FLR. Married, with 2 kids. For the past 12 years and counting I've had no PIV with my wife. This was her idea - she claims she was never able to orgasm from PIV, so we began using other means to make her cum - oral, dildos, etc.

The Hitachi I bought her around 15 years ago was a game changer for us both. I would use it during PIV and She became multi-orgasmic.

Over time, we substituted my dick for a series of larger dildos - all the while using the Hitachi on her clit. After she came a few times she would give me a "handjob reward".

Soon sexy time for us evolved into what is referred to as Hitachi and Handjobs (or H&H for short - LOL).

I would give my wife 30 min to an hour of dildo play, vibrator action, hitachi, facesitting, etc. until she was totally satisfied. Then she would give me a handjob.

Then last year she said that giving me handjobs was getting to be "too tiring" after she had cum numerous times. She asked if we could both "work on making you cum faster by hand". She suggested a 1 minute time limit. This was a challenge to me!

We started by using the "timer method" to set a baseline. That first timed handjob had me cumming in about 2 1/2 minutes. Obviously I had a ways to go. But surprisingly, I wanted to beat the 1 minute challenge. To help me along, the next time we had sex she set the timer for 2 minutes with a 5 second warning alarm. The deal was I had to cum within the time allotted, or would have to wait "until next time".

I think the excitement to beat the clock got to me, and I erupted when the 5 second warning started....so I came in just under 2 minutes.

We practiced and trained all thru the summer, as she shaved off 5 second increments each time. By last fall I was cuming in around 1 minute. But she wanted me to cum even faster. So we continued training thru the end of last year.

For New Years Eve, we celebrated with a very long sexy time session-starting with facesitting - I gave her 2 orgasms as a edged myself. Then I used a dildo to "fuck" her and she came again. Then I used a bigger dildo to stretch her pussy as I sucked on her clit - resulting in her 4th orgasm. Finally, out came the Hitachi and combined with the bigger dildo, she came 3 more times - in waves....after each telling me "please don't stop - I need more". By the time we finished it had been a little more than an hour, and she had cum 7 times. She was glowing, but truly exhausted.

We cuddled a little for a while and then she said "Lube up - it's time for your handjob. I am setting the timer for 40 seconds - with a 10 second warning. Let's see how fast you can cum for me tonight."

I was rock hard and well lubed. As usual, she started the timer as she started to jerk me off - at a steady but quick pace. After 30 seconds, the warning rang. She increased her speed and told me "cum NOW for me, baby."

And....I DID IT! I started to cum at 32 seconds and finished just under 40.

I was HAPPY to be able to please my wife. And she was really, REALLY glad, too. She said "Let's see if you can cum even faster and easier for me for 2026."

She also told me "I am looking at easier ways to get you off faster. Stroking you is both tiring and boring."

To be continued.....

FLR. Married, with 2 kids. For the past 12 years and counting I've had no PIV with my wife. This was her idea - she claims she was never able to orgasm from PIV, so we began using other means to make her cum - oral, dildos, etc.

The Hitachi I bought her around 15 years ago was a game changer for us both. I would use it during PIV and She became multi-orgasmic.

Over time, we substituted my dick for a series of larger dildos - all the while using the Hitachi on her clit. After she came a few times she would give me a "handjob reward".

Soon sexy time for us evolved into what is referred to as Hitachi and Handjobs (or H&H for short - LOL).

I would give my wife 30 min to an hour of dildo play, vibrator action, hitachi, facesitting, etc. until she was totally satisfied. Then she would give me a handjob.

Then last year she said that giving me handjobs was getting to be "too tiring" after she had cum numerous times. She asked if we could both "work on making you cum faster by hand". She suggested a 1 minute time limit. This was a challenge to me!

We started by using the "timer method" to set a baseline. That first timed handjob had me cumming in about 2 1/2 minutes. Obviously I had a ways to go. But surprisingly, I wanted to beat the 1 minute challenge. To help me along, the next time we had sex she set the timer for 2 minutes with a 5 second warning alarm. The deal was I had to cum within the time allotted, or would have to wait "until next time".

I think the excitement to beat the clock got to me, and I erupted when the 5 second warning started....so I came in just under 2 minutes.

We practiced and trained all thru the summer, as she shaved off 5 second increments each time. By last fall I was cuming in around 1 minute. But she wanted me to cum even faster. So we continued training thru the end of last year.

