r/Fansly_Advice

From the mods please read

Hey babes, it’s Kate here from the mod team. I just wanted to make a post firstly to introduce myself but also to keep you up to date with changes here

I’m somewhat of an emergency mod here, Milky and Salty are the main moderators and I’m just here to cover the time zones when a lot of you are asleep as I’m in the Southern Hemisphere

One thing we’ve been inundated with since taking over is messages from agencies/coaches/chatters asking to advertise their services here. I just want to assure you that this space will never tolerate any form of advertising. All advice here should be given freely but also taken with caution. Because we all know that this isn’t a ‘one method fits all’ kind of industry. Please let us know if anyone reaches out to you via DM here or on Fansly to sell you something if you suspect they have found you from this subreddit, and we will do all we can to prevent this happening

Another thing that has been brought up both in DMs and on the suggestion post here, is flairs for experienced/top creators. You may have seen this on other subreddits for other platforms and it can be really helpful, but we’d love to know your thoughts on this. It’s important to us that everyone feels equal here regardless of their percentage on the platform

I’ve been on this subreddit for three years now and I stalked posts here on my personal account for 6 months before starting my Fansly. I attribute a lot my success to the amazing free advice I gained here so I’m passionate about bringing this sub back to its original form, giving back to community, and continuing a safe environment for new and experienced creators

Sorry for the long wall of text but the mod team would love to hear your opinions on the matters I’ve mentioned here, so comment below and let us know your thoughts

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u/lilariesangel — 6 hours ago

Freeloader with high activity..

So I have this follower who is crazy active on my posts, comments on every single thing im posting and is always showering me with compliments. I’ve talked to him many times trying to get to know his likes and kinks , but he never buys anything.. He just keeps on commenting on every single thing.. last week i tried ( in a nice way) to write to him that if he really likes my previews then he should definetly sub and what not.. He answered something about his card not working or whatever.. Now, he kind of pisses me off.. I know fansly is full of freeloaders, but i have never experienced someone that comments this much.. any advice?

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u/Nordicvelvet — 9 hours ago

What type of custom request is this????

I have never had a request this long and specific and mind you this person isn’t even subscribed.

u/Haunting-Duty7296 — 9 hours ago

Payout (U.S. options)

What has everyone's experience been with payout directly to their U.S. banks?

i have capital one has anyone had issues with this? or other banks e.g. chase etc.?

like has the banks retaliated etc.

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u/jasminemeix — 13 hours ago

Can someone take a look at my page?

I'm aspenblack2025 on fansly and having a hard time getting subs. I was hoping someone could take a look at my page and tell me how I can improve?

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u/AdDapper7803 — 11 hours ago

Already feeling discouraged because of a hate comment (Lewdtuber)

I’m a Vtuber and I have been streaming for 4 months. Yesterday my bf and I decided I could kinda explore the lewd side of it, aka Lewdtubing. I made a fansly and I was proud and excited. I had some goals in mind like posting NSFW art, using NSFW model assets on my model, ERPS and sexting in DMS, but mostly doing tame stuff. No NSFW streams as I live with family, am disabled and can’t afford an NSFW nude model. I also don’t feel comfortable with posting nudes as again.. I have an abusive family who took my phone once for doing that. So I did what most people do and tell my community about it and also Reddit. I linked my fansly and did the usual (https://www.reddit.com/r/VirtualYoutubers/s/qtsML64Dt2). Everyone took it well and even my community members were willing to support me despite some limitations and boundaries. However I had one annoying comment on that post and when I replied they kept simply being an asshole.. this made me argue with them which is a long thread. Saying it’s “pointless” and that I should be expected to post my nude body, cosplay and irl stuff. The point of Vtubing is to be anonymous so why should I? A vtuber I follow named Camila is basically doing lewd art and animations with her 3D model and is that not “pointless”? Why am I being forced to do stuff I don’t like.. Anyways after a while I did add audios and proved it to him to which he accused me of lying. It turned into a big argument which made me so hurt and discouraged..
Like bro just sat there nitpicking everything I did and now I really want to try my best to get the money so I can appease people and have good content. I really just hate when people do that. Constructive criticism is fine, but just sitting there and being a blatant asshole is not. I try my best and the artist I have is working on as much NSFW art for me as possible and I want to also commission more art.

Anyways, I’m sorry for this lengthy paragraph I just wanna see what everyone thinks. I thought my bj video was good too :(

Fyp promo only

This is not my first time doing this, but I just got burnt out last time promo wise. Was thinking of trying a different approach. Not a social media person and was wondering if anyone had success just using the fyp on fansly?

