I need opinions from heterosexual men about anal play with my man
My partner and I have started playing with my anus; so far we have achieved gentle anal penetration without movement, but that's another story.
Now that we've been experimenting, I've wanted to explore his anus, but he's very stubborn and doesn't want me to even touch or put a finger in it.
I've tried to convince him that his ideal spot is there and that he'll like it, but he's reluctant; we're in Latin America, And here there is a more macho culture, so he feels that his manhood may be damaged or feels that it is something gay to do that.
That's why the question is specifically directed at 100% heterosexual men who have an opinion on this: Is what he says true? Do you guys play around with your partners?
BONUS QUESTION: I bought coconut oil, and it works, but inside I feel like it doesn't lubricate; I have to insert it cold and semi-hard or when it's completely liquid.