Thank you guys so much for the advice, I tried to stop chasing the orgasm and instead focusing on how good it feels and staying relaxed and I finally got some clear cum leakage.
Evidence provided for those that want to see 😁
Just bought these two toys and I can’t wait for them to arrive in the mail. If anyone wants to see me test them out when when they get here let me know 😉
So I’m 26, and I’ve been doing anal toys and sex for about 10 years now, but I’ve had issues with orgasms. Either I stay soft the entire time and it doesn’t do much or I have to literally shake my dick a ton when riding which feels GREAT but is exhausting. So my question is, how do you stay hard when doing anal play? I either concentrate on relaxing my ass so much I can’t stay hard or I try to stay hard and flex my muscles too much. Any help would be appreciated. DM’s are welcome as well for better tips/talks.