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Does anyone use condoms with sleeves? It just seems that I can't find a lube that works extremely well with sleeves. Most seem to dry out quickly and constantly having to reapply. Just wondering if a condom with lube will work better.

Good morning all.

The more I look into it the more I think I want to pull the trigger on one of these because I think my wife will really enjoy it, but, with the cost of the sleeves I’m worried about making a poor decision.

I measured the length and girth of the dildo that my wife has enjoyed using in the past and I think I want to end up in the 7-8” length range and I want to go around 6.5 in girth or maybe slightly larger (this would be just a little larger than the dildo, she seems to enjoy thicker, but I don’t want to go too much larger then what she’s had before, at least at first 😏)

so, looking online I’m between the following:

my personal Bull medium

Hog C

lova lova 7.5x7.6 (I know this one is a little girthier than my stated numbers above, but I have a natural curve to myself and find myself wondering if the curved approach is what I want)

for those who have experience with this what are your thoughts and opinions?

Just recently ordered our first sleeve. Mailman 7 shortened an inch, dual density and whisper finish. My wife’s main complaint with silicone toys is it seems like the lube goes away, and they sort of feels tacky, not slick.
I don’t want to ruin the sleeve experience from the get go. Any advice on the best lube that is safe for these sleeves? The slicker the better. Thanks guys!

PS:I can’t wait to get our sleeve!

We thorough wash and dry our sleeves after use with soap and water, store in a dry space, etc. However, we found that we'd sometimes miss a spot or there would be water or residue in the deepest part of the sleeve when we'd go to use them again.

I came across these desiccant rods made of diatomaceous earth, which cheaply and effectively solve this problem. I take 2 of these rods and store them inside of each of our sleeves, guaranteed to keep them dry, odor free, more hygienic, and ready for (frequent) use. It's an insanely cheap solution to never think about this problem again.

Hope this helps with your storage :)

I was not blessed down below and have always been super self conscious about it despite my wife’s assurances that she loves my size. I bought the Step it Up last year and I gotta say I absolutely love this thing. It feels very empowering, especially hearing the sounds my wife makes when I’m using it on her. This last romp with it, I could tell she was in total bliss. I said to her “you love it, don’t you”. She said “I do…”
That was the first time she admitted she loved the sleeve.
I don’t care what a woman says, they do in fact love bigger. It didn’t make me upset at all. It makes me feel good knowing I can change it up for her and give her such pleasure. Now I’m contemplating getting other sleeve models.

Short story. I bought a Lova Lova 7.5 x 7.6… my partner couldn’t get pass the mid shaft. Rookie mistake. My partner is a 5’0 and 102 lbs. she’s kinda tight down there. Probably shallow as well. I wanted to ask WOMEN perspective what model is your favorite or at least allowed you to enjoy and open the door to keep growing. Also there’s the issue that some of the lower size sleeve dont fit right (according to the website guide). IDK it reccomended 5 x 1.25 or 5 x 1.125 but the legend 6, 6.5, 7, and 7.5 as well as the mailman 6 and 7 disappeared from the list when I enter my measurements.

I’m between the Legend 6.5, Legend 7, Mailman 7, and any other in that range.

Have been using the SIU 7x1.6 (5.5x1.125 internal) for a couple years but only once per 3/4 months on average.

In the beginning we were really struggling finding the right lube but i think we found a good one now.

The issues that my girlfriend mentioned were:

Head too hard, too much of a foreign/unnatural object feel

Sore feeling sometimes after couple minutes of use

Too long (although I go balls deep nowadays and she never mentions this anymore)

What i noticed myself while wearing it was bump out at the base and the shaft diameter much larger than the head

So I want to replace it and was thinking of getting a mailman and that's where I'm stuck.

7 or 8? Length wise, 7 is not a problem, so the extra inch can be useful. The 8 is also girthier, maybe too big of a step?

Single, dual, tz, tdtz? Was thinking soft shaft, extra soft head based on her complaints.

Internal dimensions im thinking of going a size up in girth to 5.5x1.25.

Definitely taking the whisper finish based on reviews.

Hoping one of the experts here can shed their light and help me maximize my girlfriends pleasure

So we are both in our mid 60s, things still work but not like they used to 30 years ago. I’ve used the pills and they do work, but a lot of times won the spontaneous combustion erupts, and the pills are not in my system this creates a little bit of a disappointment for me. We’ve been researching sleeves and appears this brand is probably the best.

My wife is in a size queen, but she says a little more girth would definitely feel good

I’m about 6 1/2 long how about 4 inches in girth. And sometimes it just doesn’t get as hard.

I have a couple models that I think will work, but my questions are the textures, the finishes, the double lining. I welcome any and all suggestions and comments.

