Did I make a mistake ordering twice my size?
So, I've (38M) been fascinated with the sleeves. I'm fairly small. I'm Asian. My wife is also Asian. She's never had sex with anyone else. I was her first and I'm certain I'll be her last. She's super faithful. Even has hard time touching herself. As a matter of fact, she refuses to touch herself. I've introduced some toys. She likes the vibrators and she'll hold it to herself and I usually go doggy on her. That's one of the only ways she can climax. Of course, I've learned to please herself with my tongue and fingers. But the other position is cowboy style where she rides me and sometimes she'll get her legs up to go in deeper. She says that feels good and she cums from it.
I can't help but wonder if there's something more to be desired. So I bought a penis sleeve knowing that she'll never experience it other than if I tried it with a sleeve. She won't even let a dildo come near her. Now that I got that out of the way, I just ordered the Fuzzy Barney dual density. It's effectively 8 inches long. I'm 4"!!! Am I making a mistake? Do you think she'll completely refuse to take it in and it'll be a waste of $165?
Or do you think there's a way to ease her into it. Remember, she's never had anything bigger than mine. But I feel like there's something that can't be achieved with my size. Not sure how true that is, but I just want her to scream in pleasure from penetration.
I know you'll say that not every woman can cum from penetration alone. Most of them need the clitorial stimulation. But the fact that she can climax on top of me taking it as deep as she can tells me something. Sure it probably will hurt, but do you think we can work up to taking in the whole 8 inches for that something?
I'd appreciate all of the input based on experiences, especially first time with something significantly bigger. Twice the length in my case. Of course I welcome all comments, buy I think there's something valid and valuable if you have a vagina.
Thank you.