26 year old man based in Meath seeking another man based in Meath/Westmeath/Dublin for formal corporal punishment roleplay.
Restrain me to the bench and spank me hard with the belt and leather strap.
Also happy to just chat with anyone about our BDSM experiences and interests. My DMs are open.
Hi guys, as spankees, what is your favourite or most painful implement to be spanked with?
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Irish sub looking for sadist dom to give hard punishment spanking with belt/leather strap in corporal punishment roleplay. Bondage included.
Also happy to just chat about experiences and make new friends. DMs open.
Hi all, hope everyone is well. Just wondering if anyone has experienced something similar to what I describe below and/or can help me understand it.
I'm in an exclusive relationship with a really nice guy who I love very much and I foresee us spending our futures together. Our sexual activities are mostly vanilla, little to no kink or BDSM involved. And while we do like to frequently give each other's asses a good smack and have expressed interest in exploring milder scenarios such as being mildly restrained, neither of us really have any desire to introduce full on BDSM activities like impact play or gear into our relationship.
I personally don't have a lot of interest in BDSM as a whole, but I have had a fascination with spanking for as long as I can remember - specifically punishment spankings. Which I find odd since I was never spanked as a child growing up.
When I was in college, before I met my partner, I used two Grindr accounts; one for just looking for vanilla hookups with just vanilla sex, and the other was specifically for looking for someone to spank me - emphasising that there was to be no sex of any kind involved, just spanking. In my mind sex and spanking have always been two separate things and putting them together doesn't sit right for me.
I managed to get myself spanked a few times, and each time I wanted to try getting it harder, I wanted to introduce the need for me to be restrained to take spankings that were genuinely painful and brought me to tears. And I became interested in adding elements of roleplay to create a more immersive experience, but I never actually did a roleplay spanking before I left the scene. But before I left, I had developed a very particular fantasy to take severely painful spanking from a leather strap that involved roleplay and bondage that I'd wanted to try acting out.
As mentioned before I've had a fascination with punishment spankings for a long while and I increasingly wanted to take spankings that were genuinely painful, and what gets more punishing than judicial corporal punishment. So my fantasy involves roleplaying as a prisoner. I'm given a medical exam beforehand and then led to the punishment room where I sign documents and strip my clothing. I'm restrained over a bench and then the officer (spanker) begins beating my ass with a big leather strap. In this fantasy I have no safeword, just a pre-agreed duration of time for which I'm to get my ass beat with the strap, and the spanker is to keep beating me for that time no matter how much I cry or beg.
Even though I'm now in an exclusive vanilla relationship, I still find myself wondering what it would have been like to get this spanking.
So I guess what I'm asking for here is:
Has anyone else had this kind of fascination with punishment spanking? Genuinely seeking out severely painful beatings?
Is anyone in an exclusive vanilla relationship but still occasionally has these intrusive thoughts and fantasies?
And has anyone every taken such a spanking that I've described in my fantasy? I'd be interested in hearing what that was like.
Thank you all for taking the time to read my rambling thoughts lol.