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35 [M4M] #NYC - looking for a nice cock to suck and edge while you watch porn

I’m attractive, fit and athletic, discreet, and very comfortable with healthy casual connections. I’m not super experienced with guys and I’d like to practice a bit.

You should be reasonably attractive, fit, and decently well-endowed. I’m not looking for someone who’s going to try to be dominant or disrespectful with me. Ideally you’d like to just sit back and enjoy a slow edging blowjob, watch porn, and get serviced.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 3 days ago
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35 [M4M] #NYC - looking for a nice cock to suck and edge while you watch porn

I’m attractive, fit and athletic, discreet, and very comfortable with healthy casual connections. I’m not super experienced with guys and I’d like to practice a bit.

You should be reasonably attractive, fit, and decently well-endowed. I’m not looking for someone who’s going to try to be dominant or disrespectful with me. Ideally you’d like to just sit back and enjoy a slow edging blowjob, watch porn, and get serviced.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 4 days ago

35 [MF4M] #NYC - looking for a guy to suck while she watches

We’re play partners, both attractive, fit and athletic, discreet, and very comfortable with healthy casual connections. She leans dominant and would like to watch me suck cock.

You should be reasonably attractive, fit, and decently well-endowed. We’re not looking for a traditional bull or someone who’s going to try to be dominant or disrespectful with either of us. You should be willing to take some direction from her and give her the show she wants. We just want someone to come over, receive a blowjob from me while she watches, and leave.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 4 days ago

35 [M4M] #NYC - edge you until you throb and cum

I’d like to find a chill, discreet guy with a nice cock who wants cock worship and service. I’d like to edge you to a huge orgasm while you sit back and relax.

I’m white, fit and athletic, good looking, and highly discreet

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 6 days ago

35 [M4M] #NYC - I want to stroke and edge someone

If you have a nice cock, if you’re clean and discreet, and if you’re interested in sitting back watching porn while you get edged and serviced, hit me up.

I’m tall and fit, athletic, masc, white and very discreet. No strings, just a fun edging session.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 6 days ago

36 [FM4M] #NYC - looking for a cock to service while she watches

Pretty straightforward - we’re play partners, both mid 30s, fit and attractive, white, professional careers, discreet and all around normal outside of the bedroom.

She’d like to watch me suck a cock. She’d like it to be big, and she’d like it to cum a lot. She will be there, but she does not want to be involved beyond watching, masturbating, and directing us.

If you’re interested and you’re ok with showing up at a hotel, getting your dick sucked, and immediately leaving, please reach out.

Apparently I have to add this: if you decide to reach out, please have a reasonable attachment to reality. Provide some basic information about yourself in your first message. Be prepared to send a dick/body picture if I accept your chat request. Understand that we’re going to chat and make a plan for the future.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 11 days ago

36 [M4M] #NYC - looking for a cock to service while she watches

Pretty straightforward - we’re play partners, both mid 30s, fit and attractive, white, professional careers, discreet and all around normal outside of the bedroom.

She’d like to watch me suck a cock. She’d like it to be big, and she’d like it to cum a lot. She will be there, but she does not want to be involved beyond watching, masturbating, and directing us.

If you’re interested and you’re ok with showing up at a hotel, getting your dick sucked, and immediately leaving, please reach out.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 14 days ago

36 [FM4M] #NYC - looking for a cock to service while she watches

Pretty straightforward - we’re play partners, both mid 30s, fit and attractive, white, professional careers, discreet and all around normal outside of the bedroom.

She’d like to watch me suck a cock. She’d like it to be big, and she’d like it to cum a lot. She will be there, but she does not want to be involved beyond watching, masturbating, and directing us.

If you’re interested and you’re ok with showing up at a hotel, getting your dick sucked, and immediately leaving, please reach out.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 14 days ago

39 [F4A] - strangely aroused by sexual failures

Sucking for ten minutes on a limp penis while we both ignore that he’s not getting an erection.