Thank you in advance

Me(26f) and my bf (26m) got our first sleeve in the mail a little over a week ago. Thanks for all the advice on what one to pick! We ended up going with the step it up 7x1.6 with dual density and the whisper finish to start out with. We’re glad we didn’t go with the 1.8 version since the girth calculator ended up being a little wrong.

My first post was here when I was asking for advice: https://www.reddit.com/r/BlissfullCreations/s/7hkTTuRNfF

We used it the same night we got it. We measured and It ended up making him go from 6 inch length and 4.1-4.3 inches girth to 7 inches long and nearly 5.8-5.9 throughout most of it. Definitely thicker than I had hoped since Im used to taking our 5.4 girth dildo and didn’t want to go above 5.6ish. But I was wrong for being nervous. Its super glidy compared to silicone dildos so the extra girth was really nice.

He warmed me up by giving me a blindfolded massage until I was nice and ready. I could hear him slip it on (he said it was easier to put on the second time). He went slow right away, going only a little bit in and out. I was so turned on that I told him to start fucking me. It felt insane… The girth was amazing and it felt closer to a real penis than other any toy we’ve tried. I ended up cumming twice the first time we used it. Major success all around.

We liked it so much that we used it again 2 nights later haha. He was roleplaying while I was blindfolded which was very hot. He even ended up cumming inside of it while I was riding him!! I was actually happy to see that since I was worried it wouldn’t feel great for him.

We’re now thinking of getting the desensitizing sleeve for sessions where he gets close to cumming fast. That way I don’t need warmup and he can keep going.

Let me know if you all want to see a pic of it on him!

Rating: 9.5/10 highly recommend for those starting out like us!!

Greetings!

So, little about me, I’m a pretty big guy, 6’6” tall. Fairly average cock at about 6.5” long.

When my wife and I started dating she had at one time made a comment about how girth matters more than length for her. (To the point she will regularly tell me that I’m going too deep)

Fast forwards quite a bit and I, trying to draw out her wild Latina side a little more, bought a couple realistic looking toys to play with, both of which were thicker than I am.

She responded really well to the first one, which also warmed up and vibrated and she really liked that. But then eventually died and I bought just a larger 9.25 inch long 2 inch wide realistic dildo to use on her.

I loved the way her body responded to being stretched out by it and filled.

That being said, I could also tell that while she loved how it felt she also missed the rest of it, having me manhandle her and different positions.

So, all that being said, what I think I’m looking for is something I can use to make myself, primarily thicker (maybe just over 2” diameter) that preferably can be warmed up so it feels real, and will allow me to just put it on and have sex with her with a cock bigger and thicker than just me and give her the best of both worlds, me being able to put her into the positions she enjoys with my body driving the movements but with the thickness that drives her crazy.

Any and all recommendations welcome, I’ve browsed a little bit and know that just going to the local sex shop with her and picking out something on hand probably isn’t the way to go as the stuff sold there will probably be cheaper and feel plastic, and I really want to give her a good experience.

Hi Everyone!

My GF and I started our sleeve journey about 6 months ago and it has been amazing! I am a much smaller man (4.5") but satisfying women has never been an issue. We ventured into the sleeve space (due to my own cognance) with a starter basic clear sleeve that ultimately didn't end up working out due to the gap between myself and the sleeve, kept folding up and such. This led me to BC, and I ordered ourselves The Steamboat Captain for our first sleeve. Let's just say, wow, it has been a welcomed addition to our sex life and we pretty much use it exclusively.

Well, the time has come for us to upgrade. My GF likes the sleeve we are using but I want her to take more, and she's open to it. The Steamboat measurements are 8x5.8". She does say the length sometimes is a bit much so I'm looking for something to be similar length but more girthy.

I've been looking at the Hog D (8x7.1") but am open to suggestions. Has anyone else done a similar jump, any recommendations?

Thank you all!

I came back into our room last night to find my wife (45) had set up our sleeve in the heating pad with lube and had her wand out. She was laying on the bed looking lean and trim with no bottoms and just one button done on her pj top.
She loves the sleeve! We got it in December and now she wants it nearly every time.
I of course started kissing from the bottom up getting that button on my way. By the time I got to kiss her. She was incredibly wet. I told her I love
That she loves to get fucked by a big dick. To which she replied, not all the time. Just most of the time. Once we warmed up a bit more the sleeve went on and I truly enjoy watching her face lust with hunger when it goes on. She just wants. It’s incredible.
Slid in, she was on top and enjoyed watching her eyes just roll back. I tease her a bit and she can’t take it. She leans forward and whispers in my ear. “You need to fuck me hard.”
Toss her in her back and pound her sweet pussy. She grabs her wand and cums with so much intensity.
Couldn’t do that without the sleeve.
This is too much fun at times.
Best sex toy investment!