u/Muskrat281
▲ 137 r/Chicagohotwives
Always looking (Park Ridge)
Married couple 40m/38F looking for single males. Possibly to go solo with the wife. Please be fit, fun, and available. Not looking for married guys who can’t get away or frat boys who just want to party. Looking for experience and good vibes. Meeting first is a must. We’ve had good luck on Reddit so keeping an open mind for summer.
Preferably older but not under 30
Still considering the right couples too.
Solo play or MFM.
We just want to have fun.
Near Ohare.
u/Muskrat281 — 10 days ago
Solo play!
Wife and I have been playing for a little less than a year now. Till now it’s been a couple MFM threesomes.
She flirts and texts a lot with guys but most of the time it doesn’t go anywhere.
A couple weeks ago I hooked up with a girl I’ve been talking to and she let me go solo. We both loved the new experience….Now it’s HER turn.
We’re going to try her playing solo now and to be completely honest I’m freaking out.
I have huge fear of missing out. But at the same time I want this so bad for her.
What should I expect? I’m nervous and also excited for her to go do this. Definitely a mix of new emotions.
She met the guy last week for a vibe check and they hit it off. Now the next meeting will be sex.
Am I doing this right and feeling everything I should be feeling???
u/Muskrat281 — 14 days ago
▲ 76 r/Chicagohotwives
Solo wife play?
Wife wants to try and play solo now. This would be something new for us in the lifestyle. Still open to couples or MFM, but opening up a little to see how we enjoy it.
Be somewhat “fit”. At least take care of yourself.
Preferably older or close in age. (She’s 38)
Also, be single, or have a supportive wife, because those games just get old real fast
Vasectomies to the front!
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u/Muskrat281 — 20 days ago
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We’ve had a little luck on here. Kind of new to the lifestyle. Have played a little with MFM stuff and always together….Wife is 38 and kindve bi. Hubby is 40 and straight.
Possibly trying to see how we like going solo instead of playing together. She let me play without her last week and now we’re considering her playing solo too.
Looking for fit, sane, preferably older men to see where things go. Vasectomies are a plus but not a deal breaker.
We’re just a normal couple with normal lives trying to add a little excitement and spark to our marriage.
u/Muskrat281 — 20 days ago
Wife and I had been playing for about a year now. We’ve had 3 different MFM’s.
No couples so far. (mostly because it’s hard to get 4 people to vibe right).
And she’s talked to and MET guys solo but nothing sexual.
Last week I went solo with a new girl I’ve been talking to for a few weeks and had a GREAT time. Ended up in a hotel and had a fun night. My wife didn’t mind not being there because she isn’t into women. This was my first other woman since we started playing.
Now my wife brought up her going solo even though this was never in the plans or what we’ve talked about getting into the lifestyle. But still keeping me involved with pictures or videos.
I’m leaning towards giving it a try even though I’m not 100% sure. There’s obviously ZERO jealousy or insecurities in our marriage and I think it would be a fun way to mix things up and try something new. Our sexlife has never been better in the 19 years we’ve been together.
So for guys whose wives play solo…..help me out here. Tell me what I’m in for.
u/Muskrat281 — 20 days ago
New(ish) to the lifestyle. Wife might want to try and play solo under the right circumstances.
Preferably close to her age or a little older. (She’s 38)
Please be somewhat fit, fun and sane. Must have some kind of connection obviously after meeting once or twice. She’s looking on her own but I figured I’d try here and help. Vasectomies to the front. We’re just trying a new aspect to the lifestyle. Just want to have fun and keep it spicy.
u/Muskrat281 — 20 days ago
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Love the thought of sharing her with other men.
38. Chicago.
u/Muskrat281 — 23 days ago
▲ 52 r/ChiBurbsHotwives
40/38 couple (ohare) looking for single male or the right couple to have a good time and see where things go.
He’s straight. She’s a little bi.
Please be fit, fun and sane.
u/Muskrat281 — 23 days ago
Has anyone completely changed their approach in the lifestyle since getting started?
When my wife and I got into this we wanted couple swaps. That quickly proved to be nearly impossible since we’re both very fit, decent looking people and also tend to be a little picky and expect the same which is hard to find in the lifestyle.
So we had a couple MFM threesomes and ended up having a great time. I’m completely straight and she loved being the center of attention.
….we were having a blast with that until one night i decided to sit back and just watch for round one and I’ve never been so turned on in my life. Not in a weird kind of way, but just watching my wife enjoy herself and another man take her and use her for his own pleasure too.
Anyways….I think I’m a watcher now. I’ll still jump in if I’m feeling it, but I think what I’m really into is watching her.
u/Muskrat281 — 25 days ago