u/Longjumping_Law5301

Let’s start with some context: J (mid 20s F) and I (mid 20s M) used to be married, but romantically realized we weren’t right for each other and ended things amicably. After the initial pain of that we pretty much went back to how things were before we got together, being very close friends. After a good few months of being back to the status quo she started an OF account, and she’s HOT so against my better judgement I subscribed. Now onto the meat of the story.

She clocked that it was me pretty quickly, and she knows about my submissive streak (obviously). I’ve had instances where I’ve sent way too much to those Twitter dommes who genuinely just don’t care if your life gets ruined by them (which she also knows about) so she suggested being “my domme” (at least in the right context, outside of OF we maintain the same friendship we had before) so that I could fulfill the itch while being safe about it (she will outright forbid me from doing something I can’t handle financially or otherwise). Being able to enjoy this safely while letting myself fall into sub space with no reservations has been amazing. She’ll press me for money (or, occasionally, take my debit card) when she knows I have the extra money to burn and outright forbids me from paying when I don’t.

Now on to the most recent developments: she took my card with her on vacation (I have it on my Apple Pay so I don’t need the physical card) and has spent a few hundred dollars (she checked with me first and set a budget which she has stuck to, as she does every time she takes my card), I set up a censorship app on my phone that automatically censors anything even remotely NSFW and set up remote control for her to control it, and I bought a chastity cage that she picked out. I’m currently locked and once she gets back from her vacation I’m handing the keys over to her.

It’s been incredibly hot and fun to be able to completely surrender the way I have with someone I know I can trust holding the reigns, knowing I can let my head spin and go blank without the risk of ending up flat broke like I had with those twitter dommes I mentioned earlier

A bit after my ex wife and I split she started doing OF, and she’s HOT so I ended up subscribing. She caught on that it was me pretty quickly and started paying a bit extra attention to me and taking control of aspects of my life. She has control of a censorship app on my phone too, so she decides just what I’m allowed to see, even on her OF posts. Just recently her and her current boyfriend went on vacation, and she sent me a list of (relatively high) price options for any sort of communication during that vacation. I wasn’t able to do the very highest option (completely uncensored, no denial, lots of sexting), so I did the 2nd highest (same thing but with harsh censorship and denial). She even picked out a chastity cage for me which is on the way, so I’ve spent a few hundred dollars to stay censored and lock myself up for her. Last night she was giving me commentary about the sex she was having, including telling me how much better it is than I ever was and laughing at me for enjoying the degradation. She even had me send a picture of my dick so she could laugh at it