For New Years Eve, we celebrated with a very long sexy time session-starting with facesitting - I gave her 2 orgasms as a edged myself. Then I used a dildo to "fuck" her and she came again. Then I used a bigger dildo to stretch her pussy as I sucked on her clit - resulting in her 4th orgasm. Finally, out came the Hitachi and combined with the bigger dildo, she came 3 more times - in waves....after each telling me "please don't stop - I need more". By the time we finished it had been a little more than an hour, and she had cum 7 times. She was glowing, but truly exhausted.

We cuddled a little for a while and then she said "Lube up - it's time for your handjob. I am setting the timer for 40 seconds - with a 10 second warning. Let's see how fast you can cum for me tonight."

I was rock hard and well lubed. As usual, she started the timer as she started to jerk me off - at a steady but quick pace. After 30 seconds, the warning rang. She increased her speed and told me "cum NOW for me, baby."

And....I DID IT! I started to cum at 32 seconds and finished just under 40.

I was HAPPY to be able to please my wife. And she was really, REALLY glad, too. She said "Let's see if you can cum even faster and easier for me for 2026."

She also told me "I am looking at easier ways to get you off faster. Stroking you is both tiring and boring."

To be continued.....

My wife is naturally dominant, and when she dominates me in bed it makes her extremely wet.

Over the years she has hinted at my small size, esp compared to her 1st husband. But it was when she admitted to me that she couldn't even feel me inside her pussy and that she never had an orgasm thru PIV with me that we crossed over to Dom/sub full time.

It was then that she eliminated BOTH PIV and blowjobs....her idea and I accepted it.  And she started to cuck me with an ever increasing arsenal of bigger and bigger dildos and toys. 

I get a LOT of pleasure out of her orgasms.....making her cum. And she has instructed me in what she really wants.....how soft or rough she wants it. How much to stretch her out. How much or little pressure and speed when I vibrate her clit. How forceful or gentle I am sucking her tits.

Basically I can almost get off getting her off.

She has told me that besides giving me HJ's, her favorite things are tease and denial and ballbusting -which makes her very wet. I enjoy our dynamic and power exchange in bed. I have learned to cum very fast for her - and she likes it.

She has slowly switched from giving me a HJ every time we had sex, to denial over longer and longer periods of time. And training me to cum faster and "easier" for her.

She says that she loves me and wants me to cum - but she also says that it turns her on to know that I accept her terms. 

Any other couples in a similar situation?

My wife is naturally dominant, and when she dominates me in bed it makes her extremely wet.

Over the years she has hinted at my small size, esp compared to her 1st husband. But it was when she admitted to me that she couldn't even feel me inside her pussy and that she never had an orgasm thru PIV with me that we crossed over to Dom/sub full time.

It was then that she eliminated BOTH PIV and blowjobs....her idea and I accepted it.  And she started to cuck me with an ever increasing arsenal of bigger and bigger dildos and toys. 

I get a LOT of pleasure out of her orgasms.....making her cum. And she has instructed me in what she really wants.....how soft or rough she wants it. How much to stretch her out. How much or little pressure and speed when I vibrate her clit. How forceful or gentle I am sucking her tits.

Basically I can almost get off getting her off.

She has told me that besides giving me HJ's, her favorite things are tease and denial and ballbusting -which makes her very wet. I enjoy our dynamic and power exchange in bed. I have learned to cum very fast for her - and she likes it.

She has slowly switched from giving me a HJ every time we had sex, to denial over longer and longer periods of time. And training me to cum faster and "easier" for her.

She says that she loves me and wants me to cum - but she also says that it turns her on to know that I accept her terms. 

Any other couples in a similar situation?

Long time pussy free couple. Normally I will provide my wife with several toy induced orgasms and afterwards she will give me a pity handjob. This has been our routine for more than a decade.

Last night - after I was done fucking her with a dildo and licking her clit, she got up and sat down on my face.

While I ate her out she used a hollow plastic toy baesball bat to beat my balls. softly at first and then built up momentum.

Soon I felt her orgasm (she is a squirter) and she intensified her strikes on my cock and balls. Then she was building up for her next orgasm.

She came twice riding my tongue, and when she was close the second time she demanded "CUM NOW, DAMN IT".

And I did.

Afterwards she said that she really had fun. And "next time I want to try kicking the cum out of your balls".

Anybody else try something similar?

