u/Nervous_Brilliant727

Hey everyone! I currently live in central New York, but I was born and raised in the South (sorry… no accent 😅).
I’ve been married for six years, but it feels like there’s been a huge piece missing for a long time—real happiness, passion, romance, and that deep connection people secretly hope to find. I’m someone who values emotional intimacy even more than physical attraction, although chemistry definitely matters too and that part comes with fire I assure you.

A little about me: I’m 5’7”, 135 lbs, green eyes, and I have tattoos. I’ve been told I’m pretty cute, so I’ll take that. 😉
I don’t really have a specific type. I love a man who has his own interests and passions but still makes me feel like a priority. I’m not looking for someone who’s happily married and just wants something on the side. If that’s your thing, no judgment, but I’d rather connect with someone who’s in a similar place emotionally.
A hopeless romantic definitely earns bonus points. Compliments, humor, and genuine effort go a long way with me. I also like a little healthy possessiveness—it makes me feel wanted. Just be yourself. Be honest. Be real. Most importantly, be vulnerable. There’s something incredibly attractive about someone who’s comfortable showing who they really are.
And please… know how to hold a conversation. A good conversation is like a tennis match—you hit the ball back. Ask questions. Be curious. Show interest.
If we genuinely click, I promise I’ll make the effort just as much as you do

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I realize this is naughty from neglect and yeah I’m in the trenches but for anyone looking for something deeper and long lasting read on.

I’m 5”7, 135lbs with green eyes and (dyed) red hair with tattoos. I’m 40 but look about ten years younger. I grew up in the south but now live in NY. If anyone is from the Syracuse area definitely contact me. I’m funny, young hearted, attentive, kind, spicy, and vey emotionally intelligent. I can’t do casual as I have a big heart and a lot of love to give to the right person. I love music, animals, concerts, road trips, love to read and I love true crime. I would love to find something wonderful with deep feelings and long term. I’m fantastic at banter so if you can handle that and give back just as much, we will get along so well.

As a man you feel unseen, unheard and unimportant at home. You have your own hobbies and passions though. You’re attentive, romantic and are also looking for long term. You’ve been through tough times but you keep going and are a better person for it. You’re great at communication and have open availability. You bring the heat when the time comes but that’s not all that’s important to you. You love phone calls, video calls and sending pictures often of you and your life.

I have a lot to give and a ton to offer. I won’t answer low effort messages

~not a bot 🤖

I realize this is naughty from neglect and yeah I’m in the trenches but for anyone looking for something deeper and long lasting read on.

I’m 5”7, 135lbs with green eyes and (dyed) red hair with tattoos. I’m 40 but look about ten years younger. I grew up in the south but now live in NY. I’m funny, young hearted, attentive, kind, spicy, and vey emotionally intelligent. I can’t do casual as I have a big heart and a lot of love to give to the right person. I love music, animals, concerts, road trips, love to read and I love true crime. I would love to find something wonderful with deep feelings and long term. I’m fantastic at banter so if you can handle that and give back just as much, we will get along so well.

As a man you feel unseen, unheard and unimportant at home. You have your own hobbies and passions though. You’re attentive, romantic and are also looking for long term. You’ve been through tough times but you keep going and are a better person for it. You’re great at communication and have open availability. You bring the heat when the time comes but that’s not all that’s important to you. You love phone calls, video calls and sending pictures often of you and your life.

I have a lot to give and a ton to offer. I won’t answer low effort messages

~not a bot 🤖

I realize that this subreddit is for those who have a dead bedroom. I also have a dead bedroom but I’m looking for the diamond in the rough. The one who gets overlooked but has the sweetest heart. Open to talk to anyone from anywhere as long as there’s good intentions.

I’m 5”7, 135lbs with green eyes and (dyed) red hair with tattoos. I’m 40 but look about ten years younger. I grew up in the south but now live in NY. I’m funny, young hearted, attentive, kind, spicy, and vey emotionally intelligent. I can’t do casual as I have a big heart and a lot of love to give to the right person. I love music, animals, concerts, road trips, love to read and I love true crime. I would love to find something wonderful with deep feelings and long term.

As a man you feel unseen, unheard and unimportant at home. You have your own hobbies and passions though. You’re attentive, romantic and are also looking for long term. You’ve been through tough times but you keep going and are a better person for it. You’re great at communication and have open availability. You being the heat when the time comes but that’s not all that’s important to you. You love phone calls, video calls and sending pictures often of you and your life.

~Not a bot 🤖

Hi everyone — I’ve looked on and off and still haven’t found my person, so here goes.

I’m 5’7, 135, green eyes, red hair (with help from a bottle), tattoos, and 40 going on 30. Southern raised, now living in NY. I’m funny, affectionate, emotionally intelligent, a little spicy, and definitely not built for casual. I love music, concerts, road trips, reading, animals, and true crime. I’m looking for something deep, genuine, and long term.

You’re attentive, romantic, emotionally mature, and a great communicator. Life’s tested you, but it made you better — not bitter. You want real connection, love phone calls/video calls, and actually enjoy sharing your day and life with someone. Chemistry matters, but so does the connection behind it.