I think my husband is hinting he wants gentle femdom
My husband is very dominant in every day life. At home we're very traditional, with other men he's dominant, smart, confident and i swear he can do anything he decides he's going to do. However in bed he always been timid. I think it comes from a place of fear of rejection or he's not sure how to do something well so he doesn't do it. This has gotten exponentially better in the past few years but it took us a while to get here!
Recently he bashfully expressed to me that he wanted to touch latex leggings. I looked into it and bought a dress and leggings. I'm getting gloves and full panties next! He loves it!!! He said he not into the BDSM side of it at all and he just wanted to feel the texture and rub against it and it's visually hot!
He's also mentioned he likes the confidence that comes from me when i wear it. He likes that it's a "game on" sign and im not shy.
We've had other talks and i get the feeling he'd really like it if i just take over in bed and tell him what to do and do with him what i want!
Im looking for play ideas... things to try.
For tonight I'm thinking about getting dressed in black latex, calling him to tell him to come shine me! Then he'll go shower and I'll watch from the corner. Ill get him to go lay on the bed and sit on him let him rub his hands all over my front while i lube in between us and rub my latex dress on his cock.
How else can i incorporate the latex sensory for him?!!! He's shy to indulge in it too much. I think he thinks I'll wonder if he likes latex more than me. I could see that being an issue ll with some people so im in the lookout for it. Right now, i just want to drive him wild while i can!
Any suggestions on how to incorporate the latex fetish for him more?