What drives you into a Pussy-free relationship?
I'm curious. What drives you to the pussy-free relationship style? Power dynamic? Performance anxiety? Sexual orientation? Lavender relationships? What?
For me, it is a combination of penance for past false bravado, performance anxiety, and a desire to take the submissive role. The performance anxiety is complex, as I hadn't realized for many years that I was too big for her comfort. The false bravado is from masturbating my way into delayed ejaculation that I was once proud of, but didn't realize I was robbing my partner of the joy of feeling sexy from making me squirt. (Besides being pussy-free, my spouse is thrilled that she was able to make me into a permanent premature ejaculator. Her next project is to steal my prized "big" cock by making me permanently limp.)
Sexually, I am pansexual. I am also gender fluid and submissive. I guess that means it doesn't matter where my sexual gratification comes from. A pussy, a cock, an ass, a hand, a mouth can all make me happy, especially if it makes my partner happy.
Finally, sometimes I feel like my spouse married me because it is what normal people do: get married, even though she might not have yet come to terms with being gay or ACE herself. (Granted, it is not for me to define someone else's sexual orientation, but I do have suspicions and would be fully and unconditionally supportive of her. We do talk about it, too.)
Too much info? Probably. But we all enjoy our pussy-free (however you define "Pussy-free") relationships for different reasons. Most of us are just variants of the norm who love that our partner embraces shared authenticity in the relationship.