u/geekydad84

For context, my wife’s been in a romantic relationship with her bf for three years now and she’s kept me pussy free for two years.

I’ve noticed that we’ve spent less and less time naked together. This weekend was the first time I clearly saw her cover herself up when I walked in the room where she was drying herself up after a shower. I apologized and let her have her privacy. After that moment I’ve been keeping an eye on her behavior more and she uses a handbra around me when she’s changing for a more comfortable shirt after work and getting out of her bra for example. Another thing I noticed is that when I hug her and my hands wander on her breasts or near her pussy she moves my hands away to a safe place. I haven’t yet talked about it with her as she hasn’t really shut me down from hugging her or kissing her but it seems everything sexual related is being slowly ending.

Is still see her naked when he is here and I get to watch and clean her but usually after sex and I’m there she slightly covers her body with a sheet or turns on her stomach. Same when she comes home from his place she only shows me her pussy that I get to clean.

We used to cuddle naked but it has been rare and might be ending. And for the last year our skin to skin contact has been with me in chastity.

I feel so aroused seeing her like that, but also feel a bit melancholic as our relationship is shifting again and also cuck angst and jealousy of her bf because he gets her body to himself. I don’t regret this life I chose with her but just wanted to share my experience and vent my feelings. I knew this was probably coming as we’ve taken steps toward him becoming a bigger and more important part of especially her life but also our marriage.

Has anyone else gone through anything similar?

I wasn’t sure what flair would fit this best, I guess reflection is closest.

This spring my wife and her bf did their first weekend getaway together. He took her to a spa for a weekend trip. I stayed home and tried to fill my weekend with my hobbies to keep me busy so I wouldn’t go crazy with angst. We decided to have some limits so I wouldn’t bombard them with texts and they could have their privacy too. Man, the nights were quite rough, but I did lot of mental preparation and managed my angst pretty well.

This summer they are making another trip. He is taking her to a wedding as his plus one. There will be some of his friends she will meet. Some she has already met couple times. We have decided that they wont shout out about our situation but wont lie about it either if it comes to it. This trip is exciting in many ways and a big step forward for them. She will be taking a step being part of his social circles.

Our goal is to find a good swinger beach resort the three of us could visit together. But it’s still in the works. Any tips of good resorts are more than welcome.

These trips have been something I’ve actively wanted for us and for them too, but my god was it hard to see her go. It was a huge growing experience for me too. And a huge positive was that she was really happy to come home and missed me and our life too. The angst was really worth it, seeing her with so much energy and love for all of us afterwards.

My wife cut me off PIV on my 40th birthday. Soon it’ll be our two year pussyfree anniversary. I’m getting more used to it every year. I still remember the emotions when we last had PIV sex but loosing the memory of what her pussy felt like. Her having sex with her bf only feels just normal these days.

This spring my wife and her bf did their first weekend getaway together. He took her to a spa for a weekend trip. I stayed home and tried to fill my weekend with my hobbies to keep me busy so I wouldn’t go crazy with angst. We decided to have some limits so I wouldn’t bombard them with texts and they could have their privacy too. Man, the nights were quite rough, but I did lot of mental preparation and managed my angst pretty well.

This summer they are making another trip. He is taking her to a wedding as his plus one. There will be some of his friends she will meet. Some she has already met couple times. We have decided that they wont shout out about our situation but wont lie about it either if it comes to it. This trip is exciting in many ways and a big step forward for them. She will be taking a step being part of his social circles.

Our goal is to find a good swinger beach resort the three of us could visit together. But it’s still in the works.

These trips have been something I’ve actively wanted for us and for them too, but my god was it hard to see her go. It was a huge growing experience for me too. And a huge positive was that she was really happy to come home and missed me and our life too. The angst was really worth it, seeing her with so much energy and love for all of us afterwards.

My wife’s been romantically involved with her bf for close to three years now. Tonight we had time to talk and I asked her, in hindisght, would she have wanted to start cuckolding earlier, knowing now, how much she enjoys it. She confessed that she some what feels some times she missed out on ”better” sex for years, but doesn’t feel bad about it or have any regrets about it as our life has lead to this moment where everything has clicked. But she did confess that if she would’ve found a guy like her bf earlier, before we started our family or before us having this long relationship and history together, she probably would’ve left me for a guy like her bf and started a family with him. Man, that hit hard, one of the biggest gut wrenches I’ve felt, and coming down from that angst, what an arousal.