Long time pussy free couple. Normally I will provide my wife with several toy induced orgasms and afterwards she will give me a pity handjob. This has been our routine for more than a decade.

Last night - after I was done fucking her with a dildo and licking her clit, she got up and sat down on my face.

While I ate her out she used a hollow plastic toy baesball bat to beat my balls. softly at first and then built up momentum.

Soon I felt her orgasm (she is a squirter) and she intensified her strikes on my cock and balls. Then she was building up for her next orgasm.

She came twice riding my tongue, and when she was close the second time she demanded "CUM NOW, DAMN IT".

And I did.

Afterwards she said that she really had fun. And "next time I want to try kicking the cum out of your balls".

Anybody else try something similar?

Long time pussy free couple. Normally I will provide my wife with several toy induced orgasms and afterwards she will give me a pity handjob. This has been our routine for more than a decade.

Last night - after I was done fucking her with a dildo and licking her clit, she got up and sat down on my face.

While I ate her out she used a hollow plastic toy baesball bat to beat my balls. softly at first and then built up momentum.

TI felt her orgasm (she is a squirter) and she intensified herstrikes on my cock and balls. Then she was building up for her next orgasm.

She came twice riding my tongue, and when she was close the second time she demanded "CUM NOW, DAMNIT".

And I did.

Afterwards she said that she really had fun. And "next time I want to try kicking the cum out of your balls".

Anybody else try something similar?

Long time pussy free couple. Normally I will provide my wife with several toy induced orgasms and afterwards she will give me a pity handjob. This has been our routine for more than a decade.

Last night - after I was done fucking her with a dildo and licking her clit, she got up and sat down on my face.

While I ate her out she used a hollow plastic toy baesball bat to beat my balls. softly at first and then built up momentum.

TI felt her orgasm (she is a squirter) and she intensified herstrikes on my cock and balls. Then she was building up for her next orgasm.

She came twice riding my tongue, and when she was close the second time she demanded "CUM NOW, DAMNIT".

And I did.

Afterwards she said that she really had fun. And "next time I want to try kicking the cum out of your balls".

Anybody else try something similar?

I like having my pussy stretched. Hubby is into SPH (way too small for me now). We are somewhat new to this - only 2 experiences since Nov 2025. Must have a girthy cock. Hubby will watch but his participation can be optional (he does like to clean up).

Last night my wife and I had sex - and we both came. Of course, she got a lot more out of it than I did - or maybe we both got exactly what we needed and wanted?

I started out caged, and then she sat on my face and I ate her out to two orgasms. I swear, she almost came the instant my tongue touched her clit. The second orgasm for her was more intense, and she squirted into my mouth.

Then she rolled off, and I put on a medium sized strapon and fucked her missionary until she came again. It is always a mind-fuck for me to observe the dildo sliding in and out of her pussy without my cock having and feeling (although when I pound her hard I can get some feeling/tightness in my balls).

Finally, I pulled out her biggest dildo and she spread her legs wide as she swallowed every last inch. Adding the Hitachi to vibrate her clit pushed her over the edge one last time and she came again.

I looked at the clock - it was 12:14 AM, and we had been at it for just over an hour.

She then released from the cock cage. My dick sprng to life and she told me to "lube up and edge yourself". I did, and after my second down stroke she replaced my hand with hers and sternly told me "CUM NOW. Cum for me NOW, Cum, damn you." This was all I needed to cum like a fountain as she laughed and said "Next time you need to cum faster for me." (I think I came under 15 seconds last night.

Providing my wife with never ending orgasms, while she expects me to cum " fast and easy" for her has become our goal. Yes - we are both getting exactly what we need and want.

Last night my wife and I had sex - and we both came. Of course, she got a lot more out of it than I did - or maybe we both got exactly what we needed and wanted?

I started out caged, and then she sat on my face and I ate her out to two orgasms. I swear, she almost came the instant my tongue touched her clit. The second orgasm for her was more intense, and she squirted into my mouth.

Then she rolled off, and I put on a medium sized strapon and fucked her missionary until she came again. It is always a mind-fuck for me to observe the dildo sliding in and out of her pussy without my cock having and feeling (although when I pound her hard I can get some feeling/tightness in my balls).

Finally, I pulled out her biggest dildo and she spread her legs wide as she swallowed every last inch. Adding the Hitachi to vibrate her clit pushed her over the edge one last time and she came again.

I looked at the clock - it was 12:14 AM, and we had been at it for just over an hour.

