u/Lost_Chemist_5525

Sorry if you hoped for a scary story, this is just going to be really frustrated sub questioning their own personality.

Exactly as you can imagine given the title, I got ghosted..AGAIN 🫩

And I start to wonder why are we like this, in community that should create safe space first.

I get it, it’s internets incentive that we can do whatever but why be an ass tho?
If there is genuine flow, we both have a really good feedback day to day, get to know each other and, in my opinion, are quite fitting, why not behave like an actual human being and just say „gtfo” when you get heebie jeebies from someone. Like, really, at this point I’d rather get some shit meme sending me on my marry way than be ghosted after an online session of spicy fun or some heart to heart. Because it’s always after something that leaves me emotionally drained and just makes me feel so used, and definitely not in a sexy-use-me-daddy way.

Maybe there is something about me that makes people run but it’s so confusing when I don’t change the way I behave and we already are talking for days or weeks. Like, what scared you man? You were supposed to be the brave one 🥲

I guess I just want some voice of reason because yesterday was my final straw and I start to think it’s just all not for me anymore. Or better yet, maybe someone that ghosted subs in past could say why? Maybe there is some cardinal rule no one ever told me about?

Just, please, send help 🙃