u/Mirta_filthy

Ich bin feucht und habe richtig Lust benutzt zu werden.

I wanted to say something about boundaries, specifically when it comes to kissing.

I know the standard advice is to keep a strict line there, but I actually offer kissing to my clients. For me, it has completely changed the dynamic of my work.

I’ve realized that deep kissing is where I finally feel a sense of true intimacy during a session. Without it, things can feel a bit mechanical, but a deep, slow french kiss instantly grounds both of us and brings real connection into the room.

There are a few reasons why I choose to do this. First, the energy shifts immediately when you don't hold back. Clients drop their guard, relax, and get a true, immersive girlfriend experience. Second, I’ve found that I actually crave that kind of affection myself. Sharing that vulnerability lets me express a softer, more sensual side of myself, which actually feeds my energy during a shift instead of draining it.

Finally, it acts as a great filter. It naturally attracts clients who value romance, chemistry, and mutual respect over just a quick, detached transaction.

I know everyone’s boundaries are different, but letting this guard down has given me so much more job satisfaction. How do the rest of you handle this? Do you keep it as a strict limit, or do you use it for connection and extra service too?

Is anyone else experiencing a ridiculous amount of no-shows?

It feels like it’s becoming a weekly occurrence. A potential client will reach out, we discuss terms, everything is perfectly clear, and they explicitly confirm the appointment. Specifying a time, like "I'll be there at 8 PM."

And then, they simply never turn up.

It is incredibly frustrating because of the amount of effort and overhead that goes into preparing for a booking. You get ready, you set aside that specific time slot, and worse, you turn down other genuine clients because you are holding the space for them. To not even get a polite text saying they can't make it is just so disrespectful of our time and livelihood.

I genuinely don’t understand the psychology behind it. My rates are more cheap, my reviews are perfect and I am always very accommodating and pleasant during the initial screening and chat. I accommodate their preferences, yet they still flake at the last minute.

Why do you think they do this? Is it just cold feet, or do they get a thrill out of just making the arrangement without any intention of following through?

For those of you who have successfully minimized this, what is your strategy?

Have you started demanding upfront deposits or screening fees? I prefer to keep things simple, but I am seriously reconsidering my booking policy because losing time and money like this is getting exhausting.

Thanks for listening, and I hope your week is going better than mine!

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Hey everyone, I just wanted to share a bit about the stuff clients ask for and what they’re willing to pay extra for. Some of it is just illegal, and other things are so specific that you really have to think twice before saying yes....

The number one thing people constantly ask for is sex without a condom. Clients try to offer extra money for it, even for bareback blowjobs or anal without protection,

Anal sex in general and french kissing are also super common requests. French kissing sounds harmless to outsiders, but it’s a big boundary for many of us.

Then there are the kinks. I get asked a lot if I can pee on clients (or "Natursekt" as we call it in Germany). It’s surprisingly popular😂

The absolute wildest and requests are rare. I once had a client who actually asked if he could choke me, like, literally squeeze my neck so I couldn't breathe.

How do you guys handle these requests? Where do you draw the line when they start offering extra cash? Stay safe...

I just wanted to share my experience because I see many people asking where is good to work. I’m living and doing sex work in Germany for 4 years now.

Honestly, for me, Germany is one of the easiest countries for this job because everything is legal here.

If you are working in Eastern Europe or South America right now and things are hard, I really recommend you to come here.

The best thing is the "Hurenpass" (it's the official registration card). You just go, do the paperwork, and you get your permit to work legally. No drama with police, no hiding.

Also about housing, it is much easier than other places. You can actually rent your own apartment independently. You don't need to depend on bad people or fake agencies.

When you look for a flat, make sure it is in a good condition before you pay. Take your time to find a clean place so you are comfortable.

For me it changed my life because you can have your own space, your own money, and you feel safe. If you have any questions about how to come or how the registration works, just ask me here! Stay safe y'all❤️

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Hey👋🏻 I’m a 24-year-old sex worker based in Germany, and I’ve been working completely legally and registered under German law for the past four years. I have experience in brothels and independent escorting.

For me, this is a self-chosen job that gives me total financial freedom.

I’m doing this AMA to clear up myths and answer any honest questions you have about my daily routine, clients, or how the legal system works here.

Almost nothing is taboo, but please keep it respectful. Ask me anything about me and my job❤️

Hey👋🏻 I’m a 24-year-old sex worker based in Germany, and I’ve been working completely legally and registered under German law for the past four years. I have experience in brothels and independent escorting.

For me, this is a self-chosen job that gives me total financial freedom.

I’m doing this AMA to clear up myths and answer any honest questions you have about my daily routine, clients, or how the legal system works here.

Almost nothing is taboo, but please keep it respectful. Ask me anything!

Ich bin mit meiner Freundin schon seit zwei Jahren zusammen und wir haben uns vor drei Monaten das erste Mal über Cuckolding unterhalten. Es hat damit angefangen: dass wir beide Pornos zusammen geschaut haben und nicht ihr dann irgendwann erzählt habe, dass ich es geil finden würde. wenn Sie so eine Frau da wäre.

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Nun sind wir soweit, dass wir ihn aktiv nach einem Bull suchen. Wir möchten aber für das erste Mal einen erfahrenen Bull suchen, welcher auch wirklich keine Emotionen oder Liebe zu ihr aufbauen möchte, es geht uns wirklich um den reinen Sex und dates.