Did your partner want to spice things up?
Are you self locking because you want to cut down in masterbation?
Do you love denial and the comforts of how a cage feels?
What ever it may be, please share your motives and experiences in chastity!
For myself i love denial, i feel as if jerking off is too easy and non-rewarding anymore. I love feeling small, training my discipline and finding pleasure else on and in my body. As well as focusing on other habits/hobbies. Also im saving my orgasm and cock for a future partner/KH who will allow to unlock me when they feel its necessary.