Struggling and need to vent

first, I just wanna start off with a little bit of a background about myself. I’m a stay at home mom to three under four, I run a not so successful home bakery. I started Fansly January 22, 2026, and I’m also a TikTok live streamer. I have a few mental disabilities such as anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, PTSD, and postpartum depression. I started this page to earn some income and I would say I’ve had a few successful months in my opinion for just starting out my average is about $1500 a month but I feel like I should be selling more PPV, and customs, but I’m not getting any of those requests or purchases. I have around 3800 followers and currently have 44 active the majority of them not on auto renew and have had 130 subscribers in total. I feel like for being this far in I should have more subscribers and I should be making more money than what I am for customs and PPV. I also rarely have people asking me to do Sexting so I’m currently heavily relying on subscriptions and the odd picture or video unlocks. I feel like my pricing is very fair if anything I’m under charging, for example, I charge $50 for a 25 minute Sexting pictures and videos not included customs $15 a minute if they want anything additional it I’m always running promos on my tiers. I am very responsive in my DM’s. I am posting in the fyp x2 a day. just don’t know what I’m doing or what I can do more of to earn more money. if anyone has any advice, I would really appreciate it because I’m getting so down on myself and I feel like self-confidence is taking a toll because I feel like nobody wants to watch a fat girl like me.

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u/MaskedBBWDaddyPOV — 1 day ago

Struggling to get custom orders

it has been probably two months since I’ve made a custom video for anyone. I’m really struggling to have people order them. I don’t know if it’s my pricing or my content. I’m really not sure what more I can do other than sending frequent reminders that customs are always open or that I thrive on customs. when I do send mass messages, I’m not mentioning a price. if anyone has any tips on what I can do to get more custom orders, because I feel like I’m really losing out on a lot of money having 3300 followers.. I’d appreciate any tips or feedback. Thank you in advance!

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u/MaskedBBWDaddyPOV — 24 days ago

Looking for some feedback/advice

I started fansly January 2026 and I understand I’m still new and have lots to learn. I’m struggling converting my followers to subs… I have a decent amount of media considering I started at the end of January this year.. is anyone able to look over my page or maybe to give some pointers on how you are converting followers to subs.. I’ve never been the pushy type but I feel like I might have to start becoming one 🤣

https://fansly.com/MaskedBBWDaddyPOV/t0

u/MaskedBBWDaddyPOV — 2 months ago

I’ve been on fansly since January and have been relatively successful in my eyes. the last 2 posts I’ve made have not been posted to FYP yet post to FYP is checked off. I’m getting on average 2500 views per day and these are the only posts with this issue. I haven’t come across this issue before. my post always get FYP views even if it is 50-100 per post, yet these have nothing… what have I done wrong because I’ve changed nothing in my settings

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u/MaskedBBWDaddyPOV — 3 months ago