r/naughtyfromneglect

So I don't normally do this but this is kind of crzy time.. I don't want to go into crazy detail but l'm 28, 5'4, curvy, thick, cute, clean.

Lonely wife here with a secret side my husband knows nothing about. I love flirting with other men behind the scenes and it gives me a rush knowing the effect I have on them. There's something incredibly intoxicating about the attention and the thrill of being desired while living a double life....

Tonight I'm feeling damn good than usual and really damn good in my body while my husband is asleep....l'm in a flirty and turned on headspace and ready to enjoy the moment instead of holding back.

~not a bot 🤖

I'm a professional in my field, married, and a mother.
Here to find something mature and private that can fit into mutually busy schedules.

I'm Ebony / Black American, deeply feminine. Petite. Cat-frame glasses, long dark curls, dark eyes, dark skin. Dark all over.

Home is well-run. A deeply private lover is what I seek outside of it. This would make the most sense with a man who keeps a structured life and takes his time seriously as well.

Logistically speaking, men in PA make the most sense. If PA is on your travel schedule often, we can talk. I married older and prefer men 48+.

I'm not on Reddit often. I'll reply as I'm able. ~

I’m in dead bedroom marriage and more than I miss the sexual part of my marriage, I miss the romantic flirty parts more. I know I shouldn’t be here looking to cheat..but it’s also a bit exciting that I am. I’m hoping to find someone that feels the same about their situation.

I’m open to all body types and most ages. I just want a good personality \~ with great conversation.

I (30 something F) am looking for my DD.
I am lonely in my marriage and looking for someone for snuggles and dirty nights away.

Not blonde and not a size zero.
But guaranteed to drive you wild.

~Not a Bot! #notabot

~Mods, please don’t delete me this time 😢

..to the point where I can’t put you out of my mind.

That is what I want with you. I’m looking for a very specific man who can deliver on the frenetic, sexual energy I seek.

I am also looking for a genuinely kind, considerate, communicative, and emotionally intelligent man. Someone who is open to becoming online besties with me. I want to know who you are and travel quite merrily into the chambers of your heart. I'd like to meet in person as well because I want us to eventually give in to lustful desires and fuck like there is no tomorrow. Please only reach out if you are open to the possibility of us committing to each other by way of a special long term affair.

Consistency~effort~and~care are important to me. You’re not gonna fuck around and neither will I. We are both entering into this with raw intention and honesty.

I am located in the Bay Area and central CA along the 99, capping it within Fresno. I’m only looking for someone along that area.

I’m married, yes, but DB, untethered, and have a burning need. I give off demure, good girl vibes. With a soft spoken voice, polite manners, and a sweet disposition. However, simmering just below the surface is something quite debauched.

I’m interested in hearing from you if you meet the traits I’ve outlined above. As an fyi, I’m going to be picky and have a feeling I will be reddit fishing and reposting for a while. But I’m a patient woman 😌

How would you fill in this sentence for the following xyz letters. I want to put my x in your y, z. A considerate message about yourself and an opening response to my question will receive a reply back. Blue Velvet movie vibes is what I seek.

Here I am. Looking for ~ more heat and passion in the middle of a heatwave. Crazy right? Just a mom/wife looking to circumvent the monotony of life. Physically I’m petite with darker hair/eyes and in decent shape. Mentally I’m pretty adventurous, math & science minded and have a wide variety of interests not limited to cooking, fitness, wine, reading etc.

Who I’m seeking- a Caucasian male who is in shape, great stamina, no performance issues. Someone with a good amount of freedom to text, not confined to a 9-5 or weekdays only. Someone local who can travel and meet up occasionally.

Please only message if you check all the boxes and include if you’re a morning or night person if you’ve read this far :)

I’m MAGA all the way. I’m not ashamed to fly my Trump flags on my raised F-450 that I’ve put almost $250k into including the custom Trump portrait on the tailgate. Trump just really gets me excited in every possible way, but not like in a gay way, just like in a very highly, admiring, quivering lip way. That’s why I’d like to find a hot, hard bodied woman with huge tits that can kind of take on his persona if you will. It a hot straight way. Ideally you’d be orang-y blond and if not, be willing to wear the wig with the orange makeup. Please have small hands and be ready for me to call you King Daddy when I climax.
“~”

Hey everyone! I currently live in central New York, but I was born and raised in the South (sorry… no accent 😅).
I’ve been married for six years, but it feels like there’s been a huge piece missing for a long time—real happiness, passion, romance, and that deep connection people secretly hope to find. I’m someone who values emotional intimacy even more than physical attraction, although chemistry definitely matters too and that part comes with fire I assure you.

