Orgasms after having kids?
So I've only ever been able to orgasm from cowgirl position. I'm guessing it's the clitoral stimulation as it's the grinding back and forth that does it, not the up and down lol hope that makes sense.
Never ever been able to any other way. It wouldn't happen absolutely every time either, but enough.
Currently pregnant with 4th and the orgasms have definitely got less frequent after each child. I definitely haven't had an orgasm since before last child was born (currently 18 months).
I'd guess it was probably 2 years minimum since last orgasm. I don't do toys or masturbate. Never have, never felt the desire or need to. Plus I've always just got bored whenever I've tried masturbating.
Sex is still very much enjoyable and I think I must be too in my head now as I pretty much go into sex know I'm Ng I won't orgasm.
Also never spoke to partner about any of this as worried it would upset him or he'd be offended almost?
Any one been in similar position? I definitely need advice on how to get out of my head - but is there actually something different about my vagina/clitoris after having 3 vaginal births ??
I just want to have orgasms again, I really miss them. 🥲