r/positivelypremature

Not really experienced so willing to try different things. Read up on a few methods but not sure what will work best. Looking for advice and opinions on different methods and people’s experiences with those methods to see what will work best for us.

Being quite new to this kink would really appreciate some help here because the idea of getting him off so quickly, maybe even eventually to the point of a HFO is getting me off. And even though he would find it humiliating, he’s even told me if I were to succeed to get him to a point where someone brushing past him in public could make him lose control and make a mess, the thought that could happen really turns him on even though it would be humiliating.

Just looking for opinions and advice, hopefully some of you can help us out.

TLDR: Often I don’t even cum and I get so frustrated about it. While some women absolutely love that I can last however long they want, there are those that are rightfully annoyed. Even when I lost my virginity it was about two hours of straight PIV. Poor girl.

I am circumcised, forget about wearing condoms I literally can’t feel a single thing. When I do cum it’s almost always more from mental stimulation combined with lengthy PIV.

I’ve gotten really into watching pre jac B/G porn lately and man is it a turn on to imagine that I could be like that. It doesn’t help that I’ve always been extremely hyper sexual. Masturbation takes hours.

Help me pleaseeeeeeeeeee, any tips or tricks appreciated.

I’m a 40 year old guy who has had PE my whole life. I’ve never been able to last more than one minute but typically bow out around 20 seconds. I’ve tried my best to learn my way around a woman with my fingers and tongue. However, it seems I’ve had bad luck in my choice of women as I can’t seem to make a relationship last. All of said that PE played a roll on their choice along with my size (smaller than average).

I’m trying to look at things positively and accept this is who I am so my genuine question for this group is, are there really women who like PE?

Hi everyone, I found myself in situation I wouldn't dream of in thousand years. I met this great guy and we hit it off well, but he's a quickshot and have a bit of breast obsession while I'm 2busty2hide you could say. It's the cutest, best compliment my chest ever got really 😍.

Now guy's, question for you, is there a thing as too much cumming in a day? Does it get uncomfortable after some time? For context, he can't see me jiggle down the stairs without creaming his pants.

Anyway, I hope I'll get to share some quick stories if they'd be appreciated.

I have this guy I love to mess around with. Nice cock? Nice body, huge cumshots. But he loves to cum fast. Like really fast. The more I tease him the faster he cums. If we only see each other on the weekend we’ll trade nudes and I’ll do whatever it takes to get him going. So by the time we finally see each other he is ready to erupt. The weekend finally arrives and I invite him over. I open the door with just a thong and my glasses on. Once I get him in side I drop down on my knees and get his throbbing cock out of his pants. It looks so good once it comes out. I need it in my mouth. I grab and run my tongue up and down a few times before sticking it all the way in . Before I could even go up and down a few times he’s filling my mouth with cum. It was so much it even spilled out onto my chest. Even after he came he was still rock hard and ready to go.

I've been meaning to post this for a while but a while back I ended up giving a guy a handjob. He came fairly quickly, and was super chill and nonchalant. He told me to help clean him up, smacked my ass and went along his day. Never in my life have I ever had that kind of interaction. It was AMAZING. He was on the smaller side at 4 inches too. He felt quiet warm, wet and throbby. Overall, it was a great experience. I can only hope to experience it again. Also this is my personal preferences in guys, please dont be rude♡

My husband is 40 and I’m 38. We’ve been married a long time. For most our marriage he’s been able to last as long as he wanted. Last year he developed some pelvic floor issues and had lots of pain. He went to pelvic floor physical therapy and it helped cure him of the pain.

However once that pain went away he slowly developed PE. Now I don’t really mind all that much. My hips are grateful he is done in 20 seconds or less. However he’s a bit frustrated and worried he’s not enough. I have told him I really don’t mind because he still takes care of me before or after he ejaculates.

I’m wondering from both men and women, how can I help him feel better about this and that really, it’s not such a bad thing.

