r/naughtyfromneglect

42F, married, and honestly I never thought I'd be writing something like this.

I've been married for a long time and I've spent years being the supportive wife, understanding the things my husband has been through, especially after his years in the military and everything that came with that. I've always tried to be patient and loving, even when he shuts me out or doesn't communicate with me. But lately I'm realizing how damn lonely I've become.

I miss feeling wanted. I miss attention. I miss having someone actually curious about me, wanting to talk to me, making me feel like a woman instead of just a wife going through the motions. I've spent so long putting his feelings and struggles first that I'm starting to wonder what happened to mine.

I'm not looking to blow up my life or pretend I'm suddenly unhappy every second of every day. It's more complicated than that. I still love my husband. But there's a part of me that feels neglected and restless and honestly... a little tired of pretending I don't crave something more.

Maybe I just want someone I can talk to at the end of the day. Someone who makes me smile when I see their name pop up. Someone who notices the woman underneath the wife and responsibilities.

I don't know exactly where this goes, and maybe that's part of the excitement "~"

I'm just curious if there's a man out there who understands what it's like to connect with someone who's been feeling invisible for a long time.

Hi.
Being honest here. Im going into this low key and no pressure. If we click enough to enjoy talking, get to know each other and let’s see where that goes. ~ In a dead relationship, and could use a partner in fun.

I opened Reddit for “five minutes” and somehow ended up here, writing a personals post like I slipped through a digital portal I wasn’t meant to find. Destiny? Accident? Glitch in the simulation? I’m not asking too many questions.

A few things about me:
• Functioning adult with a soft spot for strange coincidences.
• Calm on the outside, quietly chaotic on the inside.
• I cook like someone guided by intuition rather than recipes. Sometimes it works.
• People say I’m funny. I suspect they’re right.
• Currently in my “I’m not sure what I’m looking for, which somehow feels like part of the magic” era.

What I’m hoping for:
• Someone who enjoys conversation
• Someone who texts back with curiosity and sends late night memes like coded messages.
• A human who loves humor, mystery, and small sparks of connection.

Let’s talk and see if we click - with absolutely zero pressure.
Like… zero.
Think “two raccoons discovering a shiny thing in a parking lot” level of pressure.
If something forms, great. If not, we return to the digital mist like passing spirits.

And if St. Peter ever refuses to open the pearly gates for me, that’s fine.
My gates are made of stardust, moonbeams, quiet intuition, and whatever strange chapter this is. He can keep his cloud HOA.

If any of this feels weirdly pleasant like you are eyeing the pastries you don’t want to eat, I mean like a gentle pull you want to follow, say hi.
Worst case, we exchange a few mysterious messages and fade back into the ether like normal Reddit ghosts.

No pics please.

hey! like the title sayssss im 26, im a stay at home mom of 2, and ive been married for 5 years. im not really sure what to ever add in these intros, sooo i'll just share a bit about myself now 😅 i loveee to read, write poetry (also currently writing a book!!), crochet, color, draw, paint, listen to music, watch movies/docs, & im obsessed with horror & true crime! i love HIIT, but just chasing my kiddos around outside gets the job done too some days. above all, i fucking love to talk lmao im a huge yapper, i can talk your ear off on just about anything!

im looking for a serious, long term connection. quite literally want a boyfriend to keep in my pocket! i miss being in love & i really want to find it again. i have a lot of time to invest into this & it would be nice to have the effort reciprocated! i know its unrealistic to expect to talk all the time, but i very much appreciate consistency. with thattt i really just wanna meet my guy already!! i knowww you're out there somewhere.

me - physically, im 4'10", thick & curvy, fair skin, dark brown hair, bangs, dark brown eyes, full lips, a couple nose piercings & some tattoos! i love to laugh & make people laugh, i love diving in deep to really get to know people, and im very playful.

you - 25-35 (possibly wiggle room on both ends), ideally you have an incredible sense of humor, time & effort to actually put into it, are able to have a real conversation, and, yes, all of your hair. 😅😅 i'd also really appreciate you being open to voice notes/voice chats & the occasional video call when we can sneak in some time together. not having kids isnt a deal breaker, but it would be nice to connect with another parent who understands my day to day.

sorry this was so long 🥲 if you actually read all of this, send me an intro with your favorite song & other things about yourself! i will \\\*not\\\* respond to hi/hey/hello/whats up. we use more words over here! i hope to hear from you.

