35 [M4F] #Austin - clueless, desperate, and accepting that I need to serve before I am worthy

Since my last relationship ended a few years ago I’ve realized I have no idea how to meet women and get laid. My confidence faded and I get nervous like a teenager when talking to attractive women. I just want to feel soft feminine skin again, can you tell me what you want me to do to earn the privilege? I’ll do whatever you want. I’d crawl through fire just to smell pussy again. I would box a kangaroo just to taste your butthole. I don’t know what you want anymore and I’m losing my mind. I accept that women have all the power when it comes to sex and social life. Please let me witness feminine sexual power again. I will be your pet. I just want to be in your presence and I’ll do anything you want.

I’m 35, new to Austin, single obviously, good looking, tall, and have a few extra pounds. I can be painfully shy at first. My charming side comes through eventually, I’m just a little out of practice. I have no experience with kink but genuinely want to do your bidding to earn the privilege of being in your presence. The roleplay/ceremony aspect that kink appears to have doesn’t appeal to me tbh. But maybe I’ll get it once I try.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 11 days ago

35 [M4F] #Austin - beginner wanted

They say you should play to your strengths and mine are that I’m patient and supportive. I also find shyness/inexperience just totally adorable. I’m in the judge’s hill area hoping you’ll come over, have a drink with me, and play with my junk to your liking. I’ll let you know what works and what doesn’t, no judgment or expectations.

I’m tall, HWP, professional, clean and I’d love to hear from you.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 11 days ago

35 [M4A] #Austin - wanna let a little guy play with my big dick

If you’re not blessed in the size department and always wanted to hold a manly, weighty cock, come chill and stroke with me. If the urge strikes, I’ll let you feel mine.

Only looking for 20-33 years old, HWP, ddf, chill

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u/New-Independence7359 — 12 days ago

35 [M4A] #NYC / #NJ - straight guy looking for firsts with CD/femboy

Tall good looking white guy curious to mess around with a guy who is less masculine than average, younger than me, and wants to try exploring their feminine side.

I’d want to jo together, swap handies and maybe blowies.

I’m visiting til mid August and can host

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u/New-Independence7359 — 25 days ago

35 M4F hump my thigh, read smut, & hold my boner in ur mouth

This is how an ex of mine used to get off every night and I’m missing it bad.

I lay on my back with you on your side facing me. You pull up the raunchiest smut you know of on your phone and don’t let me see it. You lay your head on my stomach and I shove my thigh into your crotch. You start reading and instinctively begin humping my thigh. Slowly, intermittently at first. I slide your head down my stomach to my growing member and put your soft lips against the pulsing helmet. As the story you’re reading goes on it gets dirtier and dirtier, and you hump my big man-thigh more and more eagerly. I match your rhythm by tensing my thigh as you rub against me, shoving it into your pussy. I have no idea what you’re reading but you know it would shock me if I read one sentence.

You get fully into it when your favorite part of the story comes up, grinding desperately. My hard cock takes up all the room in your mouth and I throb as you moan and whimper. You’re so worked up at this point. Your heart rate elevates as your pussy demands more oxygen. You’re breathing rapidly and that big dick in your mouth is obstructing your airway. But you don’t care, you’re so close you would try to breathe dick even if you died trying. The filthiest part of your smut story hits and you feel an intense rush coming on. You’re so cumbrained you almost forget there’s a cock in your mouth as we’re practically melded together in your cumfused mind. I move my big strong hand to the small of your back and push you to intensify your grinding. You lose it. You’ve been humping so long your thighs give out and now it’s just me pushing my thigh into you and pushing you into my thigh. You can’t believe I’m able to move you around like a puppet and that it feels even better on your throbbing pussy. You don’t last much longer and climax harder than ever. You don’t bother continuing the story because you can’t even hold a thought now. My dick slips out of your mouth, you close your eyes, and rest in euphoric bliss with your head still on my stomach.

35M, 6’2”, average body, single, DDF, white

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u/New-Independence7359 — 1 month ago

35 [M4F] South Austin - CFNM/freeuse evenings

Hi, I’m a single HWP professional looking for a single HWP woman (or 2) who wishes they could manifest a big unconscious male body for their needs and curiosities.

I’m tall, 220lbs, average/dadbod, dark hair, full beard, white, DDF (420 ok).

