u/MissingMeAgain

Hi there, I'm a college student who enjoys domming and mommy energy, Im 23f from east coast US. I have a sub already so if that's a problem I just wanna get that out there in case you're looking for more than a fem dom dynamic.

Short replies will be ignored, read everything if you are serious.

I'm looking for a second obedient devoted male sub who will devote themselves to me in mind and body. I want clear communication and worship to me.

I earn my subs respect as I know they must earn mine too.

People that start off their messages calling me mommy or ANY adoration/cutesy nicknames are instantly ignored, again to the respect note. You will address me as miss, or ma'am.

I care a lot for my subs, my number one sayings as a domme so far lately have been "our fun is great but your safety comes first always" and "communication is everything", especially if they tell me they're hurt or something feels uncomfortable/wrong. I want open communication completely and will drop the roleplay instantly to check up on them.

My top kinks are from favorite to regular favorite are:
**Sounding**, and **feminization/sissification**, edging, **orgasm control/denial**, JOI, rewards and punishments, ruining, pegging, guiding a persons life for them(with consent, TPE), **bathroom play/control** **anal play**, transition coaching, **anal stretching**, public humiliation.. I'm looking for a sub who is willing to submit into all of them or try them to please me. Of course it's not a dealbreaker if you're not into all of these but if you're a not into atleast the starred ones then we have nothing in common.

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So what I'm looking for in a sub that rules out if you'll be a good match with me:

Are you able to communicate your limits, soft/hard limits, discomfort, upsets, any negative emotion towards life or me?

Will you disappear simply because you are emotional?

Will you communicate what you need and how I can best support you or give space to you?

Are you a good communicator even in stressful/strained emotional or sexual moments?

Can you express yourself freely without shame or embarrassment towards telling me?

Are you comfortable not being my only sub?(as I'm dating a sub of mine and I'm free to play with subs)

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I expect a detailed response to me if you are interested, I'm not looking for a short reply I want as much detail as you're going to give me normally. I thrive off big replies and people who don't fall off from texting that much consistency, so I want to see that you really are going to put in the same effort I'll put into you. The longer the reply the more likely I will reply. Ai messages will be ignored.

I don't want anyone over 40 and I preferably only 3 hour time difference anymore than that doesn't work.

I'm here to help you grow, explore, and experience the best pleasures under my control. If that's what you're looking for then let's talk~