USA or CAN only pls (easier on me as far as time differences go!)

~ ‼️ i will be going to bed soon, ill reply in the morning! 💞

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Needs are needs! 46 married woman in a okay relationship but find myself requiring more and well here I am. I am looking for one mature man who is open minded, kinky and verbal and knows how to write creatively and express themselves. I'm happy to exchange photos and excitemente and get to know each other more. I'm 5'10 if you like tall, 140lbs, 38C dark hair and eyes and a soft mom belly just to get it out there. Please be respectfully dirty and we'll get along fine.

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I'm in dead bedroom marriage and more than I miss the sexual part of my marriage, I miss the romantic flirty parts more. I know I shouldn't be here looking to cheat. but it's also a bit exciting that I am. I'm hoping to find someone that feels the same about their situation.

My husband is passed out right next to me, completely clueless, while my pus*y is soaked and throbbing under the sheets. I've been quietly touching myself for hours thinking about thick married cock. If you're a married or taken man who's also awake, bored, or stuck in a dead bedroom... I want you. There's something so hot about sneaking around with other taken men who understand the thrill. ~

Im 25 F4M. Im desperately looking for some fun. Any age is fine I cannot host. I am most definitely down for anything.

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~Neglected wife looking for friend and local playmate. Dayton area only, or be willing to drive. Have many emotional, online affair partners but looking for that special connection in person. Will be picky. F/43/OH - Romance, passion, friendship~

I’m 53, married, and have a full life. I’m a wife, mom, and someone who has spent a lot of years taking care of everyone and everything around me. But somewhere along the way, a part of “me” got pushed to the side.

My marriage has been without intimacy for a long time, and I’ve reached a point where I miss feeling desired. I miss flirting. I miss anticipation. I miss that feeling when someone is genuinely interested in you and you can feel the chemistry building between you. “~”

I’m not looking to blow up my life or yours. I’m not looking for someone to rescue me, and I’m not looking to become someone’s second full-time relationship.

What I am looking for is one man who has room in his life for something genuine.

Someone I can talk to throughout the day. Someone I can laugh with, flirt with, tease a little, and actually get to know. Someone I look forward to hearing from. Someone who can appreciate both the emotional connection and the physical chemistry that comes with it.

I’m affectionate, playful, loyal, and naturally nurturing. I’m a good listener and a big believer in treating someone the way I’d want to be treated. I have a mischievous side, too, and after being responsible for so long, I’d really like to have a little fun again. 😉

I’m definitely attracted to confidence, kindness, intelligence, humor, and emotional maturity. Physically, I tend to gravitate toward men who are taller than me, with bigger build but chemistry can make a lot of things irrelevant. I’m much more interested in the man than checking boxes on a list.

As for me… I’m feminine, curvy and thick, brunette, hazel-eyed, and comfortable in my skin. I’m not a 25-year-old Instagram model, and I have absolutely no desire to pretend to be one. I’m a woman who knows herself, knows what she wants, and still has plenty of life, affection, passion, and playfulness left in her.

I’d like something that exists in the real world—not just Reddit messages, sexting, or exchanging pictures. I want to actually meet eventually, spend time together, and see if there’s something there.

Privacy and discretion matter to me, and I understand that we both have lives and responsibilities outside of this. I’m not looking for constant availability. I’m looking for something that fits naturally into both of our lives and feels exciting rather than complicated.

And yes, there needs to be physical attraction. I’m not pretending otherwise. But for me, the best kind of physical chemistry starts long before anyone touches anyone. It’s the conversation, the eye contact, the flirting, the anticipation, and that feeling that you \*really\* want to be around each other.

If you’re kind, confident, affectionate, emotionally mature, and looking for more than a purely physical arrangement, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me something about yourself—your age, where you’re located, and what you’re looking for. I’d much rather get to know the person behind the username than receive a one-line “hey” or an unsolicited picture.

Maybe we’re both looking for the same thing.

Maybe we just haven’t found each other yet.

Please be willing to meet and not so far away it will never happen.

