u/LongjumpingLevel1860

Why are first sessions with new ladies so good?

I went to my favourite AMP a couple days back to see my ATF. Some miscommunication on the phone happened and the mamasan basically said "oh she's not working today". I was like well shit might as well try someone new. I said "well who do you recommend?" She gave me a name and said "she good".

Apparently the girl was a bit new, so I was a bit nervous as to whether she'd be good or not. I like the relationship I have with my ATF, she knows what to do and doesn't do the whole massage bit in the start, just gets to work. When I entered the room, the lady was basically half asleep on the table and just woke up.

This lady though, she seemed late 30s, skinny physique but good ass. The face was okay but the body was young. I'm a big fan of nice hands and arms. Her pressure was great. Light and gentle, and her teasing was very to the point, when she went to my legs she just starting grazing the balls and I flipped immediately.

Maybe it was because it was our first session today but the handy was incredible. Usually they start jackhammering but this lady teased my cock for a solid 10-15 mins. Trying different strokes, using her fingers, teasing my frenulum, after a while I was going wild. She was very patient and kept asking "feel good?". It was great fun, almost made me forget all about my ATF.

By the end of the teasing I was so ready to finish that when she actually started stroking properly I was overstimulated and finished within a minute. She didn't have the best personality or communication skills. She wasn't as chatty as my ATF so I was a bit awkward with her. And when the massage was over she just rested her head on the bed and fell back into a nap. I was like wtf.

She just did her job, and that's it. But she did it very well. I tipped accordingly and told her I'd be back. Now I'm considering seeing her again instead of my ATF for the next few sessions, but idk if she gave me this much attention because it was my first with her, or if this is just how she is.

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u/LongjumpingLevel1860 — 3 days ago

Using AI with my ATF (Part 2)

So last time I saw my ATF at my favourite AMP I experimented with AI. Prepared a small text in Chinese translated with context to help her do a happy ending specifically how I wanted it. It ended up going well but not perfectly well so this time I made it way more detailed.

I not only explained to her how to stroke, but how I wanted her to tease and slowly build up the strokes. I also told her what to do when I finish and how to know that I am about to. This is all very important for me personally because I take about 20 mins to finish. I want to finish in 30 seconds like most guys, way more fun for me.

I also told her what stuff to say or do you turn me on verbally. Personally I'm not a big fan of the generic stuff they say "oh fk me" "oh u so hard" "nice big cock fk me". It's a turn off and a distraction. I'd rather they make noise or breathe or say something I'd want them to say.

The experience was mind-blowing. She immediately said "ok yes I understand don't worry" and went to work. The pressure and strokes were great and the finish was amazing. Best part was that she herself seemed to enjoy it more too, maybe because she was more engaged in the whole activity and hearing it in her native language made it more easy for her to do her job.

I would strongly urge you guys to give this a try. Just remember to tell gpt to add cultural context to the translation to make it more accurate. Otherwise it tends to give very literal translations for words like "teasing" or "finishing".

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u/LongjumpingLevel1860 — 3 days ago

Grateful for my country's local parlors

For context I've lived in the US and the UK so I have a fair idea of the prices and quality offered in AMPs. But my real home is in South Asia. I've decided to settle here for familial reasons.

Anyway, the AMPs in our local towns are absolutely incredible. In terms of quality and value for money. Not only do the masseuses speak my native language (the culture element makes it hotter than being with a Chinese woman), but the prices are according to the local economy.

In USD, I guess you could say the house fee is usually about 20 bucks for an hour. Roughly 10-20 for an L1, 40 for an L2 and 50-80 for an L3. The service is tremendous too, my ATF is based here and she's more enthusiastic than any Chinese lady I've ever been to. Loves to tease and go slow and her handy skills are off the charts.

I have a very hard time climaxing due to stamina, and most masseuses are not the right ones for me. Too rough, too fast, too slow, too uncoordinated, too random, it ruins the experience. But this lady, she knows just how to progress from teasing to going slow to finally going a bit fast whilst talking. Not to mention talking to them easily helps a lot.

Anyone want to share their unique local AMPs and how they're different from western places?

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u/LongjumpingLevel1860 — 10 days ago

Using AI with my ATF went unexpectedly well

I have a clear ATF that I go to for L1. She offers b2b but the usual L1 is perfect for me. That being said, I'm a little bit hard to please compared to other customers I think. I take a long time to finish and have very specific requirements for the strokes I like and how I want to be stroked when I'm climaxing.

As usual, she knows the drill. I walk in, undress, and as soon as she comes in she oils up the boy and gets to work. 5-10 min massage at the end after it's all over. There's no warm up or teasing, I just want to get the longest wank possible.

Anyway this time round I decided to switch things up and whip out the ol chat gpt with specific instructions in chinese on what she should do and when. I thought it might be awkward but I told her before "I know you don't speak English well so I just wanted to tell you something in Chinese". She's a really solid lady anyway, knows me well at this point so she was like ok sure. Heard the message once and was like "ok ok I understand no problem".

I didn't expect much but holy shit. She followed the instructions down to a tee. Didn't get it perfect but she understood about 80% of what I was trying to convey. She was pissed at me afterwards for not knowing how to speak basic Chinese after coming to her so often though lol.

Anyway, would strongly recommend using AI to get your instructions across. They understand it better. Especially if you like specific things like being teased or edged etc.

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u/LongjumpingLevel1860 — 15 days ago