A cafe customer 20 years older than me…
I can’t believe I’m writing this here, but I’m curious to hear a different perspective.
Besides studying, I work part time at a cafe. I work morning shifts, I don’t look my best that early, and above all, it isn’t intellectually stimulating work. Anyway ridiculously handsome man comes into this cafe almost every day. I think he’s around 40, while I’m about 20. Objectively speaking, he’s much more attractive than I am. He comes in, orders, and leaves.
Sometimes I wonder if I should strike up a conversation with him, but I don’t want to come across as pushy. So my question is: would talking to him be unprofessional? I really doubt he’d be interested.
I’m posting here because I’d like to hear a male perspective. Would that kind of behavior be awkward or uncomfortable? Are there any couples here who met under similar circumstances?