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I said no to being a “hotwife” for three years. Then everything changed. More below

I didn’t become a “hotwife” overnight… I actually resisted the idea for 3 years. And, I need to tell you something before you scroll past this.

Just to be clear, I’m not a sex coach. I don’t have a degree in anything that qualifies me to talk about relationships. I’m a mom. And a wife of 15+ years. I volunteer at my kids’ school. I bake cookies for the bake sale. I’m very “normal” lol

And for three years, when my husband, Matt, brought up the hotwife fantasy, I said no. Every time. I thought it was something that happened in porn — not in real marriages. Not in ours. We’d been together since we were nineteen. First love. First everything. I had never once felt like something was missing.

I rolled my eyes at every woman online who said opening their marriage made it stronger. I thought it was bullshit. It actually kind of annoyed me. I thought they were different from me. More sexual. Less real.

Now I realize, I was soooo wrong.

One year in. Eight experiences. Five men. And Matt and I are closer than we have ever been. We’ve had so many couples — real, normal couples — reach out to us saying that us sharing our story helped and inspired them. It’s been one of my favorite unexpected things about this hotwife adventure — helping other couples navigate it and say YES to it in a healthy way.

I wrote Same Team because I couldn’t find myself in any of the stories out there. Every woman sharing her experience already seemed to want it — already seemed like some version of herself I didn’t recognize. Nobody was writing for the woman who took three years. Nobody was writing the honest version.

So I did.

This isn’t explicit. It’s not a how-to for finding partners or navigating apps. It’s the emotional roadmap — the conversations that actually changed things, what I was really protecting when I said no, what Matt did that backfired vs. what finally worked, and what the first time actually felt like from inside a twenty-year marriage.

The hype is real. But only if you do it the right way. Together.

If you’re the husband who’s been carrying this alone — this is for you.

If you’re the wife who’s somewhere between curious and terrified — this is especially for you.

🔗 Link in bio and below \~Same team. 💋

SAME TEAM GUIDE: https://greatscott8.gumroad.com/l/hwconversationguide

SAME TEAM CONVERSATION SCRIPTS: https://greatscott8.gumroad.com/l/conversationscripts