u/LuvsSizeQueens

It seems like you can't have it both ways unless you put in tons of effort to find the right people in seemingly limitless numbers of others. I like meeting people and talking to them and am interested in exploring sexual stuff more, but I don't just want to mindlessly exchange NSFW stuff and then get ghosted. It seems like where ever I go online I either get one or the other. Good conversation and some connection but no interest in sexual stuff or people who only care about the NSFW and only talk enough to get off then leave forever once they've had their fill of it. It seems like I rarely find someone who sticks around for a good chat after that. There must be others looking for the same, but where are they?