u/Luna_TheCute

Hi I'd like to chat with new peeps and I was searching online for telegram groups because it's my personal favorite chat app. Does anyone know of any abdl groups?

I've used it a couple of times both just for and with myself to develop better habits and I had a couple of doms connect to mine as well. (me as the sub)

I've never had much long term luck but I've been tempted to find an Assertive Dom again for both parties to have some fun again. Set rules, punishments, rewards and all that fun stuff. With either kinky or self-improvement routines.

My heart aches for both Mommys and Littles on here who are struggling with their relationships. Now I am no expert, I do not think or believe my thoughts or examples are the "right or only way" to have relationships. I just would like to throw my 2 cents out here in-case if it could catch anyone's eyes and maybe even be helpful.

Relationships, whether just Dynamic or both dynamic and partners, can benefit from setting a foundation to communication skills.

I like to break it down to 3 pillars.

• Trust - Trusting that each person wants the best life/outcomes/stability for each other.
• Open and Honest communication. - Being able to communicate and getting a point or idea across to someone in a way they'll want to perceive it. Being able to openly talk and each party addressing the subject rather than attacking each other.
• Expectations - Both Spoken and Unspoken. Any time we've ever been hurt, sad, upset, or mad, we've had an expectation that was either not met, broken, or unexpected. When we communicate our feelings and expectations, we've gained a deeper understanding of what each other is comprehending in their thoughts.

All three pillars need each other to work.

Talk to your mommy, talk to your babygirl, talk to each other. I know sometimes their is pain or vulnerabilities that wants to hold those words back, but kindly communicating with each other can help set a relationship up for success. <3

I'd like to reiterate that I do NOT think/believe my thoughts/views are the "only or right way." I believe in "if your scenario works for you" then that's awesome! <3 But if nothing else I hope ya'll have a wonderful day and get all the love you need. <3