8 months pussyfree - unintentional
So this kinda happened naturally. Since having a kid we stopped most sexual activity for the first year, the child took up way too much time to do anything else but It wasn’t fun and exciting in any way.
Now that our child is a little bit older we have some of that sexual energy back, but it’s different… and I love it. “Sex” for us now usually looks like this and happens once every week and a half or so:
-It starts with a massage, usually back or feet. I do that until my wife is nice and relaxed and then in a very shy way ask my wife if I can eat her out. Most times she lets me, but sometimes she says no and that’s the night.
-when she does let me I get so excited, eating her out is better than cumming myself IMO. I start to work on her clit with my tongue as I take in the experience. My wife pussy tastes so good and I make sure to let her know.
-finally, after she cums I try to stay down there for as long as possible but she gets sensitive down there so she usually moves me away. This is where I get my time to shine, she puts all of her clothing back on and usually she tells me to grab the lotion and finishes me off with a handjob, never more. I don’t get to see her naked while I get my handjob and I can’t touch her because “strip club rules”.
It feels very emasculating to do all of this work to pleasure my wife and then she gives a half enthusiastic fully clothed handjob, especially because I cum much quicker than she does from that extra effort.
There have been a few times where she decides to not give me a handjob and that drives me crazy but I love it.
We’ve never discussed a PF lifestyle and as far as I know she never knew I was into it, but it’s been working. I wish we could have more intimate moments even if I don’t get to cum, maybe one day. I’ve never been comfortable discussing my submissive side so I’m glad it’s kinda naturally fallen this way.