First time using sleeve with wife
Me M(37) finally got to use a sleeve on my wife F(36). I bought the mailman 8 and the Barney 2 years ago. The first time she saw them she said no. I quit asking.
The other day i got her really turned on but she won’t let me finish inside her since we already have 3 kids and im not fixed. I convinced her to let me use the Barney so I could finish inside her since we don’t have condoms.
I went down on her first, finished her with my tongue and finger. Then I lubed it up and it went right in. Girth was a little uncomfortable but the length she didn’t seem to like at all. She didn’t complain at all but afterwards she was nauseous, said it felt like she was being punched in the stomach.
Few nights later I got her in the mood again and asked her if she wanted to use the sleeve again. Her response was it’s up to you. I asked what feels better for her and her response was it hurts less without it. So I said no sleeve then and she said IDC. I said you please choose I want you to enjoy it, her response was IDC.
I opted to try it again and convinced her to get on top so she could control the depth. No foreplay this time other than making out and massaging her to put her in the mood.
Lubed it up and she got it in okay. (The Barney again) but it was too uncomfortable, so she used the domi wand while riding on top which tends to relax her vagina then it seemed fine.
She finished from the vibrator. And didn’t complain about the nausea this time but she took the whole thing.
I can’t tell if she’s enjoying it and didn’t want to choose it to protect my feelings, or if it’s uncomfortable for me and she doesn’t want to use it because she thinks I do.
She said similar to how laying in a dentist chair with your mouth stretched open for an hour is how her vagina hurts afterwards. Just feels stretched and sore.
Was debating on ordering one shortened a little but the truth is even with no sleeve, depending on the position sometimes I make her nauseous and I’m barely average at 6 x1.6.
I think she secretly likes the girth, but the length is uncomfortable, even though she took the full length of the Barney.
After having our last kid sex has hurt her (depth wise) doctor said her uterus has dropped a little. I did read though that using bigger toys can push it back up, which is one of the main reasons I wanted to try it to begin with. Was hoping to get her enjoying sex again.
The Barney is dual density medium soft with matte finish.
Mixed results I guess, didn’t seem to absolutely love it, but didn’t say no to using it again.