New couple nervous about body insecurities — how much does this actually matter in the lifestyle?
My wife and I are brand new to the lifestyle and have been talking more seriously about actually meeting another couple.
We’re both excited about it, but I think we each have our own insecurity going into it. I’m an “average-sized” guy and definitely not what I’d call “well endowed,” and my wife is curvy. We’re very attracted to each other, but the idea of being naked/intimate around other people obviously brings those insecurities to the surface a little more.
For those who have been doing this awhile: did you worry about things like this when you started? And once you actually began meeting couples, did you realize it mattered a lot less than you expected?
We’re not looking for reassurance just for the sake of reassurance — I’m genuinely curious how much physical “perfection” matters versus chemistry, personality, confidence, hygiene, etc.