A little about me: I’m 5’7”, 135 lbs, green eyes, and I have tattoos. I’ve been told I’m pretty cute, so I’ll take that. 😉
I don’t really have a specific type. I love a man who has his own interests and passions but still makes me feel like a priority. I’m not looking for someone who’s happily married and just wants something on the side. If that’s your thing, no judgment, but I’d rather connect with someone who’s in a similar place emotionally.
A hopeless romantic definitely earns bonus points. Compliments, humor, and genuine effort go a long way with me. I also like a little healthy possessiveness—it makes me feel wanted. Just be yourself. Be honest. Be real. Most importantly, be vulnerable. There’s something incredibly attractive about someone who’s comfortable showing who they really are.
And please… know how to hold a conversation. A good conversation is like a tennis match—you hit the ball back. Ask questions. Be curious. Show interest.
If we genuinely click, I promise I’ll make the effort just as much as you do

~

They just ARRRR!

Hello gentleman of the Reddit world!! I am a sincere person looking for my “1” special secret friend.

I am white 5’6 of pure smiles 😇 Curvy & confident, Brown hair, brown eyes, Sweet with a spark ✨”

You- tall or taller than me ! Lol handsome, love to laugh and have the time and energy to put into this.

Not looking for out of state people who come here for work business. Not looking to hop in the sack with you. I do not want D pics!! Let’s get to know each other first. Also, treat me with respect.. I know this is Reddit but talk to me like we are face to face not like your hiding behind your phone screen and have some crazy disgusting ideas. I am a good person and want you to be too.

What I’m looking for

I enjoy the relationship as well as the physical

The good mornings and the goodnights and all that’s in between. The ability to build chemistry for our in person time together. Looking forward to hearing from you !

Please reply with your age, location, and what you are looking for on here?
~notabot

*Well I guess I'm looking again...if you don't know if you have the time for an affair, please don't reach out.*

~ I need someone who is going to jump into our little daydreams with me. Where you just can't shake me from your head.

My entire life is spent trying to be as cozy as possible. Work, and home life can be very exhausting. So I'm always searching from free moments to just be able to melt. Curling up with a book, extra hot bubble bath, sneaking my favorite dessert in bed, being in a big fluffy blanket burrito, hot tea on a quiet morning, driving around at night with the windows down.

Emotional intelligence is the sexiest thing a man can possess for me. Someone willing to be vulnerable emotionally is a must. I want to feel the same effort that I give.

I'm greedy, because along with the emotional - I need the physical attraction, and sexual chemistry. I want my best friend that I adore, who also makes me cum.

Physically - Adorable, thick and soft, brunette, XL boobs AND ass (double win)

Personality - Nurturing, Playful, Intelligent, Emotional, Nerdy

So if any/all of that sounds like what you need in a partner please reach out. I prefer someone married - like I am, and also 25 - 55.

Looking for someone LOCAL to Columbia Tennessee. I want someone that is down for more than just chatting. Looking for a friend to build a connection with and go from there. If you're just looking for something physical, I am NOT your girl.

I am married, bbw (meaning I'm a big girl), cute, jeans and t-shirt, no make up type girl. Very laid back. Sarcastic. Witty. Love double entendre or rhyming for no reason.

I love to chat all day. Obvi on and off. Everyone has lives. But if you can't hold a conversation or talk evenings/weekends, again, I am not the girl for you. I want someone who wants to get to know me as I want to get to know them.

I have a strong preference for younger. It's an attitude thing. Looking for someone chatty who likes to talk about anything and everything and can handle dissenting opinions.

If you're interested please send me a msg with age/location.

\~ \*notabot

I’m chubby. Not bashing myself but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if that’s not a body type you’re interested in.

I’m in dead bedroom marriage and more than I miss the sexual part of my marriage, I miss the romantic flirty parts more. I know I shouldn’t be here looking to cheat..but it’s also a bit exciting that I am. I’m hoping to find someone that feels the same about their situation.

I’m open to all body types and most ages. I just want a good personality ~ with great conversation.

Seeking a fellow married person who wants to engage in some stereotypical “witty” banter. Someone whose only focus isn’t sexual conversation, but who knows how to tastefully include it in time if the vibe is right.

What else? Someone who feels things and has passions. I prefer people who have self esteem but not inflated egos. Probably the man~ who doesn’t believe he’s the best at every single thing or a Greek god of sorts.

I really prefer someone in the same state as me and who is under 50 years old. And I don’t smoke, drink or rave. I’m a very laid back and calm person with a fun, nerdy side.

If you’ve read this far, send me three of your top artists on Spotify?

Pretty, demure, well-educated, innocent face. I’m everything that “rough around the edges” isn’t. Don’t smoke or drink. I do not ride a motorcycle, or do wild child stuff now.

I’ve had a pretty hard life though. The kind of stuff you may share that has made a couple of seasoned therapists jaws drop over the years. And I’ve realized I’m unable to detach from the rougher things that make me, me.

I’m interested in someone else who is also married who has been through challenges and made it through, or is making it through. Someone resilient and gritty.~Just to talk to.

