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Saw a bumper sticker that said that on my way to work this morning. Can’t even drive to work without feeling like I’m being mocked.

Over the years I’ve heard her make a few comments and jokes about small penises. She always laughs at jokes about small penises when she sees one in a movie or tv show, and makes comments about guys she doesn’t like “compensating” for something. I once even overheard her say on the phone that someone “probably has a 3 inch penis” when I was a kid (mine is now 3.5).

The worst is when jokes about Trump having a small dick come up. She hates him and always thinks that’s hysterically funny. A few years ago when someone put up a statue of Trump naked with a small dick she told me about it and was especially amused by his “tiny little penis”. I looked it up and it basically looked like my soft penis.

I don’t mean to blame her, since I’m sure she wasn’t trying to embarrass me or anything, but I definitely got the impression that penis size mattered as I was growing up, which probably contributed to my insecurity.

I don’t really know what to do about that so I always just laugh along. It’s frustrating enough that small penises are always treated as a joke, but what can I do? Just a very weird, uncomfortable situation that comes up every now and then.

I know I’m smaller than most other guys, and I don’t really think about it that much in my day-to-day life. But when I see another guys dick and it’s a lot bigger than mine, it sort of colors how I feel around them.

I know I shouldn’t let it bother me that much, but I do feel like less of a man. I don’t use public showers or anything, so it’s not like other people are seeing mine, but I’ll see other guys at the gym and if it’s someone I know a bit I can’t help but feel a bit inferior to them.

The main example that comes to mind is when I was a teenager and I accidentally saw my step dad peeing, and it turned out he was extremely well endowed. We didn’t really like each other much, so finding that out was so much bigger bummed me out, even though I know I shouldn’t really care.

Does anyone else have feelings of inferiority like this?