Not looking for any particular actions or qualities. I get off thinking about and experiencing women’s authentic reactions and desires towards penises and men. I’ve had a few outstanding bjs over the years but the moments that I look back on more fondly are those when a woman felt comfortable enough that to treat my manhood as if no one was looking.

Examples:
- mindlessly fidgeting with me/softly stroking the helmet while studying or watching a show
- using my body as a study aid for an anatomy course
- deepthroat practice where the goal was not making me orgasm but her improving
- being an implement of oral fixation while she’s scrolling on phone

So I’m after therapeutic + ASMR + edging + r/CasualDickTouching mostly. I’d want you to drop your guard, feel absolutely zero pressure or judgment, and practically forget that I’m even there so you can explore how you want at your own pace. If I can be “useful”, that scratches the itch too.

Stuff I haven’t done that hits the same note:
- depilation/shaving session
- lesbian’s first <anything>
- massage with happy ending
- woman needs a source of ejaculate for experiments (scientific or culinary)
- training to suppress gag reflex

I don’t have explicit experience with BDSM or freeuse, and I wouldn’t say I’m dominant or submissive by nature, but I’d be open to giving gentle direct/dominant feedback or being submissive as needed.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 2 months ago

35 [M4F] #Austin - CFNM/freeuse evening

Hi, I’m a single HWP professional looking for a single HWP woman (or 2) who wishes they could manifest a big unconscious male body for their needs and curiosities.

I’m tall, 220lbs, average/dadbod, dark hair, full beard, white, DDF (420 ok).

Not looking for any particular actions or qualities. I get off thinking about and experiencing women’s authentic reactions and desires towards penises and men. I’ve had a few outstanding bjs over the years but the moments that I look back on more fondly are those when a woman felt comfortable enough that to treat my manhood as if no one was looking.

Examples:
- mindlessly fidgeting with me/softly stroking the helmet while studying or watching a show
- using my body as a study aid for an anatomy course
- deepthroat practice where the goal was not making me orgasm but her improving
- being an implement of oral fixation while she’s scrolling on phone

So I’m after therapeutic + ASMR + edging + r/CasualDickTouching mostly. I’d want you to drop your guard, feel absolutely zero pressure or judgment, and practically forget that I’m even there so you can explore how you want at your own pace. If I can be “useful”, that scratches the itch too.

Stuff I haven’t done that hits the same note:
- depilation/shaving session
- lesbian’s first <anything>
- massage with happy ending
- woman needs a source of ejaculate for experiments (scientific or culinary)
- training to suppress gag reflex

I don’t have explicit experience with BDSM or freeuse, and I wouldn’t say I’m dominant or submissive by nature, but I’d be open to giving gentle direct/dominant feedback or being submissive as needed.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 2 months ago

35M AustinTX functional adult, touch starved, depressed, respectful

Tall HWP white professional guy deep in a dopamine trap and don’t want to leave it. When I try dating I have to explain I don’t have ED, I just masturbate like a teenager and that’s pretty embarrassing. It’s much easier to just keep jerking off. So it’d be awesome to meet up with a fellow gooner who understands.

I’m extremely chill / low key and get along best with similar personalities. Surprisingly good looking given my other characteristics listed here. Adhd, maybe spectrum. Can host.

I’d want to chat for a week or so before meeting, and meet in public first. I’d be open to mutual masturbation, giving & receiving oral, maybe more later. I’m open to meeting women and anyone else who’s very fem presenting.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 2 months ago

35 [M4F] meet up with me for a laidback, cozy movie night

6’2” and pudgy stomach on a broad frame, 70% of my body parts make for great pillows so you have plenty to pick your favorite from. Hair kinda like Keanu’s at the moment with a full beard.

My seductive side can’t suppress my goofy side for *very* long so the risk of me looking like a doofus at some point is high. But I balance it out well. Hobbies include tech, movies, gaming, long walks with my small snootable dog.

I’d be more comfortable letting you be the navigator as far as what we get up to. But you can let me know how you’d like me to handle the wheel. I don’t need anything specific to happen; as long as the vibe stays light, low pressure, and cuddly I’m a happy man.

