47 [F4M] #Ottawa My first time here.
I’m a 47-year-old woman who has been with the same person for almost 20 years. We’ve built a life together and are genuinely amazing friends, but somewhere along the way, the spark and excitement faded.
I’m not looking for a bunch of casual encounters or endless matches. I’m looking for one person who brings back that feeling I’ve been missing — the butterflies when their name pops up on my phone, the cute text that makes me smile for no reason, and that excitement of genuinely looking forward to seeing someone again.
I’m attracted to someone who is emotionally mature, affectionate, confident and knows how to communicate. Someone who can make me laugh, flirt with me, be playful, but also have real conversations. Chemistry is important, but so are trust, connection and actually enjoying each other as people.
As for me, I’m 47, 5’6”, with brown hair and green eyes. I’ve also recently lost 50 pounds, and I’m feeling healthier, more confident, and more like myself than I have in a long time. I’m slightly on the bigger side, feminine, affectionate and comfortable with who I am.
I love to laugh, I can be playful and flirty, and when I connect with someone, I genuinely enjoy making them feel wanted and appreciated.
I’m not in a rush. I’d rather take my time and find one person where the connection feels natural and the attraction is mutual. I miss that feeling of being excited about someone — the anticipation, the butterflies, the inside jokes, and wondering when you’re going to see each other again.
Maybe you’re missing that too.