She then released from the cock cage. My dick sprng to life and she told me to "lube up and edge yourself". I did, and after my second down stroke she replaced my hand with hers and sternly told me "CUM NOW. Cum for me NOW, Cum, damn you." This was all I needed to cum like a fountain as she laughed and said "Next time you need to cum faster for me." (I think I came under 15 seconds last night.

Providing my wife with never ending orgasms, while she expects me to cum " fast and easy" for her has become our goal. Yes - we are both getting exactly what we need and want.

Last night my wife and I had sex - and we both came. Of course, she got a lot more out of it than I did - or maybe we both got exactly what we needed and wanted?

I started out caged, and then she sat on my face and I ate her out to two orgasms. I swear, she almost came the instant my tongue touched her clit. The second orgasm for her was more intense, and she squirted into my mouth.

Then she rolled off, and I put on a medium sized strapon and fucked her missionary until she came again. It is always a mind-fuck for me to observe the dildo sliding in and out of her pussy without my cock having and feeling (although when I pound her hard I can get some feeling/tightness in my balls).

Finally, I pulled out her biggest dildo and she spread her legs wide as she swallowed every last inch. Adding the Hitachi to vibrate her clit pushed her over the edge one last time and she came again.

I looked at the clock - it was 12:14 AM, and we had been at it for just over an hour.

She then released from the cock cage. My dick sprng to life and she told me to "lube up and edge yourself". I did, and after my second down stroke she replaced my hand with hers and sternly told me "CUM NOW. Cum for me NOW, Cum, damn you." This was all I needed to cum like a fountain as she laughed and said "Next time you need to cum faster for me." (I think I came under 15 seconds last night.

Providing my wife with never ending orgasms, while she expects me to cum " fast and easy" for her has become our goal. Yes - we are both getting exactly what we need and want.

Wife and I are in a FLR. Due to various reasons, we are also in a PF relationship (I have not been allowed to enter her for more than 12 years).

She is a size queen, and loves to have her pussy streteched with giant dildos, while I also lick her clit or buzz her with our Hitachi wand. She is multi-orgasmic, and our sessions last up to an hour.

Once we are done, she will usually (but not necessarily always) reward me with a handjob. Bythat time I am usually on edge and she insists that I cum "fast and easy" for her. I usually cum under 30 seconds. ( My personal best time has been 22 seconds!)

She loves calling me her pussy pleasing hubby. She also wants me to try to cum even faster for her.

Any other couples in a similar situation? And for the women out there - how do you allow your husband/BF to cum?

Interested in hearing from the females in a similar situation!!!

Wife and I are in a FLR. Due to various reasons, we are also in a PF relationship (I have not been allowed to enter her for more than 12 years).

She is a size queen, and loves to have her pussy streteched with giant dildos, while I also lick her clit or buzz her with our Hitachi wand. She is multi-orgasmic, and our sessions last up to an hour.

Once we are done, she will usually (but not necessarily always) reward me with a handjob. Bythat time I am usually on edge and she insists that I cum "fast and easy" for her. I usually cum under 30 seconds. ( My personal best time has been 22 seconds!)

She loves calling me her pussy pleasing hubby. She also wants me to try to cum even faster for her.

Any other couples in a similar situation? And for the women out there - how do you allow your husband/BF to cum?

Interested in hearing from the females in a similar situation!!!

Last night we had sex (in our own way). She had the bed ready....several dildos, the hitachi, lube. We have a stool that is just the right height for me to sit on and I pulled it up, sat down, and started to insert the first dildo she handed me into her waiting pussy. Fucked her slowly with that until she asked me to vibrate her clit with the wand. In just a couple of minutes she came.

I knew what to do next. I replaced the first dildo with #2. She took it like a champ! This time she began rocking and taking the toy deeper and deeper. I removed the wand and used my other hand to slap her clit....she bagan cumming in waves - one after another. She told me "DON'T STOP". After the 4th or 5th O she squirted.

Then - after a short rest, she said she wanted more and I used dildo #3. I pushed it in to the hilt. Then standing up I held it in her pussy with my knee. I turned the wand on HIGH and pressing the toy on her clit with one hand I pinched her nipples with the other. This last orgasm practically had her convulsing. She said "Enough - I am done!"

Afterwards I got the washcloth and towels and cleaned her up. Cuddling, she told me "You earned a handjob honey. Maybe next time". And we fell asleep.