~Now that you’re here… you might as well say hi. 😉
I’m 26, curvy, brunette, blue-eyed, and fair skin. (Married ofcourse)
I want the connection. The chemistry. The emotional part. The butterflies, the flirting, the inside jokes, and the “good morning” texts.
Most importantly, I’m looking for a LOVER BOY/GIRL. 🥰
Someone affectionate. Someone intentional. Someone who likes being sweet and flirty and isn’t afraid of catching a few feelings along the way. I want something that feels like more than two people killing time in a chat.
Preferably 26–40, but listen… if you look anything like Hugh Jackman, please disregard the age guidelines and proceed directly to the application process. 😂
I’m a little bratty, I love playful banter, and I need someone who can match my energy. Confidence is sexy. Cockiness… well, sometimes it has its moments. 😏 Extra points if you can make me laugh without trying too hard.
I’m looking for someone fun, respectful, drama-free, and capable of holding an actual conversation. Please don’t hit me with just “hey” or “what’s up.” Give me something to work with! Tell me about yourself, what caught your attention, or why you think we’d click. Effort gets noticed.
And please, for the love of everything, no unsolicited 🍆 pictures. Let’s at least pretend we were raised with manners. 😂
So… now that you’re here, what are you waiting for?~

I'm in dead bedroom marriage and more than I miss the sexual part of my marriage, I miss the romantic flirty parts more. I know I shouldn't be here looking to cheat..but it's also a bit exciting that | am. I'm hoping to find someone that feels the same about their situation.

My husband is passed out right next to me, completely clueless, while my pus* y is soaked and throbbing under the sheets. I've been quietly touching myself for hours thinking about thick married cock. If you're a married or taken man who's also awake, bored, or stuck in a dead bedroom... I want you. There's something so hot about sneaking around with other taken men who understand the thrill. ~

I hate it here. (You probably do, too). It’s like a dive bar that you leave smelling of stale smoke and regret. But the potential of meeting a mysterious stranger who makes you wonder how you didn’t know they existed before this moment keeps us both coming back for more.

This isn’t my first rodeo. (I’m fairly certain I’m legally required to say that along with NOT A BOT and ~ YES I AM MARRIED to post in this sub). I’ve had long, torrid affairs, and I’ve posted here before (with varying degrees of sucess. Ask me about the pastor.)

Successful, ambitious, driven. Witty, charming, adorable. Everyone’s favorite everything.

I don’t want to be your whole life. Just your favorite part.

I'm in dead bedroom marriage and more than I miss the sexual part of my marriage, I miss the romantic flirty parts more. I know I shouldn't be here looking to cheat..but it's also a bit exciting that I am. I'm hoping to find someone that feels the same about their situation.

My husband is passed out right next to me, completely clueless, while my pus\*y is soaked and throbbing under the sheets. I've been quietly touching myself for hours thinking about thick married cock. If you're a married or taken man who's also awake, bored, or stuck in a dead bedroom... I want you. There's something so hot about sneaking around with other taken men who understand the thrill. \~

I'm in dead bedroom marriage and more than I miss the sexual part of my marriage, I miss the romantic flirty parts more. I know I shouldn't be here looking to cheat..but it's also a bit exciting that I am. I'm hoping to find someone that feels the same about their situation.

My husband is passed out right next to me, completely clueless, while my pus*y is soaked and throbbing under the sheets. I've been quietly touching myself for hours thinking about thick married cock. If you're a married or taken man who's also awake, bored, or stuck in a dead bedroom... l want you. There's something so hot about sneaking around with other taken men who understand the thrill. ~

I'm in dead bedroom marriage and more than I miss the sexual part of my marriage, I miss the romantic flirty parts more. I know I shouldn't be here looking to cheat..but it's also a bit exciting that | am. I'm hoping to find someone that feels the same about their situation.

My husband is passed out right next to me, completely clueless, while my pus* y is soaked and throbbing under the sheets. I've been quietly touching myself for hours thinking about thick married cock. If you're a married or taken man who's also awake, bored, or stuck in a dead bedroom... I want you. There's something so hot about sneaking around with other taken men who understand the thrill. ~

I’m on the chubbier side, and I’m completely comfortable with that. I just want to be upfront so we don’t waste each other’s time if that isn’t your type.

I’m in a pretty dead-bedroom marriage, and while I definitely miss the intimacy, what I miss even more is the romance the flirting, the excitement, the feeling of being desired, and having someone to genuinely connect with. I know looking for that outside my marriage isn’t exactly ideal, but there’s something undeniably exciting about it too. I’m hoping to meet someone who understands that feeling and is in a similar situation. “~”

I’m open minded when it comes to body types and age. More than anything, I’m looking for someone with a great personality, good energy, and the ability to hold a genuinely interesting conversation. If we click, I’d love to see where the connection naturally goes. ~