The contrast and 'mixed weight' aspect is incredibly hot to me
I've been a fat admirer as long as I can remember, but there was a time where I felt a touch of insecurity pursuing big girls because I was naturally tall and skinny. Sometimes I'd overhear a fat girl say "oh I could never be with a skinny guy, I'd break them!" "It wouldn't look right!" etc. and feel dismayed. Like I had to make myself as big as possible to be attractive to them.
As we mature and unpack a lifetime of fatphobia I came to realise a lot of fat girls felt this way because of societal expectations that fat people had to couple up together. And this is so not true!!
In fact, I've come to find the size and weight contrast in the women I've dated extremely hot and you'd be surprised how many normies find it alluring too. I once saw this dynamic described as 'storybook cute.'
I'm more muscular and athletic now, and lying in bed with a woman who has a big, soft, jiggly belly while I have a narrow, toned waist. Veins which bulge in my hands while hers are soft and pudgy. Toned legs wrapped up in her enormous, pillowy, cellulite covered thighs...
It's the dream. It's everything I could ever want. It's giving pampered princess vibes. It's giving spoiled and taken care of.
If you're a fat girl, and your dream man is someone skinny or "in-shape," Girl, he's out there for you. Don't you dare believe you're unworthy because of your size. There's so many of us dreaming of a woman like you.