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Has anyone had any success with this? I don’t love what I’m seeing on Seeking lately

Once you get past the meet and greet stage, are you intimate on every date?

Should I care?

The online only girls. This is not a sugar relationship. It feels like 50% of the girls that I message only want to be spoiled online. Getting tired of it!!

DO NOT play her “oath” game. I asked her about BG content and she said she had a 10 minute BG video. She then said I would need to complete an “oath” to prove I was serious.

Each part of the oath was a $100 unlock. I did the first 7 ($700) and she said I was near the finish line. I stupidly kept going for 25 parts of this oath and I still haven’t received the BG video. She keeps saying I’m almost done, but after $2500, I have received nothing.

It is a never ending scam and the BG video probably doesn’t exist. Save your money and don’t be dumb like I was.

I’ve been in the bowl for a little over a year now. I have had some success, but I have also been taken advantage of many times for being a nice guy.

The SBs that want to start online before meeting to get comfortable.

The SBs that want to go on more than 1 date with full PPM before intimacy.

I have wasted thousands and thousands of dollars on this. How can you tell if someone is actually sincere and not taking advantage of you?

My first arrangement started with 3 dates with full PPM, and intimacy on the 4th, and it was amazing. It lasted 8 months.

I could be more careful and not give PPM on the first few dates without intimacy, but I worry that I’ll be missing out on something great. Anyone else experienced this?

I recently had a meet and greet with someone that is new to the bowl. Prior to the date, I told her that intimacy usually starts the 2nd date. I gave her the full $XXXX PPM on the first date to show her I am serious. We are planning our 2nd date and she says she’s not ready to be intimate yet and wants to get to know me better. What do you do?