u/Maleficent-Meal-9917

Toy Question

SORRY MODS IF THIS IS TOO MUCH! Trying my best here.

I’ve used a dildo infrequently until recently when I came out to my wife. Even now it’s usually just once or twice a month. My wife is super supportive but also doesn’t get any pleasure out of participating with it. She gets turned on watching but doesn’t want to be the “giver”. Pegging is definitely off the table. I had to get a new dildo a few months ago but ended up getting a cheap one from Spencer’s and it works great but I also know it’s probably not the safest. I’ve wanted to get a new one but really get overwhelmed by all the options. I want something that’s average sized and realistic but won’t break the bank. I’ve also wondered about a double sided dildo. Seems like it could give us both something out of it but I’ve got my doubts about ease of use and if both partners can get what they need.

Can I get some recommendations on dildos and some feedback on the double sided dildo wonderings.

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u/Maleficent-Meal-9917 — 9 days ago

What to wear to pride festival

Probably WWWAAAAAYYYY overthinking this but we were invited to go with a group of friends. I’ve come out to my wife of many years very recently and only to her. I’ve also only ever been intimate with her so idk what to even call myself. I’m very straight passing and masculine so no one would ever suspect. I feel like regular ass clothes is probably the answer. Got a pink polo that goes well with some blue shorts so it’s subtly bi-colors but just figured I’d ask on my private profile

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u/Maleficent-Meal-9917 — 3 months ago