whatsoever? I mean, if someone is allowed anal or oral sex, they can’t really be considered pussy-free, right?

I’m PIV free for 10 months. My wife and I have been together for 5 years. PIV does very little for her and she doesn’t really enjoy it. If I ask her how see feels about PIV she will say it is for conceiving a baby and thats all. Her sex drive is high but she wants oral or vibrators. Meanwhile I would sometimes struggle with erections or stamina. Being PIV free has been great for me since I dont have any worries/pressure anymore and great for her because she simply doesn’t want it. On top of it she has me in chastity which also played a big role in eliminating PIV. Despite no PIV and chastity we are still very active and intimate in bed.

Don't really love to put my penis in her vagina. I don't hate it, but I just don't love it. For a long time and several partners I felt pressure to perform, pressure to bring her pleasure by fucking, pressure to enjoy it. Since I've been honest about this with my fiancee sex and life are so much better.

This morning we were cuddling and kissing a bit. I asked her if she want to play a little. She wanted to and I used a vibrator to get her off, while making out. After her orgasm she used her thumb and index finger for really slow, long, loose, teasing strokes. I started the move my hips, hump the finger-pussy she made for me. And after a few pumps I got a really intense ruined orgasm. The best way to cum IMHO

As a horny teenager, my first access to porn was lingerie models and that gave me an early fascination with lace and lingerie.

At the same time in my high school, there was this hot asian girl that I had the hots for. She had the best legs and boobs and I could not get enough of her. I would try to walk behind her when she was climbing the stairs on days she was wearing skirts or sit opposite her during lunch so that I could peep up her skirt when she was climbing up the stairs and crossing/uncrossing her legs. I fantasized and jerked off so much about that.

So the idea of panties became something unattainable to me, to either buy them to wear or to peep up my high school’s crush upskirt.

I eventually finally got a girlfriend in college and I was excited to finally lose the V card. The first few times of sexual intimacy didn't go well, I finished too fast and she was disappointed. On the next few occasions, when I initiated sex she would just give me a pity handjob and told me not to complain. She wasn't even interested in letting me eat her, nor strip for me. That made me frustrated and I started to sniff her panties and jerk off when she left, because it felt like the closest I could get to her pussy.

Panties became the closest I could get to females. And I started confessing to my female friends and asking them to help me buy panties from lingerie shops and I started wearing panties because I loved satin and lace on me. I later moved on to bras, dresses and the full suite of crossdressing, and started to hook up with guys because was easier compared to hooking up with girls.

I met my current Dom/Master two years back and he has kept me locked up and pussy-free. He calls it ‘putting me in the place I was born to be’.

It was been more than 10 years since I actually fucked a girl. My Master also doesn't even let me see girls in the nude/lingerie. When he has his fuck buddies over, he would tempt me by making me face the wall while they fuck. The closest I have ever gotten to a pussy nowadays is when he lets me smell his fuck buddies's panties and even that is an occassion treat when he is pleased with my performance.

Do all girls who have a pussy free husband has a boyfriend/Bull too or some are satisfied enough with getting masturbation or licking only from their husband/bf

I’m not pussy free all the time, I’m not caged all the time, but if me and my wife do “sex” stuff then nine times out of ten my penis won’t get inside her, and on the tenth time, it’s for a few strokes, then she says I’ve had enough. The thing is, when she’s had a night with her bull, I see her the next day and I’m allowed to have sex with her, she has me try to fuck her as hard and fast as I can, which obviously I fail at but I’m allowed inside her vagina for a while, this is when I get confused, the next few days for some reason I think I’m going to be allowed as much as I want as often as I want. I genuinely think I’ll be able to be a man, and have her on top, or what ever position I want. I’m not allowed, she shuts it down pretty quick but it’s so confusing for me.

Hi, I have been married for the past 6 years with my wife and we are proud to both have me as a virgin. Sex for both of us has never been a big deal and not something we want to do. We did agree that at some point it’s something we may end up doing but at the moment we are happy with the situation we are currently in. I have been playing around with chastity since 18 years old and in the last 2 years I have been 24/7 locked. Since early into our marriage my wife has been involving another bull for sexual pleasure and it’s a perfect system for us both.

I think masturbation within a couple to be an act of domination. In my case, when my wife allows me to ejaculate, it's often in her hand. She only uses two fingers, amused to see me ejaculate so quickly and unable to resist her hand. Then I find myself covered in my own semen, having to find a way to clean myself up. For me, this practice highlights the fact that I'm incapable of penetrating her properly.

Any good discord servers where you have to take a pledge of being pussyfree or a beta loser before you join or after you join please recommend.

Thankyou

Edit: i cant start one haha already too much on my plate haha

For all the women who have their partner pussy free. Do you let him lick your pussy, or that's off limit as well?

Also do you let him lick other parts of your body? Ass, armpits, feet, etc, if yes, is it done because of humiliation or do you enjoy it?

So long story short, I am quite penetration free as my dick very rarely touches her pussy. Last time was a few months ago, but in the past 4 years or so I was only allowed inside just once every 2 - 3 months.

And (detailed in my previous post) she will very soon, in 1 week, start cuckolding me again. I am very excited about that, but that is another topic.

What is most exciting for me is the fact that for a couple of weeks ago I started a 3 month treatment with a strong medicine that gives dizziness and as a side effect listed in the prospect, can give impotence (for the duration of treatment).

My libido decreased significantly, but not my desire to worship her body. For example today I was allowed a 5 min worship of her dirty feet before a shower, and also gave her a back massage and as a reward I could sniff and lick her ass for a couple of minutes. My dick remained completely limp but I was in heaven because of the smell and taste.

And when I told her what the medicine does to me she said something that blew my mind:

- really? That is awesome! Please take more of it! You know I don't need your dick at all as you satisfy me so well with your tongue and I am always annoyed by your hard on whenever I have stuff to do. Now you can worship me properly whenever I wish and just giveme oral pleasure

This combines with the fact that she will start fuck another man soon makes me hope that I will become permanently pussy free! Or at least for a very long time while she has a boyfriend. I am thinking that in these 3 months she will get used to get dick only from him, while I am her limp submissive slave that only licks her body and worships her dirty feet.

And if he is good in bed and will satisfy her as I hope he will, we can have the talk that her pussy should only be penetrated by him for the rest of their relationship :)

That thought to be completely denied and forever teased is the only thing that still makes my temporarily limp dick twitch these days.

Sph is the main attraction in our particular version of the PF kink , and initially I was surprised by how many women find it a genuine turn on although after it was explained in a female sense I could see why , however when it comes to PF a good deal of her enjoyment comes from telling other women, most of whom are impressed by the control it gives her and seem to be even a little envious of her situation any other couples where “ outting” is a big deal for wife or gf?

Thanks

I my pussy free journey in a FLM marriage is:

1. Denied see my wife naked

2. No physical touch

3. Chastity

4. Being cuckolded

5. Not needing sex from her

6. Not wanting sex from her

Any thoughts?