What are your thoughts?
I recently read another reddit post where a bisexual women wanted to explore with another women, but felt it was only fair if her straight husband only could explore with men. Her reasoning is she is capable of fulfilling him as a women. I am the straight wife and I disagree with this. I feel that if he has to do the emotional labor and work on his insecurities so should she. If she is allowed to have sexual experiences with a gender she is attracted to so should he. Fair is fair in opening regardless of the motivation behind it. I am happily monogamous, but I feel it is delusional on the bisexual partners part to assume that because their spouse is straight they fulfill 100% of their sexual desire. It is enough for me to be happily monogamous, but if my partner is seeking fulfillment outside of the marriage then it is only fair for the straight spouse to do the same. Regardless of sexuality we all forego experiences that would be different with another person in a monogamous relationship. What are your thoughts? Not an issue in my marriage just something I read.