A man frantically pounding away at me trying to maintain his erection because he’s desensitized from his constant death grip masturbation.

A man trying to keep fucking me and hide the fact that he came prematurely.

I’m much more fascinated and affected by sexual failures than impressive sexual specimens. The psychological complexity and potency of a failure excites me in a way normal encounters don’t.

I’m happy to discuss and answer questions about this. However, DO NOT message me just to spill some sort of confession about how pathetic you are and tell me about your own sexual failures. Hearing some random stranger’s experiences does nothing for me. I’m only here to discuss my experiences.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 14 days ago

39 [F4A] - The Online Dating Carousel

I’ve been back on dating apps for a few years now. Frankly, it’s been a dehumanizing experience. The routine is almost always identical. We communicate intensely for days or even weeks. We’re getting to know each other and he seems genuinely interested. Then around the second or third date I’m at a crossroads.

If I don’t let things physical, invariably his responses slow to a trickle, he moves onto other options, and eventually ghosts me.

If I let things get physical we’ll see each other a few more times, then his responses slow to a trickle, and eventually he ghosts me.

I took stock a few years into this stint of actively dating and it was kind of appalling. Without really trying or feeling promiscuous I realized that I’ve let over a dozen men cum in my mouth who are never going to see me or speak to me again.

Don’t message me to vent and complain about online dating. I don’t care about your experience, your life, your happiness, or you on any level. I’m posting this only because I’m interested in finding someone who, for whatever reason, finds this post interesting and wants to ask me questions and talk about it.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 22 days ago

39 [F4A] - ever wonder what became of the slutty girl from school?

Lately I’ve been really fixated on discussing the decline from being popular and having the world handed to you because you’re young and cute and easy. Life changes so drastically once you lose that currency of sexual appeal and availability.

If this is at all interesting to you feel free to message me. Please just ask me questions about this topic.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 23 days ago

35 [M4M] #NYC - penis appreciation and edging

This is kind of weird but if you really love your cock and you’re into having someone stroke it, edge it, talk about it, and really enjoy your cock hit me up.

Bonus if you’re above average in some way (length, girth, potency), or if you’re uncut

I’m fit and athletic, white, masc, and very discreet.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 23 days ago

39 [F4A] a life structured around my fat, hairy, loose cunt

I’m not looking to be consoled or reassured. I’m a fat middle aged woman. I’m unshaved. I’ve responded to arousal, boredom, depression, happiness, and most other emotions for decades now by fucking myself with something large enough to stretch my cunt open. My cunt isn’t cute and pink and presentable. I have a thicket of black hair around dark, dangling labia that frame a slack, receptive, small resting gape.

Weirdly, I enjoy the appearance of my cunt. I feel like it resembles my sexuality in some ways: embarrassing, obscene, unpresentable, insatiable.

I have my cunt plugged with my favorite short, girthy dildo writing this. I’ve accomplished next to nothing today. I’ve been sitting on a towel in bed pawing at my fat cunt on and off all day.

If any women resonate with any of this I’d be happy to talk. Men, please don’t try to pitch yourself as a chat partner. Just ask about my past and experiences as a fat woman who’s gotten fucked a lot.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 26 days ago

32 [M4A] #NYC - anyone in queens want to get stroked?

I’m tall, athletic and fit, masc, good looking, white, and very discreet. If you’re clean, sane, and into having your cock serviced hit me up. Please be able to host or have a car we could do it in.

Astoria, LIC, anywhere in that general area

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 1 month ago

32 [M4A] anyone in queens want to get stroked?

I’m tall, athletic and fit, masc, good looking, white, and very discreet. If you’re clean, sane, and into having your cock serviced hit me up. Please be able to host or have a car we could do it in.

Astoria, LIC, anywhere in that general area

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 1 month ago

44 [F4A] sexually imprinting on my parents’ sex life

I’m sorry in advance for a weird post. I’m not looking to share fantasies, what-ifs, or to hear anything about your experiences. I’m not looking for advice or therapy or anything like that.