~

A little about me:

-I have a successful career.

-I take care of myself, work out regularly, and enjoy staying active.

-I’m naturally curious and always up for trying new restaurants, experiences, and adventures.

What I'm looking for:

-You must live in Austin, please don’t message me if you don’t.

-Someone I genuinely connect with - both mentally and physically.

-A relationship that complements, rather than complicates, our existing lives.

-Someone who is also married and has experience navigating discreet relationships. Understanding the realities, boundaries, and communication involved is important to me.

Discretion is non-negotiable:

-Neither of us is looking to disrupt or change our current situation.

-The goal is a consistent, enjoyable connection that fits into both of our lives with mutual respect and clear expectations.

-Strong OPSEC and discretion are essential.

About you:

-You take care of yourself and value your physical and mental well-being.

-You're intelligent, emotionally mature, and can hold an engaging conversation.

-You have a great sense of humour - I appreciate someone who can make me laugh.

-You have a variety of interests, enjoy new experiences, and have an adventurous side.

-You're confident and secure, without being possessive or jealous.

Chemistry matters:

-Physical attraction is important, but so is building a genuine mental connection. I'm looking for someone who's interested in both - not just one or the other.

-Because there are so many catfish on Reddit, I expect us to exchange a recent photo after a few messages and have a brief video chat shortly afterward if there's mutual interest.

-This helps ensure we're both who we say we are and that there's mutual attraction, so we don't waste each other's time.

Logistics:

-If we hit it off, I'd prefer to move the conversation to an IM platform since it's easier to chat there.

-I’m only interested in finding one person to build a connection with, and I hope you're looking for the same.

~My sex life is utterly disappointing. It is much more heartbreaking than people realise. Are there any women who want a genuine friendship, but a bit part of that is being able to explore naughty things they can't offline?

About me

I'm in a tough marriage. I'm looking for an online friend who I can have a deep emotional connection with, where we can share EVERYTHING! I got married a few years ago, I thought I found the woman of my dreams, yet as soon as we got married she changed a lot, she is not the person I married.

I'm also open to chatting to people who are not married but want to chat for whatever reason!

A few people on here have sheepishly contacted me saying I'm a bit older or bigger, is that okay to chat, YES, I'm open to all women!

I am NOT planning to leave my wife so from the start I want to be clear this will only ever be online!

Just looking for that elusive, perfect affair partner. A locally living, married man 35-49 for friendship via messaging and then a regular and consistent, physically intimate situation. I’m chubby and pretty, I promise. Local people only. No couples, women or singles~

Pretty, demure, well-educated, innocent face. I’m everything that “rough around the edges” isn’t. Don’t smoke ~ or drink. I do not ride a motorcycle, or do wild child stuff now.

I’ve had a pretty hard life though. The kind of stuff you may share that has made a couple of seasoned therapists jaws drop over the years. And I’ve realized I’m unable to detach from the rougher things that make me, me.

I’m interested in someone else who is also married who has been through challenges and made it through, or is making it through. Someone resilient and gritty. Just to talk to.

On paper you’ve nailed it ~ marriage, kids, career, your own body. You’ve kept yourself sharp and built the kind of life people point to as “the goal.” But inside? That spark that once felt electric… it’s faded into the background.

I catch myself thinking of you ~ the kind of man who turns heads without trying. Confident, fit, maybe jogging past with that cocky grin and a wedding band glinting in the sun. That ring doesn’t turn me off; if anything, it makes the temptation stronger. This isn’t about wrecking homes ~ it’s about chasing a connection that feels alive again.
I’m West Coast based, hoping to start discreetly online. If the vibe is right, I’m open to seeing where it might lead ~ I’ve taken this path before.
Me: 41, married for over a decade, professionally successful, fit, playful, and unapologetically kinky.
You: Married, attractive, easygoing, confident, in shape, and not here to waste time. Someone who gets the thrill of this without the mess.  And yes ~ let’s not dance around it… size matters.

Heyoo male redditors! ~~

Anyone ever just sit back and laugh at this situation? It's a lame game that we have to "compete" with internet strangers AND meet unobtainable expectations. NOW we get to compete against bots, imagine their crazy expectations, yikes! (*Notabot*) Oh! Then! You really start laughing at the overall idiocy of this, ...I'm a good person but yet here I am. If your side doesn't already hurt, better hold on when you think of all the rules a post has to follow.

All just to get in one or two good flirts.

We all must be crazy because we all keep coming back.

So from one laughing crazy person to the next...let's see if the effort pays off!

A few quickies, I'm 36, eastern time zone and looking for a handsome dude. I dig...men with a sense of humor, some brains, not afraid of feelings and tallness is nice too. Oh...a personal preference, please don't have kids under 5 yrs old.

Rule stuff... Not a robot, *notabot, ai or Rosie. ~~