Thanks!

anyone ever had a hands free "accident" from their compression shorts

You may have seen all those HIMS adds about getting Viagra or other "enhancement" products for better sex. But did you know they have a discussion on prejac fetish? Check it out: https://www.hims.com/guides/prejac

I came across this on a discord server, TeazeTech Speed Spurt. Not sure how I got to that one and I don't have a link, but you can probably search it and investigate or request access.

Hi all, 43M. I find watching premature people hot asf and on and off I have trained but not stuck to anything. What I want to know from the people that have trained with some stamina how it feels to cum?
Is it intense?
Is weak and less enjoyable?
Constantly on the fence to fully commit to training when I also like to goon and have intense orgasms.
Would love to hear from you.

I love the idea of prejac, but I dont get off on humiliation. Cool if you do, but its not my thing. I am looking for content that is geared towards prejacs but without the humilation and mommy content. Can anyone please point me in the right direction?

I was feeling excited at 3am, so I turned to my wife, who was only wearing a baggy t-shirt and panties. I slid under the covers nudging her and slipped off her panties. Rousing her up a bit I did was i always do and started to eat her out to warm her up. I could feel here getting wetter and after she was ready she brought me up to her to enter.

With her still half asleep I spread her legs and couldn't see any of her body with her baggy shirt covering all of her. With visual stimulation i started thrusting. After about 5 trust of me trembling and trying my best to hold it in. She nudged me off and turned over.

After a few deep breaths i started again from behind. I was trembling holding it together and only got another 5 trust befor completlty loosing my load. All in all the whoe session lasted 30s including her changing positions and trying to calm my self down.

"You woke me for that" she mumbled as she turned over cum dribbling down her ass cheek. She quickly went back to sleep.

One evening after coming home from dinner, my wife and I started making out and kissing after being teased all dinner by her. I stared eating her out and could feel myself close to the edge. I greedily stoped eating her and made two pathetic pumps inside her before cumming.

She was clearly disappointed and out for revenge. "You are going to clean this up". She flips me onto my back grabs her green vibrator and sits on my face.

As she makes herself cum she drips all of her juices and mine into my mouth making me eat it.

It was messy and amazing.

My wife has limited me to "handjobs only" orgasms for more than 10 years. And during that time she has trained me to cum "faster and easier" for her.

Presently I can consistently explode for her in less than 30 seconds....and many times she is able to force me to cum in the low to mid 20's.

She has set a new goal for me: 15 seconds or less. She will use her phone to time me, and if I don't cum withing 15 seconds I will "have to wait until next time."

I told her that cumming so fast for her was sexy as hell and that I was on board for the new challenge.

I'll keep you all posted on the upcoming results!

My wife asked me to wear a condom last night so I can last longer. I've had a vasectomy so it's not needed for contraception. She played me down putting her pussy I my face to warm her up as she rolled a thick condom on. I honestly was already on the verge from just eating her out. I was lucky enough to breath it out and keep going. Once the condom was on we were able to start and I could hardly feel any sensation. I could fuck her without trying to hold back for fear of cumming to quickly.

As she was enjoying herself to take advantage of the moment she requested i put on the large penis sleeve. Now I know im not the biggest only 4" hard, so this doesn't bother me. The penis sleeves is only another 6" long but as thick as a soda can. After placing it on myself, I couldn't feel a thing on my penis. Not one once of pleasure. This session was all about pleasing her. We fucked in every position. On her back, feet behind the head, doggy style and finally with her slamming down on it from sitting on top.

Her pussy had cum about 4 times amd was gapping from the sleeve. When she bent over I could see the inside of her pussy. She had finished and said it was my turn to finally cum. I removed everything and she lay on her stomach. Because of how big her ass is, in this position I can only get a few inches i side her, and wih her pussy gapping it was like fucking air. She told she couldn't even feel me. I came in 5 pumps. She just played there relaxed as I rolled off Dripping.

10/10 would definitely do that again