Pics of me available upon request.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 2 months ago

35 [M4F] meet up with me for a fun, cozy movie night

6’2” and pudgy stomach on a broad frame, 70% of my body parts make for great pillows so you have plenty to pick your favorite from. Hair kinda like Keanu’s at the moment with a full beard.

My seductive side can’t suppress my goofy side for *very* long so the risk of me looking like a doofus at some point is high. But I balance it out well. Hobbies include tech, movies, gaming, long walks with my small snootable dog.

I’d be more comfortable letting you be the navigator as far as what we get up to. But you can let me know how you’d like me to handle the wheel. I don’t need anything specific to happen; as long as the vibe stays light, low pressure, and cuddly I’m a happy man.

Pics of me available upon request.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 2 months ago

Travis : 35 [M4F] #Austin - meet up with me for a fun, laidback, cozy movie night

6’2” and pudgy stomach on a broad frame, 70% of my body parts make for great pillows so you have plenty to pick your favorite from. Hair kinda like Keanu’s at the moment with a full beard.

My seductive side can’t suppress my goofy side for *very* long so the risk of me looking like a doofus at some point is high. But I balance it out well. Hobbies include tech, movies, gaming, long walks with my small snootable dog.

I’d be more comfortable letting you be the navigator as far as what we get up to. But you can let me know how you’d like me to handle the wheel. I don’t need anything specific to happen; as long as the vibe stays light, low pressure, and cuddly I’m a happy man.

Pics of me available upon request.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 2 months ago

35 [M4F] #Austin - (Texas) Renting a house for the summer. Just need a summer wifey to complete the picture.

Ever wonder what it’d be like to gag on hubby dick for hours every day? Apply here for a trial run. Wifey services unrelated to my pleasure permitted but not required. I’m 35 HWP, clean, professional, DDF.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 2 months ago

34 [M4F] #Austin, Texas - shy, handsome, new to ATX, and looking for company &amp; connection

Hi. Don’t really know what works for finding connection online so I’m just gonna try to be super transparent with my desires while remaining anonymous.

Hm, even that isn’t easy haha. I guess mainly I’m lonely. So hot and spicy right? Idk, why hide it, almost everyone posting here must be lonely. If I’m being transparent though, I’m more solitary than the typical case. Have some self-isolating tendencies and therefore don’t have much of a network, or know how to form one. I’m quiet and shy which I don’t think are negatives but when I do want social/intimate connection, well I don’t have much experience taking action to get it. Historically I’ve been more passive. All this to say, if you’d like to meet up with me you should be cool with me coming off as timid.

Based on past interactions, I’m fairly good looking. Dark hair, a nose, teeth. Haha don’t wanna be too specific. Can share a pic once I trust you’re real from chatting. Currently bearded, my shaving frequency varies, truly don’t mind matching your preference there. I’m 6’2” and I’ve put on a few unwanted pounds in the last couple years, I blame the federal government for that. I’m a techie, interests include science, gaming, nature, movies > tv, tacos. I like to try new things and engage with things others are interested in and passionate about. Guess I mean I’m a better listener than blabberer haha.

Moving on to dirty stuff in the interest of compatibility. I’m high openness and down to try new things so don’t let this bit stop you from messaging if you’re after something in particular (no scat or other taboos on that level please). As long as you’re cute, soft, and chill I’d have a great time doing anything from cuddling to fulfilling your darkest fantasy. My strongest desire is for genuine, unrestrained attention on my dick and balls. I want to give you the chance to treat them as if no one were watching, as if they were your own. Not like if they were your genitals but like if you had unfettered access to disembodied male genitalia, zero worry for judgment, you get it. Some things that strike this chord for me are deepthroat practice, stimming with my balls/nutsack, casual/indifferent touching while you’re focused on something else like studying, using me just because you want my cum (for science, not babies), bj while you’re wearing headphones and not paying attention to me. Doesn’t need to be one of those specific things, but roleplay doesn’t really fit for me here. I’d like it to be genuine, so I want to find a partner who genuinely wants this. Next to all that, I want to orally worship a pillow princess. I have less experience with this so I have fewer details haha but there’s an element of a hot popular girl treating me dismissively like a pathetic quiet boy next door she’s using for oral. Direct communication and trust would be really important here. Of course, that’s true of any situation that may arise from this post.

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u/New-Independence7359 — 2 months ago