Interested in any comments from the wives out here.

Last night we had sex (in our own way). She had the bed ready....several dildos, the hitachi, lube. We have a stool that is just the right height for me to sit on and I pulled it up, sat down, and started to insert the first dildo she handed me into her waiting pussy. Fucked her slowly with that until she asked me to vibrate her clit with the wand. In just a couple of minutes she came.

I knew what to do next. I replaced the first dildo with #2. She took it like a champ! This time she began rocking and taking the toy deeper and deeper. I removed the wand and used my other hand to slap her clit....she bagan cumming in waves - one after another. She told me "DON'T STOP". After the 4th or 5th O she squirted.

Then - after a short rest, she said she wanted more and I used dildo #3. I pushed it in to the hilt. Then standing up I held it in her pussy with my knee. I turned the wand on HIGH and pressing the toy on her clit with one hand I pinched her nipples with the other. This last orgasm practically had her convulsing. She said "Enough - I am done!"

Afterwards I got the washcloth and towels and cleaned her up. Cuddling, she told me "You earned a handjob honey. Maybe next time". And we fell asleep.

My wife has limited me to "handjobs only" orgasms for more than 10 years. And during that time she has trained me to cum "faster and easier" for her.

Presently I can consistently explode for her in less than 30 seconds....and many times she is able to force me to cum in the low to mid 20's.

She has set a new goal for me: 15 seconds or less. She will use her phone to time me, and if I don't cum withing 15 seconds I will "have to wait until next time."

I told her that cumming so fast for her was sexy as hell and that I was on board for the new challenge.

I'll keep you all posted on the upcoming results!

My wife has limited me to "handjobs only" orgasms for more than 10 years. And during that time she has trained me to cum "faster and easier" for her.

Presently I can consistently explode for her in less than 30 seconds....and many times she is able to force me to cum in the low to mid 20's.

She has set a new goal for me: 15 seconds or less. She will use her phone to time me, and if I don't cum withing 15 seconds I will "have to wait until next time."

I told her that cumming so fast for her was sexy as hell and that I was on board for the new challenge.

I'll keep you all posted on the upcoming results!

After practicing non-PIV sex for well more than 10 years,  is clear that my wife has become increasingly accustomed to the use of toys to enhance her orgasms.  Likewise, I love the excitement of being kept constantly on edge was I provide her with multiple orgasms.  Aand as a true bonus, she loves my ability to "cum on demand" for her when necessary.

While we try to have sex more often, life sometimes gets in the way.  But we always set asisde Saturday afternoon (or night) as our scheduled "sex time".  This past Saturday was "the night".

By the time I got to the bedroom she was lying there on her back, using her magic wand on her clit.  I stood there naked, watching as her breathing intensifed, she moaned and came.  I slid next to her and took over.  She closed her eyes and after a few minutes I could feel her pussy getting wetter.  She cam again.  She turned to me and said "I thought you said I was getting some big cock tonight."

I knew what she meant, so I grabbed one of her big dildo toys and lubed it up. I pressed it against her pussy and it ever  slooowly slid straight in, she was already so wet. I then fucked her slowly with this big toy, while I continued  to buzz her clit with her vibrator.  Her orgasms started to spread over her in waves....3, 4, 5.  She wanted more, and I continued to deliver.  Her final orgasm took a while....unlike the first few, which  usually happen quickly.  But soon she shook and shortly thereafter said ""Im done - enough - too sensitive." 

After she was done I slipped the huge cock from her pussy.  She was sopping wet as per usual.   

She laid next close to me and said " It  looks like your little cock is ready to cum.  Are you going to show me  how fast you can cum for me tonight?"  She started to stroke me.  

Whenever she edges me I often have to push her hand away to stop from  cumming. But this time, when she started stroking me I could immediately tell she wasn't planning on edging me - she was simply trying to force me to cum as quickly as possible.  

After about 15 seconds I could feel my orgasm starting to build. She could tell as well because she picked up her pace even faster, which she knows I love.  And that was it.  I came.  My wife laughed, and just said "I could tell you wanted to cum."

This was fast for even me.  Usually it takes me closer to 45 secs to a minute to explode.  But she seemed intent on forcing me fatter, and I was intent on it, too.  

I told her that cumming so fast for her was sexy as hell and that I hope she enjoyed her big cock. She just smiled and told me "What we do now is so much better than PIV - for the both of us."  "Yes!" I agreed.