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Struggling and need to vent

first, I just wanna start off with a little bit of a background about myself. I’m a stay at home mom to three under four, I run a not so successful home bakery. I started Fansly January 22, 2026, and I’m also a TikTok live streamer. I have a few mental disabilities such as anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, PTSD, and postpartum depression. I started this page to earn some income and I would say I’ve had a few successful months in my opinion for just starting out my average is about $1500 a month but I feel like I should be selling more PPV, and customs, but I’m not getting any of those requests or purchases. I have around 3800 followers and currently have 44 active the majority of them not on auto renew and have had 130 subscribers in total. I feel like for being this far in I should have more subscribers and I should be making more money than what I am for customs and PPV. I also rarely have people asking me to do Sexting so I’m currently heavily relying on subscriptions and the odd picture or video unlocks. I feel like my pricing is very fair if anything I’m under charging, for example, I charge $50 for a 25 minute Sexting pictures and videos not included customs $15 a minute if they want anything additional it I’m always running promos on my tiers. I am very responsive in my DM’s. I am posting in the fyp x2 a day. just don’t know what I’m doing or what I can do more of to earn more money. if anyone has any advice, I would really appreciate it because I’m getting so down on myself and I feel like self-confidence is taking a toll because I feel like nobody wants to watch a fat girl like me.

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u/MaskedBBWDaddyPOV — 1 day ago

Video clipping tool recommendations?

Does anyone have any recommendations for tools that automatically create multiple short clips from a video? I found several different options through a Google search, but most of them depend on having dialogue to distinguish clips, and uh, there's not much talking happening in my videos since they're porn lol. Also, does all of this technology use AI? I'd prefer to avoid it if possible, but it seems like these tools might all inherently use AI.

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u/vanessvalentinexo — 1 day ago

Gift Links in Post text not linking - active?

Maybe it's my English or not being very tech savvy but I noticed that when I post anything and add a gift link in the body of the post it is not clickable/live. Is that normal? Did I miss something? Thank you! 😘
(PS A Fansly Gift Link.)

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u/AngieNoirFilms — 1 day ago

Can you set up charging for DMs after a certain free amount?

I tried making the title as clear as I could; I’m super new to Fansly (like, I’m getting everything set up today) and I was wondering if there’s a way to only start charging for DMs after, let’s say, 10 free ones. I found how to set DM prices, but I couldn’t find a way to set it the way I’d like. I read through the creator guide page about messages, but I didn’t see the info I’m looking for

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u/RamblingGoofball — 1 day ago

What % of your followers/subs come from fansly FYP vs. external social media?

What % of your followers/subs come from FYP vs. social media channels (e.g. reddit, insta, X etc)

- how much time do u spend promoting on each platform, which one has worked best for u for promoting?

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u/jasminemeix — 2 days ago

Anyone have experiences with people they know being a subscriber?

I realized today that one of my subscribers is someone I'm friends with. Halfway through a sexting session, I was like "fuck, I know this person, don't I". Thankfully, I just thought it was kind of funny. After the session, I casually brought up one of my friends (them) and mentioned how they have really recognizable tattoos.😝 (They sent me one photo where the tattoos were partially obscured, but they weren't hidden enough.) They took me calling them out pretty well. I know them well enough to know they won't be gossipy about it or treat me weirdly.

Anyone else have stories of this happening? How did it go for you?

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u/MagicMirandaMtg — 2 days ago

Fansly Advice Has New Moderation

Hi everyone! I’ve recently taken over moderation of this subreddit after the previous mod team became inactive.

Going forward I hope we can keep the subreddit helpful, positive and free from spam, wannabe pimps and rule breaking.

I’d love to hear your feedback:

1- are there any rules you’d like to see added or changed?
2- is there anything you’d like to see more (or less) of?
3- any ideas for improving the community?
4- any new Flair ideas?

Please leave your suggestions or ideas in the comments ☺️ I’ll look to start making changes over the coming days

Please check the comments and upvote your favorites so I know what are the priority requests to focus on

I’m also looking to add to the moderation team. If you’re interested please send me a modmail

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u/MilkyMama__ — 3 days ago

Questions regarding the FYP posts

I already used the search function, but after reading through about 40 posts I still havent found an answer, so I will just ask :)

If I post to the FYP, will it always show on my profile? I made a new private wall, but it says that the main wall is required. I would rather post without my subscribers seeing my fyp posts, since i reuse old content.

Also, if someone looks me up, will they see all my FYP posts? Like, as if they look up my insta and see all my reels? Or how does it work exactly?

The FYP guide on Fansly didnt rly help with any of those questions sadly lol

Thank you for your time and attention <3

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u/DillyDaisy_ — 1 day ago

Advice

Hey! New to Fansly. I’m posting to the FYP. I’ve been on for a week now, but have been more consistent the past couple of days. I’ve only gotten ONE subscriber so far. I’m posting to the FYP as well. I’m just a basic female. I would consider myself average. I don’t really expect to blow up or make tons of money from this (although the money would be nice). How can I get more followers? What I’ve noticed is they are liking my free preview for the FYP. I feel like maybe I’m showing too much. The platform seems a little difficult to use because there’s a lot of options. Anyways, any advice would help! Thanks 😊

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u/Pure_Jaguar_8103 — 1 day ago