I am looking for someone who’s genuinely interested in having a voyeuristic window into this weird part of me private life. Ask me interesting, thoughtful questions.

I had a bit of a jarring experience awakening to the fact that my boring, unromantic parents had any kind of a sex life. I didn’t react with the usual disgust and disregard. It felt strangely personal and violative that sex was happening so near me and involving people I was so closely connected to. I became very fixated on their sex life and I think in a lot of ways it’s remained a formative aspect of my own sexuality.

I know this isn’t a very specific post but hopefully it will find someone who’s interested in an atypical conversation.

PLEASE READ: I’m interested in replies from other women around my age.

Understanding that this is reddit, though, if you don’t meet that criteria and you do choose to reply anyway, please be aware that I don’t care at all about a man’s arousal or masturbation habits. You will not get a sexy, kinky chat from me. At most you will be able to ask interesting, thought-provoking questions about my sex life and habits and discuss that subject with me.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 1 month ago

35 [M4M] #NYC - looking to provide edging service to someone today

Please only respond if you can host and if you’re comfortable with a one-way service arrangement. I really want to just come over, stroke and edge your cock until you cum, then leave.

I’m white, fit, masc, good looking and highly discreet.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 1 month ago

35 [M4M] #NYC - looking to provide edging service to someone today

Please only respond if you can host and if you’re comfortable with a one-way service arrangement. I really want to just come over, stroke and edge your cock until you cum, then leave.

I’m white, fit, masc, good looking and highly discreet.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 1 month ago

44 [F4A] late-in-life masturbation compulsion

I’m sorry in advance for a weird post. I’m not looking for sympathy or encouragement. I’m not looking for anyone to try to convince me this is all fine and wonderful, nor to try to dominate, control, or encourage me.

I’m just looking for someone who’s genuinely interested in having a voyeuristic window into my private life. Ask me interesting, thoughtful questions.

I’m married but separated. I still fuck my husband a few times a month. I don’t really know why: habit, obligation, boredom, convenience. I’m not comfortable allowing myself to be a sexless middle aged stereotype. Even if the sex isn’t ideal.

I masturbate frequently, but it feels detached from my libido. I don’t get aroused then masturbate to relieve arousal. Living alone, I think I’ve fallen into the habit of responding to more and more of my emotional spectrum with a little jolt of endorphins from masturbation.

I know this isn’t a very specific post but hopefully it will find someone who’s interested in an atypical conversation.

PLEASE READ: I’m interested in replies from other women around my age.

Understanding that this is reddit, though, if you don’t meet that criteria and you do choose to reply anyway, please be aware that I don’t care at all about a man’s arousal or masturbation habits. You will not get a sexy, kinky chat from me. At most you will be able to ask interesting, thought-provoking questions about my sex life and habits and discuss that subject with me.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 1 month ago

44 [F4A] late-in-life masturbation compulsion

I’m sorry in advance for a weird post. I’m not looking for sympathy or encouragement. I’m not looking for anyone to try to convince me this is all fine and wonderful, nor to try to dominate, control, or encourage me.

I’m just looking for someone who’s genuinely interested in having a voyeuristic window into my private life. Ask me interesting, thoughtful questions.

I’m married but separated. I still fuck my husband a few times a month. I don’t really know why: habit, obligation, boredom, convenience. I’m not comfortable allowing myself to be a sexless middle aged stereotype. Even if the sex isn’t ideal.

I masturbate frequently, but it feels detached from my libido. I don’t get aroused then masturbate to relieve arousal. Living alone, I think I’ve fallen into the habit of responding to more and more of my emotional spectrum with a little jolt of endorphins from masturbation.

I know this isn’t a very specific post but hopefully it will find someone who’s interested in an atypical conversation. Women strongly preferred, but this is reddit after all.

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u/Mental-Emergency7850 — 1 month ago