need advice lol
I’m currently trying dating/looking for a SD through sa and wyp right now. The problem with the men i’m running into is that a lot of the men become very sexual very quickly like by the second date and that’s just not really where I’m at. I’ve actually been celibate for years now, so I’m not interested in casually hooking up for money. No judgment toward people who are into that, it’s just not for me personally. And obviously I understand that intimacy can be part of these dynamics eventually, but I’m more interested in meeting someone who genuinely enjoys taking care of me, getting to know me, and building a real connection over time. Which obviously because i’m on these sites i probably won’t get but I’m at a point where, if I’m dating someone, I’d rather be with a man who naturally wants to provide and make my life easier instead of just texting and facetiming constantly without actually planning dates or showing real effort which is what I kept running into on sites like Tinder and Bumble. I’ve only been on 3 dates so far with 3 different guys, but the overly sexual energy has honestly been a little discouraging. I guess I’m just wondering if this is how most of these dynamics tend to be, or if there are actually men looking for something more genuine, respectful, and connection based.